成功的人找方法，失敗的人找藉口！ Winners find ways for their success, losers find excuses for their failures!

Do you give up just because others are ahead of you?
Or do you take it as a motivation to surpass them and do better?
It is not about making comparison with others on who has bigger houses, faster cars or more money?

It is doing a check and balance on ourselves.
How far away are we from our own goals and dreams?
What do you do to get closer to them?

There are people who eventually stop making goals or having dreams, because they already tell themselves, "I would never get there, I do not have that kind of destiny."
We create our own destinies.

Not everyone is born with a golden spoon in our mouths.
However, it doesn't mean we would never be able to make big goals and dreams and achieve them.
It merely mean we may have to put in more time and effort than those who has a head start before us.
Yet, I do know of friends who were born into not just rich, but super duper rich families and yet they own their current success to themselves.

They did it with their own hard work, earn their first dollar by being a normal employee like most of us.
Some work even harder than we do because they do not want others to think or say, "Because your parents are rich!"

No matter what kind of family you were born into, if you simply sit there and wait or complain to each and every person you met, "I do not have a good life. I am not born into a rich family. I do not have a high education (because my family could not afford). I cannot get a girlfriend or boyfriend. I do not have the network." And the whole self-victimized list goes on like 𝜋 (3.141592653589793238...), yah you get what I meant.

Make BIG goals and dreams and work your ass off to achieve them.
You cannot be bigger than your dreams and it does not cost you a cent to dream, why won't you just do it?
Write down the big dreams and work out the small steps and plans to achieve them.
“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.”
In case you do not know what that means, the internet says it can be interpret as : If you're aiming for something, even if you don't achieve it, you'll still be somewhere better than where you started.

Go on and find the ways to your success and stop making excuses for why you failed to achieve what you want.

你是否因為他人領先而放棄？
有或者當此為激勵自己去超越他們做得更好？
這裡並不是要你與他人做比較 - 誰住的房子比較大，開的車比較快還是誰的錢比較多？

純粹是檢視自己。
我們究竟離我們的目標與夢想多遠？
要怎麼做才能接近一點？

有些人甚至放棄設定目標與夢想，因為他們告訴自己，“我永遠無法到達，我沒有那種命。”
命運是自己創造的。

並非每一個人都是含著金湯匙出世的。
但這不意味我們就不能設下大目標與夢想並且達成他們。
只不過我們需要比那些先天條件比較領先的人付出更多的時間與努力。
話雖如此，我依然有認識朋友不僅是有錢而是非常有錢人家的孩子以他們自己的實力獲得現在的成功。

他們憑著自己的辛勞，像一般人一樣出外打工賺取自己的第一份收入。
他們有些甚至比我們任何一個人更勤奮就因為他們不想他人認為或說風涼話，“還不是因為你父母有錢！”

無論你出生在甚麼樣的家庭，如果你整天就只是坐以待斃或見人就訴苦，“我命不好。我沒有出生在富裕人家。我沒能受到高等教育 (因為家計不能負擔)。我無能交到女或南朋友。我人際網絡不夠廣。” 自我憐憫的清單就有如圆周率 (3.141592653589793238...)，是的，你知道我的意思。

設下遠大的目標與夢想然後竭盡所能地去達成。
你永遠無法大過你的夢想而設夢想也不花你一毛錢，為何不做呢？
把遠大的夢想寫下來再規劃小步與計畫去實現。
“朝月球射去。就算你失算，你會降落在星星當中。”
以防你不清楚此意，它可被解讀為 : 若你朝著某件事前進，就算最終你無法到達，你肯定比你原先的處境更好。

快去尋找成功的方法而別再為自己的失敗找藉口了！