Date like how you want your daughter to be dated. 以你想要你女兒被追求的方式來交往。
15/05/2020 -
Date like how you want your daughter to be dated. 以你想要你女兒被追求的方式來交往。
I have been wanting to write this post, so I decide today is a good day to do so.
Everyone has their own ways in courtship.
As for mine, the basis is imagining the girl you are dating now to be your own daughter in future.
How do you like her to be dated?
Do you want her to return late at home?
Do you like her to be on the phone most of the times?
Do you want her personal time with her family and friends to be affected?
Do you like that her priorities are mixed up or disrupted?
The list goes on...
If this is not what you want to see of your daughter, do not let this happens to the girl you are dating now.
Simple because, she is also somebody's daughter now.
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After being a private hire driver for 10 months, I have heard countless interesting as well as disgusting conversations among my passengers.
I shall share some of the disgusting conversations among my male passengers which got me thinking of those female friends who hate guys.
At the same time, I start to worry for my future daughter if I am lucky to have one.
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Case 1 :
A : I would not add them (the girls) on LINE, I ask for their IG instead.
B : Why?
A : You need to know their LINE ID to add them. For IG, I can just say (to my wife) I accidentally followed them.
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Case 2 :
Passenger boarded my car with a case of 24 cans of beer.
Destination : xxx Hotel
Convo with the brothers on the other line on speaker phone :
Passenger : Hey! I brought the beer le. The girls confirm will come one not? Will they fly aeroplane not?
Brothers : Do not worry lah, XX arranged and confirm with them de. But hor, here only got 2 connecting room leh. 3rd person use toilet ah?
More nonsensical and disgusting conversation went on...
But I got hot in my mind and heart when the passenger said, "I only brought 1 mask, not enough to share lah. You never wear never mind lah, you are not married. I still have kids to raise de leh."
I was mind blown. So he is a married man?!
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Case 3 :
Fetched 2 guys from a Thai Pub.
A : Show me the photo of the girl (XX) C was mentioning leh. I trust his taste, he said good means definitely good.
As B proceeds to show photo of XX, A asked, "Introduce YY to me leh. I want to expand my social circle."
B : Me first, you wait lah, I want to expand her "circle" first. (Think deeper)
A : But I thought you already have ZZ.
B : So what?
A : When are you going to marry ZZ?
B : Only got together for a year, what marry lah?
A : If it's me, together for 6 months, I would have planned for marriage le!
Up to this point, I already cannot...
So this B guy has a girlfriend, ZZ and he wants to bed YY?!
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Guys, who are reading this post, I hope you are not like these jerks I have fetched.
Ladies, be smart, be alert and learn to protect yourself.
May we all invest true feelings and meet people who are worth our love.
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如果爸爸還在，今天是他的 65 歲生日。
一直都想寫這文章，決定今天正是時候。
每個人都有自己的追求方式。
至於我，最基本就是想像現在正追求的女生是你以後的女兒。
你希望她如何被男生追求？
你想她晚回家嗎？
你是否喜歡她大部分時間都在聊電話？
你是否希望她與家人和朋友的個人時間受到影響？
你是否喜歡她的優先事項被打亂或打擾了？
更多的例子待續。。。
如果你不願意看到這些事情發生在自己的女兒身上，就別讓這些事情發生在你正在追求的女生身上。
就因為一個很簡單的理由，她現在也是別人家的女兒。
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當了10個月的私昭車司機，從乘客的對話中聽過無數有趣的也有噁心的內容。
在這裡與你們分享一些我載的男乘客之間噁心的對話，讓我不經回想到很多討厭男人的女性朋友。
同時，我也開始為我未來的女兒(若有幸獲得的話) 擔心。
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例子1 :
A : 我從不加她們的 LINE, 我會詢問她們的 IG 帳號。
B : 為甚麼？
A : LINE 你需要對方的帳戶名稱才能加好友， IG 我可以（對我老婆) 說，我不小心跟隨她的。
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例子2 :
乘客帶了1箱24罐的啤酒上了車。
地點: XX 酒店。
之後，開著擴音開始與哥們的對話 :
乘客 ：嘿！酒我帶了。那些女的確定會來的嗎？會不會放飛機？
哥們 ：放心啦，XX 已經跟她們安排與確認了。只不過，這裡是兩間連通式的房間嘞。第三個人用浴室啊？
接著他們繼續更多無聊與噁心的對話。。。
不過，當我聽到這乘客說這段時，我已經惱羞成怒，“我只帶了一個口罩，不夠分啦。你沒有戴無所謂啦，你又還沒有結婚，我還有小孩要養的。”
我很震惊。原來他是已婚男人？！
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例子3 :
從泰國酒吧接了兩名乘客。
A : 給我看剛剛 C 提到的那個女孩 (XX) 的照片嘞。我相信他的品味，他說好的絕對是好的。
當 B 在秀 XX 的照片時，A 繼續問，“介紹那位 YY 給我認識嘞。我想擴大我的社交圈子。"
B : 我先來，你等著，我還想先擴大她的 “圈子”。 (想深入一點)
A : 你不是有 ZZ 了嗎？
B : 那又如何？
A : 你何時要娶 ZZ?
B : 才在一起一年多，娶甚麼啦？
A : 換成我，在一起６個月，我就計畫結婚了！
聽到這裡，我已經不頂。
原來這個 B 男已經有女朋友而還想上 YY?!
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那些正在閱讀這篇文章的男生，希望您不像我載到的這些混蛋一樣。
女士們，聰明點，保持警惕，請學會保護自己。
但願我們交出真心的同時能夠遇到值得擁有我們愛的人。
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