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33rd Birthday!

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It's 30th Mar once more. Here I am dedicating yet another post to My Love. =) 33 years ago, this talented girl was born. I'm glad Papa and Mama Tien got together to bring her to this world. 11 Sep 2001, My Love started her singing journey with her "wives". Ever since then, they brought warm to our hearts. Their songs accompany us through our teenage years and we are all going to support them till they are 80 years old as long as they are willing to continue singing. On her birthday, I wished that she would continue to pursue what she truly love and disregard what others said. May she always get to choose the kind of songs she loves to sing. Stay true and keep the green spirit on! We shall both continue to protect the environment as best as we could! To the girl whose heart is made of gold, Happy Lovely Birthday! =D

父愛 - A Dad's love!

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28/03/16 :-  父愛比較含蓄。 Fatherly love is more reserved. He was not my hero. I have never said I want to grow up to be like him. I did not think he was someone I am proud of. It was not even a love-hate relationship we had. However, when he passed on, things slowly took a change. The things he did and words he said, they slowly came back to me... I start to ponder and at times, it brought me heartaches. Recently, I was talking to a new friend on how he has nagged at Mum and me when Mum bought me my first hamster. Then, not long after, he bought me a male one for the female hamster I had. My friend's first reaction was, "That is his love for you. He loves you." It has never dawn on me. Such simple words, it strikes me. Just like many always say, "Just because someone do not love you the want they do, it does not mean they don't." 他不是我的英雄。 我不曾說過長大後要跟他一樣。 我也沒以他為傲。 甚至,我們連愛恨關係都沒有。 但是,當他過世之後,事情開始改變了。 他做過的事,說過的話,

20th friendship-ary! 二十年友誼萬歲!

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Whenever I see this group of friends, I always thought of what Mum said, "In everyone's life, (those who been through secondary school) you would be the closest with your secondary school friends." I'm a blessed guy who is never short of friends. Not just friends, or 1 BFF but a handful of BFFs. Believe it or not, it's in my bazi characters. Thanks to Mummy for giving birth to me there and then. In a flash of an eye, we are celebrating our 20th years of friendship. Growing up was tough, definitely not a smooth path. With their presence, it was so much more bearable. We have all been through lots of ups and downs and also seen each other's worst" state. Though you may not remember, but I would like to take this opportunity to thank you, ladies for :- - Watching me cry when I only got B3 for the first round of "O" levels Chinese. - Being there when Dad left my family. - Listening to my love history and giving wor

Words - Make or break! 言語 - 廉價的代價!

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19/03/16 :- Words - Make or break! 言語 - 廉價的代價! Words which you said, can make or break somebody. Sometimes, it is just for that moment. Most of the times, it lasts for a lifetime. From "Men are Lunatics, Women are Nuts", it was said that the average woman speaks around 5000 words per day whereas the average male speaks around 2000. How many of those words do we actually remember? How much do we prepare ourselves before speaking them? More often than not, we do not remember what we said nor do we have any preparation before speaking them. Yet, we neglect the effect it would have on the listener. Throughout my life, I've heard many things which others have unintentionally spoken. However, they have a deep impact on me till now. As I have been motivated by the positive feedback and was disappointed at the negative comments given, as far as I can, I try my best to only speak of positive encouraging words to people around me now. Howeve