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Wednesday, 30/11/2005 - 时间让人变得健忘！ Humans are born 4getful beings, bt time let us be even more 4gtful. As time goes by, alot of things in our lives become insignificant..even if they used 2b v.impt to us, we slowly forget abt them. Even if they're still wif us all the time nw, we might still 4gt abt them..Mb we really shld stop & look ard us for the things we had missed out all these yrs or had long forgotten..

Tuesday, 29/11/2005 - Low expecations, bigger surprises! As we all hear b4, 希望越大，失望越大..so the opposite can happens too.. When u dun expects much, things happens slightly out of expectations can be a big surprise to u!

Monday, 28/11/2005 - Release the real you in your heart! We often act the way that is acceptable in life, society, sch or work. It's nt the only correct way, but maybe juz a more appropriate way to behave. However, there really ought to be time for us to release the real person in us. Do what we wish to, behave the way we really are comforable being and go the places we long for. Life is a 1 way trip, turning back is impossible. Nv let urself regret for being fake with urself. Gal, I can sense that in ur heart there's alot of things you wana do or places you wana go. But u tend to care too much about what others think, said or feel. However, I am willing to do the things you want with you & acc you to the places you wana go. Think carefully about ur wish list. You have until Christmas to do so & I am serious abt taking ur wish list from u. (".)

Sunday, 27/11/2005 - Be appreciative! When ppl do things for u, nv take it for granted. Show them thru ur words or actions that u appreciate wat they did. All humans are 4getful beings. U still need to keep reminding that u appreciate them & the little things they do for u. Like thx ur mum for every meals she cook for u. Try whipping up dinner for ur family juz for a week. And the condition is to have different dishes everyday plus the dishes must be healthy for the whole family. U wld noe hw hard it is. Planning a grp of friends' gathering is tough too. If u're nt the organizer & didn't contribute any ideas or efforts in the whole thing, dun complain if u tink the gathering wasn't successful. Be thankful tt at least the organizer tried his/her best! Nth in this world happens b'coz they ought to, some1 juz gota make them happens. And if that something was make happened by some1 especially for u, shldn't u show abit more appreciation?

Saturday, 26/11/2005 - Show what you have! We often said ppl duno the real us or we are not what they think. However has it ever occurs to us that mb we ourselves are protraiting that image to others ourselves w/o noticing it? Just like alot of us during our teenage yrs, we want to be treated as mature independent beings. Yet hw many of us truly prove that pt thru actions & nt jus plain words? If u want ppl to think of u as the way u want, den 1st u gota act & behave that way 1st! B4 u start finding faults with others, alwiz begin with urself!

Friday, 25/11/2005 - 拿得起放得下 - 真勇气！ Alot of things in life come & go, we just have to accept that fact & move on with life. And at times, we got ourselves into a situation whr we hafta let go even though it hurts big time. No matter hw unbearable we are, the only way is to do it - Just let go. The new would never comes unless the old go.

Thursday, 24/11/2005 - 舍己为人！ Most of us have a helpful nature. But to which extend are we willing to help others? Mb when some of us helps others, they would 1st consider the factors if the favor they're doing will means to sacrifice oneself. Be it time, $$, any kind of resources ba. Only by willing to help others w/o having to think much abt ownself's sacrifice, would we reach the highest level. Of coz we only do good favors, nt one tt is illegal or cause harm to any1.

Tuesday, 22/11/2005 - 幸福让它累积，悲伤让它流失！ Whenever you feel dw, find another reason for urself 2b happy. Life is simply too short to be bothered abt the negative things. We shld alwiz aim to build up our happiness in life & put sorrows in a sack wif an open bottom so they get leaked out as we move on in life. Happiness gets lighter when u build on them & sorrows get heavier if u keep on carrying them. So start collecting your happiness & dump ur sorrows. Tml will alwiz be a better day if you choose to! To Lyn, HAPPY 22ND BIRTHDAY! 9 yrs of friendship, going strong! 5G1U rocks! To SY (If you read my blog), rem you will alwiz haf a frenz in me. My entry 2nite suits u too. Think over it! To my gal, we shall just continue the way we used to be, can? I really dun want things to end here & nw. Can we just work our way into building up our happiness & create more memories to keep us company during our old age years while emptying the sorrows caused by the stress given by others

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Monday, 21/10/2005 - 决定了就不要被动摇！ Whatever we do in life, there would surely be ppl supporting & also those who're against it. We can't please every1 at the same time. So wldn't it be better to do what you wana do instead? Once you come to a decision, have total confidence in urself & complete faith in believing that the decision is the best. I'm nt asking u 2b sturbborn here, bt to stand firm on the decision u made.

