无心伤害

Friday, 27/05/2005 - 试着了解别人的无心伤害！

At times, we wld say to tink b4 we speak. Bt there're really times whr we're nt ourselves or really in too foul a mood to clearly tink. And our words can hurt ppl ard us. Bt if the other party is some1 closed to u, I guess they wld be able to sense ur unhappiness & ur unintended purpose of hurting them wif ur words. So if u happened to be the person hurt by words of ur loved ones, tink! Cld it be tt they're having a bad mood or sth? Nv rush to complain 1st, be concerned abt y they're behaving tt way. Mb things cld haf turn out better. Smilez! XD

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