No one owes you a duty!

Have you ever had the feeling of being so alone, helpless and sometimes even hopeless?
In extreme cases where one is unable to handle stress, suicidal thoughts may even come into pictures.
What we failed to realize is that in this world, no one is obliged to provide you help as and when you need it.

No one owes you a duty.
We owe no one a duty.

When no one helps you, they are not in the wrong.
It was not their duty to help you simply because you needed help.
Whatever their relationship with you may be, it doesn't matter.

I would say, not even your parents who gave life to you.
Usually they would help you in ways they can, simply because they love you.
However, do not take their love and help for granted as they can always choose to leave you in the lurch.
It is not their obligation to provide you with help.

When you came to this world, you were alone.
Thus, you should be dealing with the challenges life throws you.

Some of us are lucky, we do meet nice people along our life journey.
They seem to be the pit stop of our races, supplying us with the necessary fuel to continue our races.
Be grateful to those who offered help.

However, mark my words, if you are just a taker with no contribution, always going to people only when you need help and disregard their existence when you are doing well, you would find yourself being left all alone in a bottomless pit.
Most often than not, your parents would not outlive you.
When they are gone, you would just be a lost soul on Earth.

Treat others well in order to be treated the same way.
Be fair.

On the other hand, it's okay to accept help.
Gracefully accept with gratitude.
It must have been the good karma you have accumulated previously to be able to receive help whenever the need arise.
Just remember to do the same to others whenever there is a chance to do so.

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