Actions speak louder than word. 行动胜于言语。

26/04/14 :-
Actions speak louder than word.
行动胜于言语。

How many times have you heard the senseless apology?
How many times have you heard the empty promises?
How many times have you heard the sentence, "Don't judge me?" yet the action already speak for itself?
Countless times...
So many more other examples of how one only know how to use words in his/her daily life painting the beautiful picture.

There are only 24 hours a day, everyone of us has the same amount of time.
This is a house, not a hotel.
There is no point in saying how much you love and not doing anything.
Save your words, they are worth nothing and are completely meaningless.
Family is there for each other regardless of good or bad times.
However, do not take advantages of family members' kindness.

Do not make use of one's soft spot or their positive traits and turn them into weakness for you to utilize to the max.
Apologize when you truly mean it and would really do something to change.
If not, just keep them to yourself.

If you want to be respected and look upon as an adult, show it through your actions.
Grow up!
A true religious person don't put his/her God's teachings in his/her mouth and say he/she let him down but do not truly reflect on his/her actions.
No one determine how they see you because of the religion of your choice either.
So don't use your God as an excuse/reason for whatever wrong/good you have done.
I respect all religion but I only respect believers who respect other people's religions.

Whichever religion one is, I believe in their teachings, there is surely some emphasis on family bonding.
No matter how much you dislike a particular family member, you would try your utmost best in maintaining harmony in the family.
It is unfair to all the other family members when you choose to be absent from a family event just because you dislike 1 family member.
I believe no God from any religion encourage that.

P/S: The above is only my personal opinion and do not represent any family/organization/religious association, etc.