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Motivate yourself! 自我激励!

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24/11/13 :- Motivate yourself! 自我激励! I have been thinking a lot these days; (in fact, I always do) since I know I am persistent when it comes to love, why not use it as a motivation? I have goals which I never seem to be 100% motivated in achieving them. I set them, then I try for a while and either give in to temptation or give up completely. In order to really achieve what I want, I know I have got to do something NOW! Things just happen at the right time all together. Sunshine has left Singapore for a while once more and I have found my true calling in my career, it's the right time to fully concentrate on what I want. So, from now on, I'm going to keep the most important part of me - my heart into the freezer. Till I've achieved the goal of a 6 packs body and become the director of my own company earning a 5-figure monthly income, I shall not spend/waste my time on love. Love has by far, played the most part of my life and I know I would want to redeem

Learn to let go... 学会放下。。。

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15/11/13 :- Learn to let go... 学会放下。。。 Often, every little thing thrown in our direction by the people around us; family members, friends, teachers, bosses, colleagues, etc, we make it seems like a heavy rock has just been placed on our shoulders and we have to carry it with us in every step we make. Similarly, when we lose something we thought was precious to us, we harp on it for the longest time. The heavy rock slows us down, soon we get tired trying to carry it and we got so frustrated and stress follows. Depression sets in sometimes. With the loss that was magnified, we behave like it isn't worth living anymore. Self blame or self pity starts creeping in and slowly devour us. However, all these are choices we get to make in life. Do you want to treat the obstacles and losses in life as a heavy rock or just a drop in the ocean? It is not easy and for me, I am still learning... However, think about this, wouldn't life be so much easier if we can simply try