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Heart & ears..

Saturday, 27/08/2005 - Listens with your heart, not hears with your ears! Alot of us makes tis mistake unknowingly. Hw many times when some1 is toking to u, u 4gt the next min or when the person ask for ur comment, u asked them wat they juz said? We're humans, tt's y we make mistakes. Bt we ought to try harder to reduce mistakes being make. No1 is perfect, nv think u're alwiz correct!

A foolish kind of happiness..

Friday, 26/08/2005 - 傻人也会有傻福! Things will nt alwiz be at the pit for u, it may juz turn ard & in no time, u're at the peak. Sometimes, u juz nid to learn to be a simple person wif a simple mind to find the happiness u've been seeking for.

Fight for it!

Thursday, 25/08/2005 - 很多事要靠自己去争取! Some things ppl can help u, bt hw far can they help? The rest of the path, u still hafta travel on ur own. And if u really want sth, show it, do it & get it! Tt's the only way!

Consequences & HAPPINESS!

Today, I have 2 语录..Mb alot happened & I tink alot 2day..duno aso.. Wednesday, 24/08/2005 - 1) Always think of the consequences before doing something! 2) 能够拥有已经是幸福! Sometimes, at a specific moment, our rashness may make us wana do sth at tt very moment. Most of the times, if we can't calm ourselves dw in time & do tt thing, we might regret. Nv let rashness rules ur mind. The consequences may be too much for u to bear! When we have a 4 rm flat, we want a bigger hse like an executive flat. When we have a normal saloon car, we want to have a bigger car like Mercedes. To be able to own sth, some1 is alrd a kind of happiness, treasure it. Dun ask for too much, be contented!

Giving VS Receiving!

Tuesday, 23/04/2005 - Do not be affected by the amount you received in return! No1 has ever tell u tt the amt u gave will be the amt u'll receive in return. And most of the time, we give on our own will. No1 forced us to. Bt we tend to be very bothered at times when the amt we rec'd is nv equal to the amt we gave. Most often than nt, we rec'd less than we gave. Bt well, all I can say is tt's life. Hwever, we shld continue giving. Bcoz I believe our rewards will be given to us fairly 1 fine day.

Time!

Monday, 22/08/2005 - Don't complain about the time lost, plan how to use it more efficiently the next time! No pt complain abt hw u wld do better if u haf more time for ur test, competition, etc. Plan for better time management the next time round or u'll nv improve juz by complaining. Crying over spill milk will only let u live in the past & get stuck dere..U hafta move forward! Life goes on even if u fail a test, lost a competition..Time will juz continue ticking away..
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Stones & gems..

Sunday, 21/08/2005 - 放下手中的石才能抓住人生的幸福! In life, alot of times, we find it hard to let go of sth tt we shld. They're the stones in our hands tt's hindering us to pursue the happiness in life we deserved. Hw r u gona pick up the gems when ur hands are full of useless stones? Mb u tot they were gems when u 1st picked them up, bt take a closer look & u may juz be able 2c tt they're juz stones.

双倍的快乐!

Saturday, 20/08/2005 - 分享的快乐不是每个人都能体会! I'm glad I grow up in a very big family compared to alot of my frenz. We were taught to share. And it's really a joy to share. Supper tastes nicer, toys seem more interesting to play with, troubles get halved & most impt, happiness get doubled, or even triple! Learn to share, u may nt be used to it in the begining, some ppl may even think they lose out(lugi), bt soon, u'll feel the happiness of sharing. I duno abt u, bt it brings joy to me when I give up some of wat I haf to others & c the big smile on their face.

The little things that matter!

Friday, 19/08/2005 - It's not the things you do, but the experience gained! Today motivational sayings come from Fm93.3 music diary. Frm my memory, here it goes.. There was this ger who wanted v.much 2 become a reporter. So after she graduated frm Uni, she went to this firm & interview. She gt the job. Hwever as there were no vacancy for a reporter, she was told to run errands for the reporters. She didn't mind at 1st, coz she holds the hope of becoming a reporter in a short while. 1 of her daily tasks is to make coffee or tea for all her collegues. Soon, 3 mths passed, she was still nt promoted to a reporter & she gt sick of making beverages e'day. One fine day, her boss tasted the tea she made & was mad. He shouted at her, "A simple cup of tea, you can't even make it well, what kind of Uni graduate are you?!" She was boiling mad & wanted to quit dere & den. Hwever, a v.impt client came & she was asked to make tea for him. She thought

Follow the crowd or Lead them!

