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Nv dig bad stuff!

Saturday, 30/07/2005 - Never raise unhappy stuff! I bet almost every1 of us had quarrels with some1 b4. Our family, frenz, partners, etc. Many a times, we like to drag up old scores(the unhappy ones). It's nt wise to do that. It would only worsen the situation you are in & hurt the other party. Dun let ur emotions get over ur head. Control urself. If u can't, leave for a moment. Come back & talk things out when u cool dw & has a clearer mind.

Show a little kindness!

Friday, 29/07/2005 - Give a little kindness, be helpful! You don't need to do a great deed, juz do abit of kindness every nw & then. You can be a great person too! After the NKF incident, I understand alot of ppl starts to doubt Singapore's charity organization. But all I want to say is, our motive is to help the poor & needy. We trust the organization to make proper full use of the donations. What they did may be wrong, bt we can't deny the fact tt part of our donations did went to those who need them. I would urge every1 of you who read my blog to continue support charity programs, flag days & so on. Mb some of u has nv experience the pain of losing ur kin who contacted a terminal illness that needs lots of funds. Some of u even nv experience the kind of life wif little or no $$ for ur next meal. If dollars mean too much for u, cents will aso make wonder for those who need them. Even a 50 cents for flag day donations can goes a long way. Do at least juz tt, k?

Vexed!

Had been feeling v.vexed. Yesh, alot of things giving me stress. Work, sch, r/s, etc. Seem nv ending work 2b done, boss pushing for things, OT aso can't finish. Bt 1 of my collegue said, "Wk can nv end, coz if it does, u wun be working anymore." Tt's quite true too. I shld be glad I gt work to do, rite? Muz look on the bright side of thing. 3 days of sch a wk is really tired, yet to do any hmwk so far & tests r coming. Bt dun worry, I wun gif up! Shall hang on dere no matter hw tough it is! Bt my hammie babies r such great companions to me! They bring joy 2 me too. Juz by talking to them makes me feel better. W/o fail, I tok to them every night, “贝比,我爱你!你爱我吗?说你也爱我!” My sis said I'm mad. haha =) If I dun tok to them, I tink den I'll go mad. U may tink they dun understand, bt I believe they can feel my love for them. And when I tell them my problems, they wun be able to help by speaking up. They'll listen wif their hearts. They're among my pillars in

My wish for b'day prez! haha =)

My b'day is coming! And it may seems bhb. Bt, I'm a friendly & loyal chap wif lots of frenz. E'yr, whenever my frenz asked wat do I want for my b'day, I told them nt to buy. Bt my frenz r juz as sturbborn as me. They still bought sth 4 me. I appreciate it though I still haf prez sitting in my cabinet since my pri 5 b'day. So tis yr, if u folks really wana buy sth for me. I only nid 1 thing, formal shirts! My size is 15/32. I only want vertical stripes formal shirts & no feminine colors like pink. haha =) Thx folks in advance!

Do what you want!

Thursday, 28/07/2005 - Let it out! When u're feeling -ve, let our ur emotions. Bt defintely nt on some1 else, use alcohol, cigarettes or self-abusive ways. As for me, I tok to every1 abt my problems. I hear alot of different views. Sometimes, I followed none, bt at least I felt better by venting it all out, pour out all my sorrows. I used to go jogging, bt nw, I can't. My health dun permits. At times, if I happened 2b out, I'll go acarde to play my fave drum game. Hit it all! I draw, I write, I play on my guitar. Anything I like 2 do. So if u're feeling down, squeeze out abit of time, even 1/2 an hr, do sth u like. U'll feel better.

Better judgement..

Wednesday, 27/07/2005 - No one is perfect, learn to judge people from different perspective! Nt much explaination is needed for tis. Shall gif a little example den in case there's some abit slow frenz reading my blog. haha =) No lah, diff ppl gt diff frequency, they may nt understand wat I'm trying to say. For e.g, a person can be v.bad tempered, bt he/she can be a v.caring folk. So dun condemn a person juz bcoz of certain bad traits they haf. Try to look out for the diamond underneath the dirt. I believe everyone has at least 1 gd thing abt them!

