Learn to let go... 学会放下。。。

15/11/13 :-
Learn to let go...
学会放下。。。

Often, every little thing thrown in our direction by the people around us; family members, friends, teachers, bosses, colleagues, etc, we make it seems like a heavy rock has just been placed on our shoulders and we have to carry it with us in every step we make.
Similarly, when we lose something we thought was precious to us, we harp on it for the longest time.

The heavy rock slows us down, soon we get tired trying to carry it and we got so frustrated and stress follows.
Depression sets in sometimes.
With the loss that was magnified, we behave like it isn't worth living anymore.
Self blame or self pity starts creeping in and slowly devour us.

However, all these are choices we get to make in life.
Do you want to treat the obstacles and losses in life as a heavy rock or just a drop in the ocean?

It is not easy and for me, I am still learning...
However, think about this, wouldn't life be so much easier if we can simply try in learning to let go?

And when we can truly learn to let go, we would be able to find pure happiness.