Thursday, 18/08/2005 - Think out of the box! There's a set of rules for almost everything. But bending the rules to do things may nt be wrong. Coz the set of rules were the way to which hw a particular thing can be done, a problem can be solved. It's juz happened he/she was the 1st to come out wif tt. Most ppl are lazy, they juz wana follow instructions & do it. They refused to take abit of time out to tink of hw to do it in a better or faster way. Let's start to be the minority of ppl! P/S: Bending the rules doesn't mean breaking the law! (I have minors reading my blog, must explain clearly..haha XD Roan, u're 1 of those I'm refering to. Alwiz like to challenge my blog entries.)

Dangerous contented!

Wednesday, 17/08/2005 - Never be too contented, it's dangerous! When u start to get contented in life, u wld no longer tink of ways to improve urself. And it would lead to you losing ur stds. Slowly it may even caused self destruction. We as humans are nt even allowed to be self content, coz there wld alwiz be better ppl out dere. Or there wld alwiz be rm for improvement in watever we do. So juz kip on doing, even if u're at ur tip top condition, u still nid to make sure e'time u do the same thing, u get the same 100% std!

Rusty rust..

Tuesday, 16/08/2005 - Things tend to get rusty when you don't use them! Have you ever experienced getting weak in a particular area when it'd haf been a long time since u last did tt thing? Skills can get rusty. Things tt can be seen, felt can aso gt rusty over time. Accessories you dun wear for a long time will start to turn rusty too. Morale of the story - Use your skills as often as you could, revise the things you know. Use your stuff more frequent too. >.<

No hardships = no fruits of labour

Monday, 15/08/2005 - You know hardships are nothing when you get to taste the fruits of your efforts! When we're wking hard like a bull, we wish we didn't hafta wk so hard. Bt when u start 2c the results of ur efforts, u're glad u didn't give up. Coz if u had, u wld nv taste the swt fruits of our labour! I duno abt u ppl, bt to me, it's simply worth the efforts. This mentality kips me going whenever I feel like giving up on sth. I tink of the end result of both holding on & giving up. I rather regret doing sth I shldn't than nt doing sth I shld.

Honour your own, respect others!

Sunday, 14/08/2005 - Be proud of yourself but not discriminate others! Alot of time, for alot of things, we tend to tink ours is better. Yes, no doubt it may be the best for us. Bt u hafta respect the other way ppl choose too. Coz it's the best for them too. Wat am I toking abt? Ppl may ask. I wish to state things clearer. Bt if I do, mb I wld offend afew ppl. So I choose nt to. Bt most impt thing, honour ur own decisions bt you must respect others' decisions!

Mastermind!

Saturday, 13/08/2005 - Your mind is the master of your body and YOU are the master of your mind! Your mind can tell ur body alot of things. And you need to noe tt it's YOU urself to tell ur mind wat to do. The mind can ctrl everything including the heart! Yes, affairs of the heart. All u nid is to recognize the presence of ur mind's thinking. The mind is alwiz tinking, bt u 1st nid to haf a clear mind. When ur mind is clear, it can tell u alot of things tt's rite & wat u really shld do. Alot of times, we're troubled coz we refuse to do wat our mind tell us to. I noe it's hard, bt r we gona give up juz bcoz it's hard? Do u tink it's ez to be in pregnancy for 9 mths & give birth? I dun tink it is loh, bt our mums still give birth to us. She went thru so much to bring u to tis world juz to haf a YOU who gives up when things are too tough? Tink again!

Facing up the fact?

Friday, 12/08/2005 - 有些答案早已在面前! Some ans to our queries or problems had long appeared b4 us. We actually even noe they exist. It's juz a matter of whether we wana face the truth. The truth tt hurts, the truth which is nt the ans tt we want, the truth tt we can't bring ourselves to accept it. Mb humans juz love self-deceiving. haha >.<

坚持到底

Thursday, 11/08/2005 - Be like a postage stamp, stick till you get there! Alot of times, alot of us give up 1/2-way when things get too hard. We nv believe we can achieve by holding on. If only we can stick to wat we plan to do in the 1st place, work towards our goal.

