美女为何嫁不出去 - Why aren't pretty girls getting married?
This is another interesting article I read from MyPaper 我报。I shall post the exact Chinese article and try to translate it for my English speaking readers. =)
我报 生活版 2008年4月8日 星期二
我们几个女人最爱八卦，每天午餐，几乎有一半的时间用来gossip。那天，May说，通常美女不愁没人追，可是我们财务部的主管朱美美为什么嫁不出去。Ms Shenton我回去后想了很久，或许可以归纳为以下几个原因。
心理难关
第一，心理优越感会让美女延误婚姻大事，认为只有自己挑人家，没有人家条自己的。于是，美女对朋友一直左挑右选。结果挑来选去，身边的男人都以为这个美女高不可攀，或者是一脚踏几只船，最后让男人都等厌了、看穿了，失去了信心和耐心，找个平凡女人结婚了。美女就在这种态度不明朗的情况下，失去大好机会。青春易逝，等自己清醒过来时，发觉更难在身边的男人中选个满意的，到了那时一切都已经来不及了。
期望过高
其次，期望过高让美女更容易遇到感情骗子。许多美女总是不爱正眼瞧瞧身边的男人，老是幻想奇迹出现，能遇到白马王子。于是左等右等，等到花儿都谢了，完美情人始终没有出现。或许，好不容易梦想的白马王子终于出现了，但好梦易醒，后来竟然发现“白马王子”是一个大骗子。几经蹉跎，大好年岁已逝，而美女心中的夙愿未了，又不愿就此降低要求，还没有找到适合人选结婚，倒先成了“怨妇”。
想多玩一下
第三，想多玩一下暧昧的心理，让自己嫁不到好男人。美女知道自己不结婚，身价才高，一旦结婚，就把终身系于一线之上。于是，自愿处于一堆暧昧的情感之中，约会不断，准男友也比比皆是。真正喜欢自己的男人，可能反而会静处一隅。长期处于暗恋之中的男人，发现美女的心思只在游戏人间，最后只好远离美女而去。当美女想正正经经找个男友成家之时，才发现身边的男人只把自己当情人看待，没有一个愿意与她结婚。
遇到坏男人
第四，有些美女由于自身在生活情趣和人生观上存在缺陷，偏偏喜欢坏男人。美女想要托付终身，没想到坏男人需要的只是她的色相和新鲜感。得到了、没有新鲜感了，美女也就失去价值了。像这类受过情伤打击的美女，在感情路上，自然不会一帆风顺。
Basically, the writer of this article analyse the reason why pretty girls aren't getting married. After deep thoughts, she came up with 4 reasons.
Psychological Barrier
First, pretty women feel great about themselves in every way. Being so, they always feel that only they are choosing their suitors and never the other way round. Therefore, they take their time picking the right one. However, as they're taking their own time, men would start to feel that these pretty women are playing hard to get or are having afew boyfriends at a time. In the end, men got sick of waiting, lost confidence and patience, then decided to marry ordinary women. That's how pretty women lost their good valuable men. As time goes by and youth won't wait, pretty women find it harder to find the right one among those guys around them. Often, pretty women got to realize it too late.
Overly high expectations
Having high expectations let pretty women bumped into cheaters at times. Pretty women normally don't take proper look at honest realiable guys around them. They dream of meeting their prince charming one day. They waited and waited, seasons passed, yet their prince charming never came. Or, they finally met their prince charming. Good dreams never last. In time to come, they realized that these prince charmings are just plain cheaters. Time after time, pretty women bumped into these cheaters, they started to lose hope in love. However, they find it hard to lower their expectations. Often, they end up not being able to find their right one and therefore stayed single.
Enjoying singlehood
Every women love the feeling of being courted. Pretty women are no exception. And they know they as long as they don't get married, they possess greater value. Therefore, pretty women choose to stay in the game of courtship, enjoying the attention of many suitors at any one time. They had countless dates & numerous suitors at their feet. Seeing these, men who truly love these pretty women might just end up watching in a corner at these women enjying their game. Slowly, these men come to realize that maybe these pretty women just want to be in this courtship game and know nothing of true love, they stayed away from the pretty women. When these pretty women had enough fun with their game and want to settle down, they then realized those suitors merely treated them as lovers. None has the intention of marrying them.
Meeting bad guys
Last but not least, some women simply have the soft spot for bad guys. Pretty women love bad guys, alot of us heard of that. Though these pretty women wanted someone to settle down with, bad guys merely want sex. Once bad guys get what they want, these pretty women hold no more value to them. After suffering blows like that, pretty women lost all faith in the path of love.