Kindess for weakness?

Tuesday, 26/07/2005 - Never take people's kindness for granted or try to take advantage of their kindness! Some ppl r juz too kind, nv noe hw to reject other ppl's favor. Bt tt doesn't mean we can take adv of their kindness. 1 of my tutors(I dun really like him, bt it makes abit of sense) once said, dun take kindness for weakness. Ppl are nt obliged to be kind & help u in every way even if it's within their ability. As ppl said there's a limit to tolerance, there's aso a limit to hw much favor ppl can do for u. It's nt as if we can't seek help frm others, bt we juz hafta learn 2b reasonable in our resquests.

The difficult 1st step..

Monday, 25/07/2005 - Be brave, take the 1st step pit, the remaining steps would just get easier! How many times u wanted to do sth, bt nv dare to make the 1st move? In studies, u noe the ans to the qns, bt u're afraid u wld be wrong, u nv dare to raise ur 'heavy' hand & open ur 'golden' mouth to speak. And when the ans came out 2b the 1 u haf, u wished u had make an attempt to do so. U sweared u wana ans the next time u haf an ans, bt u nv did. U saw tis gal who caught ur eyes, capture ur heart. U saw her almost everyday, mb at the same bus stop, even took the same bus, u saw her in ur sch canteen wif the same grp of frenz e'day. U bumped into her in ur co's lift e'morning. U alwiz want to make conversation, bt u nv dare make the 1st step. Soon, u nv see her again anymore. Den u start wishing u had approach her for some contact details. Bt nw, u may haf missed ur chance 4ever.

Go abit further..

Sunday, 24/07/2005 - Sometimes, all you have to do is move a step back and you can see a clearer picture! It's actually quite common sense, isn't it? When u stand too near to a pic & try 2c it, u may nt be able 2c it clearly & u can't c the whole pic too. So, juz stand a step or mb afew more back & u can c a clearer whole pic. This actually applies to arguements too. When u're in it, u can't c the facts well. U nid to step out as an outsider to c the whole situation to determine wat actually went wrong. No pt staying inside & fight all day long. Get out & c things beta & come out wif a solution!

Just give ur best!

Saturday, 23/07/2005 - Work within your ability! Dun overwork urself. There's a limit to wat every1 of us can do. No doubt that most of us want to give the best we can. Be it in sch, wk, life, family, r/s & stuff..But we hafta noe our own limits. A rubber band when really stretch to the limit, it'll brk after some time. A ballon will burst when too much air is being pumped into. Even a machine needs to rest. Time to work, we work; time to rest, u juz hafta rest!

To rem or to 4gt?

Friday, 22/07/2005 - Somethings are not worth remembering; somethings are not meant to be forgotten! Often, we remember things we ougth to forget & forgot abt things we supposed to rem. Humans are juz like tt. I guez, we really need a filter to help us funnel the right things.

Hope is never lost!

Thursday, 21/07/2005 - After the rain, there would be a rainbow and at the end of every rainbow lies a pot of gold! What I wana convey 2nite is simply asking u ppl nv 2 give up hope. Hope is the thing 2 kip u going when u're dw. Even when all things go against u, be strong!

Timing..

Wednesday, 20/07/2005 - Timing is really very important! Sometimes, things goes wrong..It's nt bcoz we did the wrong thing, it's juz tt we did at the wrong timing. U juz ought to noe urself when is the right time to do the right thing to the right person and say the right stuff. No1 can judge for urself, coz it's a case to case basis.

Doesn't really matters..u noe?

