The Ugly Truth abt "ATTENTION!"

ATTENTION all my bros & male readers out there.

Today, we're gona discuss abt a FACT which prob every1 (male & female alike) ALREADY know.

In general, MOST girls LOVE attention & MOST guys ENJOY giving it. Don't we always say it takes 2 hands 2 clap? =P

Instead of telling u abt the attention girls need & want, I'm merely sending out some friendly reminders to the guys out there. Coz we tend to get carried away by the attention we're giving & how the seeking of attention from gals blurred our minds & mislead us.

Pls note these pointers/reminders:-
1) Even if the gal seeks/wants/needs ur attention, it DOESN'T necessary means she likes u.

2) Whether or not u like the gal, just as long as u're out with A GAL, give her ur fullest ATTENTION. Even if she's 1 of ur buddy kind of girl friend who goes girls-watching with u, u dun turn ur head in the direction of a pretty woman in the midst of ur conversation UNLESS she does & asks u to look.

3) She's nt seeking attention from u alone & u're NOT the only one who can gives her the attention she craves for/deserves/etc. Even if u stop giving her any, she'll find her source SOMEWHERE else. So, DON'T worry that she'll be so lonely & sad juz b'coz u've chosen to withdraw the attention u've been giving.

4) Why guys shouldn't read too much into the action of a gal seeking attention? Coz MOST gals BY NATURE seek attention from people around them. From parents, siblings, friends, partners, potential suitors or normal friends of the opposite genders. So, see. She received attention from so many sources, it won't REALLY make a difference w/o urs.

5) Giving attention is supposed to be a willing process. If u ever feel threatened/unwilling/etc to continue giving attention, den STOP. No pt forcing urself. While gals feel contented to be receiving attention, we guys at least need to ENJOY the process of giving attention.

6) Guys have the RIGHTS to choose WHO they want to divert their energy into giving attention to. So, don't bother about those whom u don't even give a damn abt their existence no matter how hard they tried to catch ur attention hoping you would in return give some to them.

The bottom line is, "First, u don't get urself hurt by giving urself false hopes that a gal likes u just b'coz she likes the attention u're giving her. Second, don't hurt a gal by showering her too much attention & makes her fall for u but only to find out that u actually treated her just like any other girl friend(s) of urs."

It's not easy being Mr Nice Guy w/o being MISUNDERSTOOD. I'm still trying. (^^,)