自己跌倒自己爬

Wednesday - 10/08/2005 - It's okay if you fall! We'll nv learn hw to walk until we fell dw alot of times when we were toddlers. We picked ourselves up & try again, we even tried to start running b4 we even mastered the art of walking. We had been so much braver. As we grow older, we're so afraid to fall. And when we fall, we take a long time to pick ourselves up. Sometimes, some of us simply sit there, refused to get up. Y? Whr has the brave u gone to? Nv be afraid to fall, coz it's part of life. Juz rem to pick urself up when u fall. U can sit there & be sad or cry for all u want, bt at the end of everything, u muz pick urself up once more & try again!

自寻烦恼

Tuesday, 09/08/2005 - 人生的一些烦恼是自找的! In life, we haf alot of problems, troubles & never ending headaches. Bt some of them are created by ourselves. For some things where we need to let nature takes its course, we tend to worry abt them. And sometimes, we tink too much & too deep into it which causes us endless worries. So let loose of things which aren't meant 2b. Kip on tinking wld only make u worse. P/S: It's Singapore National Day! Happy 40th Birthday Singapore!! May our country prosper!!!

Past VS Present!

Monday, 08/08/2005 - The past don't reflect the present! Wat u're in the past will never ever reflect wat kind of person u're in the future! Coz ppl changes, from gd to bad & vice versa. It's ok if u're a bad rotten egg in the past, as long as u're willing to change for the gd, ur close ones will alwiz be willing to accept u. Ur family, partner & frenz. If they dun, they're nt even worth 2b call ur close ones. Unless u really did some realy bad stuff to them..den u haf no1 else to blame except urself.

Smile! =)

Sunday, 07/08/2005 - Happiness is a choice! Everyone has a choice to be happy. Dun find excuses for the state you are in, dun put the blame on any1 for it either. Yes, sometimes, somethings or some ppl will makes you upset, angry, sad or watsoever. Bt the ultimate decision lies in u on wat kind of emotions u wana haf. Since u haf a choice, y nt choose 2b happy? Tink, really go tink abt it. Y do we haf to let others decide hw we shld feel? Control, haf self control, be the master of ur own decisions & nt let other factors affect u!

Find someone to talk to.

Saturday, 06/08/2005 - Tell someone your problems! The other party may nt be able to help u in any way. Bt u get to voice out. Some1 is willing to lend u a listening ear. U might juz feel better after saying wat u kept in ur heart.

HeLp?!

Friday, 05/08/2005 - Help yourself if you want others to help you! U alwiz hafta help urself 1st b4 any1 else even god can help u. If u give up on urself, who else wld wana pull u up again? It takes 2 hands to clap. No matter hw sincere any1 wana help u, unless u let them to & help urself 1st, nth can be done.

Choice VS Chance

Thursday, 04/08/2005 - By choice, not chance! Though there're things in life we dun haf any or full ctrl over. There's are still things out dere for us to make decision & changes somethings. It's the choices tt we make tt determine the differences. It's not by chance tt sth happens. Even if it's a chance, chances can be self created. It will all goes back to hw you manage it.

Don't let ppl get on ur head..

Wednesday, 03/08/2005 - Be firm! If you haf viewpoints on a certain matter & strongly believe it's correct, den stand up for it, be firm! Don't give in, bt nt sturbborn either. Support ur views, yet open to suggestion & adapt or change. It do both parties gd!

做自己!

Tuesday, 02/08/2005 - Be yourself & feel good about it! It's really gd being urself. No1 u imitate after, no need to be aware of ur actions or words. Coz u're urself, ur words & actions come naturally frm u urself & no1 else. For those who alwiz put on a fake front when wif others, u will nv understand the joy of being urself! Coz u had simply lost ur true self..

Don't wait!

Monday, 01/08/2005 - Make things happen! Don't be the 1 to wait for things to happen, it may be too slow for u to react. Make them happen! Control the situation. You noe what to do better if u're the 1 who start it. And most often than not, u'll be glad u make the 1st step into making it happens!

For show? Save it then!

Sunday, 31/07/2005 - Never do things just for show! Do things out of sincerity! Dun do things juz for ppl 2c..Yah, they'll c..coz soon, they'll noe & be able 2c thru ur fake mask.