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Begining to end..

Saturday, 31/12/2005 - Every begining should has an end! It's the last day of year 2005 - an end to a yr. Time to recap on the past yr and settled our outstanding matters. Alot of things in life begin and head towards an end. The end is normally the reason y anything wld 1st begins to happen. To explain this pt more clearly, the reason we studied(begining) is because we wanted to acheive a cert, diploma or degree(end). The reason y we go into a r/s(begining) is bcoz we want to end up in marriage for most of us(end). Hwever the end results may nt alwiz be the same as wat we desired to achieve when we first begin sth. Bt watever it is, once we let sth begins, we shld alwiz end it..nv open another door when the previous door is still open..

Once is enough..

Friday, 30/12/2005 - Never repeat a mistake! Making a mistake once maybe forgivable. Bt we muz alwiz learn frm our mistake & try nv ever to make the same stupid mistake again. Some of the mistakes tt we made if repeat may caused hurt/harm to us or others, which is y we muz take extra care to eliminate the risk of making the same mistake. Year 2006 is coming soon in less than a blink of an eye. Take this last day to recap on wat u have done for the yr 2005 and wat are the things you did right or wrong. Continue the good stuff & throw away the bad. Wish everyone a Happy and Smooth Sailing Year 2006 in advance!

***The Keys to Our Hearts***

Try this quiz. I think most of you have seen it before. But no harm doing it again.. ***The Keys to My Heart*** You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but hot as fire in the heart. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change. You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. ***The Keys to Her Heart*** You are attracted to those who have a spl

Feeling good..

Thursday, 29/12/2005 - It's not just you; make others feel good about themselves! It's gd to haf self confidence, bt it's even better if u can make others' self confidence increases when they're with u. It's not easy, bt it's achievable. Continue to encourage postive behavior & praise gd wk being done. U'll make the other person feel gd abt themselves & u'll taste the fruits of achievement too! P/S: Dear folks, this is 1 of the few last entries of 语录 I'm writing. 31st Dec 2005 will be the last 语录 entry. Bt I'll still continue to blog. Wat would be the contents, shall juz wait & see..Mb continue my long ago 2b continued story, mb poems, mb drawings, mb mb mb..haha =D

Right or Wrong?

Wednesday, 28/12/2005 - Some things we do have no definite answer of right or wrong! When you encountered situations whr u haf absolutely no idea which ways to choose, take the 1 u'll find happiness in now. Coz of 2 general principles..1st, we do not noe wat the future may hold or hw far is the future for us, so wat matters most is now, the prsent. 2nd, dun u agree out of so many kinds of feelings in this world, like hate, anger, sadness; happiness is the most sought after feeling and is defintely the best to have? So go on, find your happiness now!

Tears worthwhile..

Tuesday, 27/12/2005 - He who's worth your tears would not makes you cry! This was spread around the internet for very long. And now I specially dedicate it to my dear.. I'm sorry for making you tear more than once 2nite.. I'm sorry to hurt you.. I nv meant 2.. I had nv distrust u b4.. I merely dun tink I'm worth ur trust, I had bad records.. but I'm truly gladful tt u trust me with all your heart & telling me ur deepest feelings which no1 else noe.. I told u b4 I'll nv be the 1st to walk out of this.. This promise shall still remains no matter what.. You can 4get about any other things tt I've said, bt alwiz remember I hold my promises true to u with all my heart & I really love u!

Defeat selfishness!

Monday, 26/12/2005 - Human's greatest feat is to overcome selfishness! Most of us are selfish in 1 way or another. And the level of selfishness is different in everyone. Some ppl's selfishness caused inconvenience to others whr other's selfishness may mean having others to scacrifice for them. We muz try our best to prevent our selfishness from taking over us at all times. Do things tt benefit the majority and nt think the world evolves ard u. You would be amazed!

Limitations!

Sunday, 25/12/2005 - Don't stretch people's limits! Even a rubber band has its limit of being stretched. Any further, it would break & hit the hands of the person stretching it. So humans are the same. Some ppl has higher limit of tolerance but there's still a limit. So never go too far in trying to provoke ppl. Realize ur own weakness & acknowledge the fact that everyone makes mistakes. Don't think the whole world hafta gives in to you & never take other ppl's kindness as weakness either! 2B05 ppl reading my blog should find the last sentence v.familiar..haha (".) But I do agree with wat Gabriel Sim said abt tt sentence. 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1! MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE! May this Christmas be a wonderful one for you!

Family's Warmth!

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Saturday, 24/12/2005 - Family's Warmth - The best heater in the cold! Ohana - means family & family means no one gets left out or forgotten! When I have my happy times, family members are among the first I wana share my happiness with. Whenever things went wrong, I know my family members would alwiz be dere for me no matter hw many disappointments I have brought to them b4. In times of good & bad, family will be dere..I love my OHANA! Family's Warmth!