Tuesday, 19/07/2005 - Head or tail? It's the same coin! My 语录 seems abit more complicated 2nite. So I'm gona explain. There's alot of situations in life whr tis coin tingy applies. Simple e.g, as usual a lame 1..U wana go up a bldg, whether u take the lift(head) or the stairs(tail), u can get to the designated place. U had a quarrel wif ur partner, family member, best frenz..No1 wana be the 1st to apologize, bt deep dw ur heart, both of u hope tt tis wld be over asap. Be it u(head) or the other party(tail) say the golden/wonder/magic (or watever u call it) word, "SORRY", mb the misunderstanding wld be cleared. So does it really matter who say it 1st? Do u really want to continue the cold war? There's a whole lot more things in life tt hold this theory. So next time, when u're struck, tink abt the situation & the available solutions u haf. If all the solutions lead to the same result w/o any much difference(e.g: takes a longer time, more $$ 2b spent, et

Trust!

Monday, 18/07/2005 - Never say one thing in public, then another in private to the same person, it breaches trust! No matter what the reason is, don't say 2 contradicting statements to the same person. For instance, a simple crap e.g, when u're in a grp, u say the moon is square. Den u tell 1 of the person in the grp in pte tt the moon is round. If no1 ever c the moon b4 beside u do. Do u tink tt 1 person will believe wat u say? Tt person may even starts to tink if u'll say anyting bad abt he/she when u're wif anor person. Trust once broken is very difficult to be mend.

Being there..

Sunday, 17/07/2005 - Presence is the best present! Have u ever had headaches while choosing presents for ur close frenz or family members? I bet some of u did. Bt did it occurs to u tt mb ur presence is the best present they cld ever get? As we grow older, we become more & more bz. Wif wk, social life, r/s & stuff. Soon, we dun haf enuf time for ppl ard us. When was the last time u had dinner wif ur full family force? When was the last time u sit dw & hear ur grandparents tell u their tales? When was the last time u had a gathering wif ur frenz? When was the last time u even talk to ur poor doggy or kitty? Yes, even pets. Coz they haf feelings too. Ur presence is what ur close ones simply want. We're bz, tt's undeniable. Bt if u say u haf no time, I dun agree. U shld be the 1 to ctrl ur own time, nt the other way round. Frankly speaking, some of us are doing afew things tt takes up alot of our time, yet meaningless. Things like watching TV, clubbing, shopping, sleep

Part 84

Part 84 - Storm & Navi got even closer after that night conversation. Time flies, soon, Storm turned 20 and Navi was 16. Storm got his bike license at 18 as he wants it and had been racing for 2 years. Racing became Storm's occupation, his mean of ways by earning money. Not only that, racing is Storm's life. Storm became the leader of the best racing team, 'Waves'. No one on Coral Island has ever beat him in any races. He became famous and was the idol of bikers from all corners of Coral Island. Of course, everyone wants to have a race with him to test their skills. They train hard to beat him. What's more glorious than winning the Top Biker of Coral Island for the bikers? Navi developed a strong interest in bikes under the influence of Storm. At times, Storm would let Navi have a go at his bike. Navi was a fast learner. Soon, Storm allowed Navi to take part in some of the races. But Navi was not as pro as Storm, there're still afew lost races. But he was de

A smooth life?

Saturday, 16/07/2005 - Life won't be as smooth as we want, we need to learn to accept disruptions! Well, if given a choice, we wouldn't want a life with lots of bumps & obstacles. Bt hw often can we lead a smooth sailing life? Every now & then, we experience some setbacks or changes to our original plans. We juz gota accept & make the best out of them.

A little action to make you smile!

Friday, 15/07/2005 - Just a little action from that special someone to make you smile! You noe u haf an interest on tt person when a little action of hers makes u smile. Even her silly acts, u'll c them as being swt. Her every little moves seem so delicate & graceful to u. You simly love the way she moves.

Forced - gd or bad?

Thursday, 14/07/2005 - Sometimes we just have to be forced up the corner to come up with ideas! Have you ever come to a junction with 2 or more choices to make? And tt normally caused u to haf headaches, sleepless nights trying to decide. Wat if u only has 1 way to go, 1 choice tt hafta be make & it's gona be a bad move bt u juz hafta do it? Mb only at tt moment, u'll give all out to try & turn around tt bad move, rite? So tt explained my 语录 for 2nite.

Worth the wait?