我报 生活版 2008年4月8日 星期二
我们几个女人最爱八卦，每天午餐，几乎有一半的时间用来gossip。那天，May说，通常美女不愁没人追，可是我们财务部的主管朱美美为什么嫁不出去。Ms Shenton我回去后想了很久，或许可以归纳为以下几个原因。
心理难关
第一，心理优越感会让美女延误婚姻大事，认为只有自己挑人家，没有人家条自己的。于是，美女对朋友一直左挑右选。结果挑来选去，身边的男人都以为这个美女高不可攀，或者是一脚踏几只船，最后让男人都等厌了、看穿了，失去了信心和耐心，找个平凡女人结婚了。美女就在这种态度不明朗的情况下，失去大好机会。青春易逝，等自己清醒过来时，发觉更难在身边的男人中选个满意的，到了那时一切都已经来不及了。
期望过高
其次，期望过高让美女更容易遇到感情骗子。许多美女总是不爱正眼瞧瞧身边的男人，老是幻想奇迹出现，能遇到白马王子。于是左等右等，等到花儿都谢了，完美情人始终没有出现。或许，好不容易梦想的白马王子终于出现了，但好梦易醒，后来竟然发现“白马王子”是一个大骗子。几经蹉跎，大好年岁已逝，而美女心中的夙愿未了，又不愿就此降低要求，还没有找到适合人选结婚，倒先成了“怨妇”。
想多玩一下
第三，想多玩一下暧昧的心理，让自己嫁不到好男人。美女知道自己不结婚，身价才高，一旦结婚，就把终身系于一线之上。于是，自愿处于一堆暧昧的情感之中，约会不断，准男友也比比皆是。真正喜欢自己的男人，可能反而会静处一隅。长期处于暗恋之中的男人，发现美女的心思只在游戏人间，最后只好远离美女而去。当美女想正正经经找个男友成家之时，才发现身边的男人只把自己当情人看待，没有一个愿意与她结婚。
遇到坏男人
第四，有些美女由于自身在生活情趣和人生观上存在缺陷，偏偏喜欢坏男人。美女想要托付终身，没想到坏男人需要的只是她的色相和新鲜感。得到了、没有新鲜感了，美女也就失去价值了。像这类受过情伤打击的美女，在感情路上，自然不会一帆风顺。
Basically, the writer of this article analyse the reason why pretty girls aren't getting married. After deep thoughts, she came up with 4 reasons.
Psychological Barrier
First, pretty women feel great about themselves in every way. Being so, they always feel that only they are choosing their suitors and never the other way round. Therefore, they take their time picking the right one. However, as they're taking their own time, men would start to feel that these pretty women are playing hard to get or are having afew boyfriends at a time. In the end, men got sick of waiting, lost confidence and patience, then decided to marry ordinary women. That's how pretty women lost their good valuable men. As time goes by and youth won't wait, pretty women find it harder to find the right one among those guys around them. Often, pretty women got to realize it too late.
Overly high expectations
Having high expectations let pretty women bumped into cheaters at times. Pretty women normally don't take proper look at honest realiable guys around them. They dream of meeting their prince charming one day. They waited and waited, seasons passed, yet their prince charming never came. Or, they finally met their prince charming. Good dreams never last. In time to come, they realized that these prince charmings are just plain cheaters. Time after time, pretty women bumped into these cheaters, they started to lose hope in love. However, they find it hard to lower their expectations. Often, they end up not being able to find their right one and therefore stayed single.
Enjoying singlehood
Every women love the feeling of being courted. Pretty women are no exception. And they know they as long as they don't get married, they possess greater value. Therefore, pretty women choose to stay in the game of courtship, enjoying the attention of many suitors at any one time. They had countless dates & numerous suitors at their feet. Seeing these, men who truly love these pretty women might just end up watching in a corner at these women enjying their game. Slowly, these men come to realize that maybe these pretty women just want to be in this courtship game and know nothing of true love, they stayed away from the pretty women. When these pretty women had enough fun with their game and want to settle down, they then realized those suitors merely treated them as lovers. None has the intention of marrying them.
Meeting bad guys
Last but not least, some women simply have the soft spot for bad guys. Pretty women love bad guys, alot of us heard of that. Though these pretty women wanted someone to settle down with, bad guys merely want sex. Once bad guys get what they want, these pretty women hold no more value to them. After suffering blows like that, pretty women lost all faith in the path of love.
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