Sunday, 20/11/2005 - Voice out, ask for help! No1 in this world noes everything. Every1 of us noes sth some1 else may noe nth of. When u run into problems, alwiz ask, dun keep to urself. Nth wld be solve by keeping quiet & all ur problems to urself. Even if the person u ask help frm can't solve ur problems, they may juz noe of anor frenz of theirs who can help. The world is abt connections!

Saturday, 19/11/2005 - Promises are made to be kept! B4 making any promises, big or small, alwiz think carefully. Consider the consequences of having to brk tt promise in the future & hw high is ur chances of keeping tt promise made. It wld be best only to make a promise if u haf 100% confidence in keeping tt promise true. It wld hurt the other party alot if u make an empty promise. Gal, those promises I made, I had thought over them nt juz overnite. Afew weeks back, I have been thinking abt them. It's only after yest lunch, it strengthens my decision to make those promises to u. And pls trust tt I will keep every1 of them.

Friday, 18/11/2005 - There is a chance for everyone to be wrong - listen to others at times! I supposed alot of us haf the mentality of wat we do is right. Of coz we shld alwiz haf faith in our own judgement & trust the decisions we made are correct. However, at times, we do hafta listen to other ppl's advice & may even hafta follow other ppl's way of doing things. If it'll benefits u, improve the situation u're in or nt bring harm to any1, you may juz wana give it a try!

Thursday, 17/11/2005 - Think fast but be slow to comment! While having a conversation with people, spend more time listening. As u listened, digest them and nv rush to make comments. Until u fully understand what the other party had say, dun act smart & start making comments. Think of the approriate things to say. And at times, a hug is even better than a thousand words if the other party is feeling extremely dw. We're born with 2 ears, 1 mouth to listen more than we speak. Listen attentively to the words being said & listen with your heart for the unspoken words.

Wednesday, 16/11/2005 - Having a back up plan is good! Though I dun suggest ppl to keep worrying abt the worst tt can happens, we can alwiz think of wat to do if sth bad were to happen. At least we would nt be caught off guard. It may sounds contradicting nw. Wat I suggest is to alwiz haf a back up plan ready, bt when we're doing anything, we shld nv tink of a way out for us if things were to go wrong. We need to tell ourselves there's no turning back, we can only perform our tasks perfectly or we fail. Tt way, we will be able to do our stuff better.

"Take a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the tree, but each apple has just ten seeds. That's a lot of seeds! We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees?" Nature has something to teach us here. It's telling us: "Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow. So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once." This might mean: You'll attend twenty interviews to get one job. You'll interview forty people to find one good employee. You'll talk to fifty people to sell one house, one car, one vacuum cleaner,one insurance policy, or a business idea. And you might meet a hundred acquaintances just to find one special friend. When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed. We stop feeling like victims. We learn how to deal with things that happen to us. Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We ju

Tuesday, 15/11/2005 - Two similar causes can have two extremely different effects! Normally, we try v.hard to make sth happens, it may juz go in the totally opposite way. Like when parents pinned high hopes on their kids and make them study, study & study. Let them go for all kind of extra classes, enrichment courses & the list nv ends. Often it ends up that either they get wat they hope for or their kids can't take the stress from parents and become rebellious kids who do all the wrong things they noe their parents can't accept. When we're being thrown into a difficult situation, we haf 2 choices, either to admit to our fate like what most ppl will do or decides that we gona turn the table ard & fight our way thru. It's ur call!

