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  As the man turns 37, waves of emotions filled his heart. From the last birthday till now, so much things have happened. Though my sister always say I am full of self-praises, they were just jokes. Today, I shall take this opportunity to acknowledge this man for who he is and the difference he has made to those around him. Helpfulness is my middle name and at times, I over do it at my own expenses. To some, they felt I was giving too much of my time, energy and effort. The returns may never outweigh what I have given. However, one thing for sure, my heart is filled. I cannot save all the starfish that are being washed to shore. However, each one I helped to throw back to the sea, my action matters. I have strong beliefs in the things I do.  I thought I was doing good by offering people : - A chance to understand the religion which would lead them to their happiness. - The business opportunity which could bring them the lives they want. - The course which could open up their eyes, hear

Do you give up just because others are ahead of you? Or do you take it as a motivation to surpass them and do better? It is not about making comparison with others on who has bigger houses, faster cars or more money? It is doing a check and balance on ourselves. How far away are we from our own goals and dreams? What do you do to get closer to them? There are people who eventually stop making goals or having dreams, because they already tell themselves, "I would never get there, I do not have that kind of destiny." We create our own destinies. Not everyone is born with a golden spoon in our mouths. However, it doesn't mean we would never be able to make big goals and dreams and achieve them. It merely mean we may have to put in more time and effort than those who has a head start before us. Yet, I do know of friends who were born into not just rich, but super duper rich families and yet they own their current success to themselves. They did it with thei

Compassion, Wisdom, Pure Heart, Sincerity, Trust, Character, Courage When I first got to know of the campaign to contribute Vitamin D to our healthcare professionals, I merely wanted to just contribute 1 bottle on my own. However, it later turns out to be a total of 72 bottles my friends and I managed to contribute to the NCID staff. I reflected on the whole process and asked myself, "What works for me such that I can garner the support of so many people?" That's when I realized it was because of the 7 words above. With the COMPASSION thought of merely wanted to do something for our front line healthcare professionals, it triggers me to seek my friends' contribution. WISDOM  of being able to draft a message that speaks to my friends and touch their compassion department as well to want to contribute. I did it with a PURE HEART with the sole intention of wanting to do my little part in paying back to society. Throughout the messagin

15/05/2020 - Date like how you want your daughter to be dated. 以你想要你女兒被追求的方式來交往。 Today would be my Dad's 65th Birthday if he is alive. I have been wanting to write this post, so I decide today is a good day to do so. Everyone has their own ways in courtship. As for mine, the basis is imagining the girl you are dating now to be your own daughter in future. How do you like her to be dated? Do you want her to return late at home? Do you like her to be on the phone most of the times? Do you want her personal time with her family and friends to be affected? Do you like that her priorities are mixed up or disrupted? The list goes on... If this is not what you want to see of your daughter, do not let this happens to the girl you are dating now. Simple because, she is also somebody's daughter now. -------------------------------------------------------------------- After being a private hire driver for 10 months, I have heard countless interesting as wel