Giving..

Friday, 23/12/2005 - 施比受更有福! When you are the giving party, it means you have extra things to spare and dun lack of anything. Shouldn't you be thankful for that den? Start giving now. As you give, you actually gain more too. Happiness is 1 of them and juz that alone gives you all the reasons to give. Who wouldn't want happiness in life?

Power of Love!

Thursday, 22/12/2005 - Love gives people power! Love can makes miracles happen. It gives every living creature the power to create wonders. You do things you never think you can for the one you love. When you're down, you think of your loved ones and it gives you the motivation to go on. Alot of things in life evolves around love, it's all about love!

Reflection..

Wednesday, 21/12/2005 - Life is like a mirror! Whatever things you do to others nw, be it good or bad will slowly reflect itself back on u. It's just a matter of time. So nv do harm to others, treat every1 wif a sincere heart. What goes around comes around. Always rem that!

At press time..

Tuesday, 20/12/2005 - Now is the right time! There's never a rite time to do anything. You had been thinking of doing sth. You'll say, "I shall do this when that time comes." Hey, wake up man! All you gona do is to wait, wait & wait..nth is gona come out from waiting & thinking. Lift urself up, go out there & do the things u had wanted to! Be it learn a new skill, go to a new place, take up a new hobby, watever it is. As long as it's realistic to fulfill, go ahead & reach for ur dreams nw. Dreams can only come true when u wake up & start working towards it!

Life's joy!

Monday, 19/12/2005 - Life is about spreading joy to people around you! Joy is like the flu virus. It's easily transmit from one person to another. When one's happy, they can influence the people who comes in contact with them. Christmas is just around the corner, go on & spread the joy virus around & make sure every1 catch them this Christmas!

Blessing!

Sunday, 18/12/2005 - To be able to do the things you like is a blessing! Once in awhile, squeeze some time out of ur tight schedule. Do the little things that you like. It would help u to recharge your body & refresh your mind. Naturally, you will feel happier too. This kind of blessing is self-obtained, dun deprived yourself of that chance 2b blessed!

Stick to your stand!

Saturday, 17/12/2005 - Make your stand and stick to it! Convey ur point to the other party. Whether he/she choose to believe it or not, it's up to them to take it or leave it. But make clear ur stand and stick to it. Nv give in to their accusation juz bcoz u're too lazy to debate or defend urself anymore. Throw them the sentence, "I have said it and that's the only truth. Believe it or not, you choose!"

Influence!

Friday, 16/12/2005 - Influence - A powerful weapon! Ppl can be influenced by other ppl, surrounding, environment, etc. And it can be used as a powerful weapon either to construct or to destroy. Humans can be influenced to do good deeds or perform bad acts. And influence can be direct or indirect. Be careful with ur words and actions, u may be indirectly influencing the younger generation, especially if they view u as their life idols.

World's revolution!

Thursday, 15/12/2005 - 世界不会为任何人停止转动! Time won't pause for u juz like the world would continue to spin wif or w/o u. No1 can't do w/o any1. So nv think u're great. Ppl may find it hard to move on wif things if u're gone, but there's still a way to go on. Juz make sure when u're still ard, do ur best in everything u can. Don't leave urself a chance to regret & others a chance to bad mouth u in the future.

Move with your decision!

Wednesday, 14/12/2005 - You have decided, move on! Once you have make a decision, no point looking back. Even if it was a deadly wrong move to do, don't cry over spill milk. Move on, coz life haf to continue. Staying on the same spot wun do any help to u or others.

Changes

Tuesday, 13/12/2005 - Don't plan about changes, change and adapt! Nv plan hw are u gona survive after chaning, or wat are u gona do abt the changes. Simply go ahead & change if u noe it will only do u more good than bad. Changed & adapt to the way things have changed. If u keep thinking and do nothing, there would nv be a right time to make changes. The best time is now!

Clear conscience!

Monday, 12/12/2005 - 问心无愧! It doesn't really matter hw other perceived us 2b. As long as we noe the things we have done is nt against our conscience and is defintely upright. There's nth for us 2b worried abt. Watever it is, the general rule is to be true to urself!

Multiple Choices.

Sunday, 11/12/2005 - Everyone prefers to have choices! When we were schooling, I guess most of us would be delighted to know that the next test would be a multiple choices test. We all love to have choices. So whenever you can, add choices for others in ur daily life. For your love ones, frenz, subordinates & whosoever you interact with. You would be surprised to see the changes in their reactions and replies. Go on, try it!

Strong!