Monday, 14/11/2005 - Even a machine needs to rest! Today then I truly understand the meaning of "休息是为了走更长远的路". I was feeling real terrible 2day. Bt well, I insist on wking till it's time to knock off. Yes gal, I noe u care for me, u want me 2 go hm early & rest. However, u muz understand workaholics run in my family. I can't bring myself to juz leave 1/2 way. And I noe my own limits. If I really can't take it, I would allow myself to really rest. My dear readers out dere..there's a reason for everything. All of us need to rest, which is y no matter if u're schooling or wking, u'll surely haf ur rest after a long period of time. Students get their school holidays, those who're wking get their public holidays, off days & annual leave. I understand some ppl are simply too bz to take a day off their busy days. Bt if u're nt gona replenish the energy, hw are u going to produce better results? So, school holidays are juz ard the corner, take

Sunday, 13/11/2005 - Take one, pay back ten! Dun tink no1 noes tt u took adv of others. What goes ard comes ard. In the end, watever gains u took frm others thru dishonest ways, u hafta pay back 10 times more. Have a clear conscience and live ur life pure. Life's achievements are nt measured by hw much u haf, it's hw much u gave to others. It can be physical or non-physical. It's the good thoughts that count.

Saturday, 12/11/2005 - Do what you should, then let it be! When you have done what you should to make something works, the other half is up to the other party(ies) to act. Alot of situations tt we faced in life goes to show the real meaning of it takes 2 hands to clap. 一个人的力量很微不足道，只有万众一心才能创造奇迹!

Friday, 11/11/2005 - 让自己开心不需要理由！ All u need to do to make urself happy is to choose 2b happy and most impt is you want 2b happy! It's juz as simple as that. Tt's basically wat I do everyday. haha =D Everyone who walked past my desk at wk, no matter hw stressful they are, they will find a reason to smile & be happy juz be seeing me. keke >.<

Thursday, 10/11/2005 - 凡事要对得起天地良心！ It doesn't matter if wat we do failed to receive others' agreement. As long as we noe wat we're doing does nt harm others, we can juz go ahead & do it! Even after doing it, ppl make bad comments on it. Have faith in wat u have done! Gal, this is for you. We both noe wat happened. =)

Wednesday, 09/11/2005 - Compare to strive better, not to make anyone feel worse! It's gd to compare & strive 2b better. Hwever it's unhealthy for one to compare wif anor & feel lousy abt urself. Neither is it a gd thing to compare & make other ppl feel inferior. So use comparision as a motivation nt as a weapon! Gal, tis is for u. Mb it's bcoz I have nv praise u openly. But u're really a v.gd supervisor. Don't doubt ur own's ability. U're up to the job. Nt only I tink so, I believe God Ma, Aunt Jas & Xiao Hui agree wif tt. Keep up the good job, k? Have faith in urself! Every1 learns as time goes & take all lessons learnt as experience. Continue to collect ur experience!

Tuesday, 08/11/2005 - Jealousy kills! When one's emotions get ctrl by jealousy, it spells disaster! You tend to lose ur cool and haf ur mind so confused. Mb sometimes, we need to said alittle white lie. Be it to others or ourselves to make ourselves feels better. I dun even noe wat am I talking abt 2nite. My mind is like a whirlpool nw. Bt jealousy does kills. At times, it even torture u & drain u out. It's the most terrible feeling u can have!

Monday, 07/11/2005 - 一切从小开始！ Yes, a sea is make up of little droplets of water, a desert is full of small grain of sand. U save alittle each day to haf a sum tt's enuf for u to buy the things u wanted. 积少成多! Watever tt's big nw, came frm sth tt was small. Take ur small step out nw to achieve the big things in life! 1 small step each day will become a great leap in time to come! Nv give up doing the small little things. They can create a big effect in ur life 1 day!