Wednesday, 13/07/2005 - If your wait gives you nothing, maybe you have not wait long enough! In our whole life, waiting takes up almost half the time. Wait for bus, wait for ur date, wait for chances to come & even going to the restroom, u hafta Q up & wait.. Alot of times, we give up waiting coz the thing we're waiting for is taking too much time to come & we tot it's nt gona come anyway. We change to a substitute of tt thing we're waiting for. Hwever, a substitute will alwiz be a substitute. And if we had deciced to wait for tt ting in the 1st place, isn't tt our 1st choice which might means it's the best of its range for us? So if u decide it's gona be a gd wait, dun gif up half way! U nv noe wat u gona miss if u simply walk away due to a little impatient.

What's stupid?

Tuesday, 12/07/2005 - There is no such thing as a stupid question or comment, all you need is the gut to voice out! In class, in a conversation, in life, etc..we're thinking. And when we think, there bound to be qns forming in our head. Hwever, alot of us feel tt it wld makes us appear silly if we ask the qns we haf. We shld nt tink tt way. Mb ppl might laugh at the qns u asked, bt it's nt a stupid qns, the ppl who laugh are the silly ones.

Who's the master?

Monday, 11/07/2005 - Control your emotions, not let them control you! Nv use ur emotions as excuses for ur actions. Like beating up ur kids bcoz u're frustated. Scolding ur close ones bcoz u're in a bad mood. They shldn't be the ones to suffer because of ur emotions. And u shld nv be a slave to ur emotions!

Good is not equal to Great!

Sunday, 10/07/2005 - Never think you're good, you might just miss the step to great!

Priortizing!

Saturday, 09/05/2005 - Priortize your stuff, it's a good habit!

Trusting ppl!

Friday, 08/07/2005 - Give others the benefit of doubt!

It's a matter of asking!

Thursday, 07/07/2005 - Sometimes, you really have to ask to get something! No1 noes wat u want if u dun tell. Ask & u might be surprised tt u get it easily when u tot tt person might reject u if u ask. No harm asking, u dun lose anything. In fact, u might juz gain sth, yah?

Facts are facts!

Wednesday, 06/07/2005 -Some facts can't be changed, face them!

Think of other ways!

Tuesday, 05/07/2005 - Work your way around to get things done, there's no one fixed way to do things!

1st day of sch!

It's the start of my 16th yr of education like wat Qiqi said. Well, the lecture hall was full. Mb bcoz it's the 1st day. Ard 20+ guys out of 140+ students. The lecturer quite funny bt most of the time I duno wat is she talking abt. Coz she's an australian wif a v.strong accent. Jialut. Luckily, she only teaches the 1st 3 lectures. Quite alot of chio bus in my class. Bt well, nt reali interested to get to noe them either. E'day wk, den study. Spare time is for me to rest. Whr gt time for social life or in specific gf? haha (".) I still concentrate on my interesting gal ba. hehe >.<

Sensitivity?

Monday, 04/07/2005 - Most of us gets over sensitive over something at some point of time. *I dun really haf time to sit dw & elaborate my 语录. So juz try & figure out the hidden meaning urself ba. I try to come bk & elaborate them when I haf the time provided I still rem wat I meant 2 say at tt pt of time. haha(".)*

Respect

Sunday, 03/07/2005 - Respect is two way traffic!

Still a joke?

Saturday, 02/07/2005 - A joke can be hurting when said the second time!

Excess may nt be gd!

Friday, 01/07/2005 - Too much of anything is always not good!

Miracles!

Thursday, 30/06/2005 - 当你感到无助,毫无办法时,学着让一切顺其自然,也许奇迹会出现! At times, I tried & tried for ways 2 make things work. Bt no matter hw hard I tried, hw many methods I tink of, nth seems 2 wk. I stop trying, I take a rest, bt I nv give up. I let nature take its course. And more often than nt, miracles happen. I duno hw to explain, bt it juz happen. Mb tinking of ways to solve sth is like chasing a butterfly, the more u chase, the further it flies. Bt if u stop, it may juz come & rest on u. Understand my pt better? Hope so.