Saturday, 10/12/2005 - We are stronger than we know! There's hidden power in us waiting 2b unleashed only when danger comes. When faced wif dangers, we humans haf a natural instinct to unleash our hidden power and can do alot of things we can't normally. 在生死边缘,人会发出无限的力量! Got today thoughts after watching 2 shows recently, 'Saw II' & 'The Descent'. Strongly encourage my dear readers to watch these 2 shows. But words of warning, "NOT SUITABLE FOR THE WEAK HEARTS!".

Blessed Happiness!

Friday, 09/12/2005 - Having someone to share happiness is a blessing! As they said happiness shared get doubled, you feel great to share your happiness with someone. Your life seems complete by having the same person there all the time to share your happiness with. Be it rain or shine, day or night, all through the year, they're there. Gal, no doubt I used to love her alot. Seeing her again didn't rekindle our love or anything. I'm not a FOSA as what XH said, k? For now, it's truly you & only you that I love, I wana be faithful & sincere to. Mb things will take a change for us soon. What we are having is at a risk of being lost, but it won't stop me from showering you with all my love, care and concern. I am still the same Ivan you know and I am still holding true to all my promises I made.

快乐的结果!

Thursday, 08/12/2005 - 不在乎结果的过程最快乐! Only when we can totally stop worrying abt wat the end result will be, will we be able to enjoy the process. The same thing, same process that happens, can alwiz haf diff kinds of endings. Y shld u bothered too much then? It's sth u can't haf any ctrl over anyway. Juz enjoy the process while u're still at it!

Wednesday, 07/12/2005 - 简单爱 = 非占有或毁灭! 无需占有对方的爱,更没有必要毁灭他或她与另一半的爱。爱是包容与谅解,体恤彼此。有时甚至需要以退出和成全来表现你完整的爱。无私的奉献是爱的基础。也许残忍,不公平,但都是难免的。 爱本来都只是两个人的事,无需理会他人的一言一语,交待也只是对彼此。别人知道这段关系与否并不重要,只要你我心中有对方以足够。

Be willing!

Tuesday, 06/12/2005 - Do things out of own will! Never do things bcoz of others. We shldn't be our own centre of attraction, thinking that the world evolves ard us & spins only bcoz of us. Neither shld be do things to satisfy others. It shld be out of our own will. Only then will u be happy & nt regret wif the decsions u made.

Mind ur heart!

Monday, 05/12/2005 - Your heart has a mind of its own! Alot of times, we encountered cases when our heart & mind dun think as one. That's bcoz our hearts have minds of their own. And the mind is of more logical thinking whereas the heart based on emotions & feelings. Though we said dun let emotions affect the way u handle things, it's sometimes a wise choice to follow ur gut feelings too. The mind can nv be right all the times even if it's 90% accurate most of the times.

Fear!

Sunday, 04/12/2005 - Fear held us back! Alot of times, we didn't managed to do alot of things is all bcoz of the fear in us. Fear nt only held us back, they may even eat us up. We give in to our own fear. Coz it's easier to give in than to fight back. Human's nature is to take the easy way out. But mb if we're brave enuf to fight back, we would have been able to achieve more. I think we shld really try to face our fear & get over them..try wif the small ones 1st to give u a sense of achievement.

Treasure!

Saturday, 03/12/2005 - 珍惜身边那个! No1 can stays by ur side 4ever. Whoever is wif u nw muz be some1 u love, cherish and enjoy being wif. So treat them well. Coz u nv noe when wld they leave u. Be it willling or unwilling, 1 day, they can't be by ur side like they are nw. Nv wait till nw 2b sad or regret. Treasure them like u wld if u noe tml they wun be wif u anymore. So, 4gt abt the quarrel & nv use the hurtful words. Show ur love, care & concern nw.

Friends!

Friday, 02/12/2005 - Friends are placed in the hearts no matter how great is the distance between us! To all my friends, no matter how seldom I contact u. As long as u're one whose path once crossed mine, u'll alwiz be in my heart. Friendships remain and never can end! I maybe v.bz wif alot of things in life. But nv hesitate to ask me for help in anything. I'll still squeeze out time to hear u out, to give u a hand or do anything to help u. Ivan is alwiz juz a phonecall away..

Support & Confirmation..

Thursday, 01/12/2005 - Everyone needs support in their decisions and confirmation in their performance! When we made certain decisions, we would alwiz hope our close ones would support us till the end. But it's kind of sad to admit the fact tt some of the time, we dun gt the support we need. And when we perform a certain task, we need confirmation from others to make us feel that we're doing a great job. So the next time, some1 do sth, nv be stingy wif ur compliments. Compliment them wif a "Job well done!" It do wonders!