Sunday, 06/11/2005 - 说者无意，听者有心！ I believe alot of times, we said sth tt is nt meant 2b sarcastic or giving hints on anything, bt the receiving party feel otherwise. Words can be constructive or destructive. With the appropriate words being said at the right time may get you the gal of ur dream and words said in a fit of anger may caused you to lose everything in ur life. Gal, I am still the same me. I'm nt behaving in a weird way. But I'm sorry for the tone juz nw. I really didn't mean anything. I swear! 你的心原谅我了吗？

How did you spend ur Hari Raya? Stayed at hm & watch the special TV programmes prepared by Mediacorp? Went muslim friends' hse to feast? Whatever you did, hope you had a great time! Belated Selamat Hari Raya Puasa to everyone out there! As for me, went to pick my gal & XH at ard 10am+. 1st stop was PS, bought movie tixs for 3 movies. Supposed 2b 4 shows, bt somehw, some1 reduced it to 3.. XH's bf supposed to come wif us, bt didn't and XH supposed to watch movies wif us, end up aso dun haf. Hmm..Alot of supposed to be stuff tt got cancelled. Settled our bfast at LJS. Great! Alwiz love the thick 1 inch bread tt tastes so yummy wif the milo freeze. Bowling at Cathay Cineplexes supposed to be our next programme. Mb it's to pay back for deciding to reduce the no. of movies, the bowling alley was closed dw & we can't get to play bowling. Wanted to change to KTV @ KBox bt all the rooms are full. So in the end, we went shopping. Taka, Wisma, Far East..And only m

Saturday, 05/11/2005 - 有心不怕迟！ I was hesitating whether to use this 语录 for 2nite. Coz it's kind of contradicting. Haiz..bt well, tt's life, I guess. Life is full of contradictions. Or rather, there's alwiz exceptions to alot of things. So my 语录 2nite can only apply to certain things in life. There's nv a 1 size fits all. Somethings that hafta be done & said cannot wait. It juz hafta be complete soon. And for some other stuff, it's nv too late to start doing it. They're the stuff I'm refering to. Things like pursing a higher education, starting a healthy lifestyle, getting rid of ur bad habits, etc. It's alwiz gd to do so & it's nv late if u really put ur heart into doing it!

Friday, 04/11/2005 - A question needs an answer! When we ask qns, normally an ans is expected. Wldn't it be irritating to keep asking qns & yet no1 provides u wif an ans? So the next time when u haf an ans to the qns u hear ppl asking, do tt person a favor & ans them. They might be gladful to u!

Thursday, 03/11/2005 - All future tense belongs to the uncertain! Don't live for the future anymore. You may nt even be able 2c tml sunrise. We can nv be sure hw many more tmls we can haf. It's okay nt to haf alot of memories, bt dun let urself haf too much regrets!

Wednesday, 02/11/2005 - 人生总有些事或话是免不了的! In order to achieve something, we may hafta do or say sth b4 anything else can works. Of coz, I'm not saying we shld do undertable stuff or anything tt wld harm any1. However, creating stepping stones to achieve our goals are impt. It's up to individual to decide their level of acceptance.

Tuesday, 01/11/2005 - "Sometimes, only the wrong can lead you to the right!" Got my 语录灵感 frm a friend's profile. When u're at a cross junction, with only 2 paths to choose from, & you noe 1 of it is gona bring u to the destination u wana go. And you happened to choose the wrong one, wldn't it be obvious tt the other path is the correct one? So only when we dare to try, we wld discover wat's wrong to let us noe 100% FOR SURE wat's the correct way. But if we dun even dare to make the 1st step, we wld nv noe wat's defintely rite or wrong. We can merely juz keep thinking & making our own wild guesses. Am I not correct? haha =)

Juz got back frm my overnite mj not long ago..Played from ard 9pm yest to nearly 6am tis morning. I wasn't the least bit tired throughout the game. So energetic even till nw. haha =) My gal, god ma & auntie Jas were all gone case. Bt god ma& auntie Jas had been wking hard the past few weeks. Felt quite bad to make them stay up so late. Bt I'm letting them relax after so much stress. And I bet their kids would thx me too. Coz it's rarely they get a chance to play till so crazy & slp real late. Had a wonderful dinner last nite b4 our fierce battle of mj! There were auntie Jas's curry chicken (that was fantastic), god ma bought chilli crabs (quite nice, but my Irene mama's 1 taste better) & stingray(I didn't ate a single piece; but the rest said it's kind of dry). Yah, and there were 扣肉包. God ma's maid (still duno hw to spell her name) cook that. I ate 3 包 while waiting for god ma to come back. It was great too! Caramel pudding was our dess