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他们说放弃是对的决定，因为继续下去也不会有结果。但为何做了所谓对的事却没有带给我一丝的快乐？逼自己停止喜欢你，不再为你做他们觉得愚蠢的事，看见你不但笑不出来，就连心都好抽痛。这就真的是我应该做的事吗？我现在就好像失魂落魄的行尸走肉。 They said letting it go & giving it up was the best decision as holding on would lead to nowhere. Yet making the so called right decision didn't bring me a sense of happiness either. Forced myself not to like you anymore & stop doing the stuff which deemed silly by others, I couldn't smile when I see you, even my heart aches everytime we met. Is this what I really should be doing? I'm just like a lost soul walking aimlessly now.

22nd Nov 2009 - Had a b'day dinner celebration for Qi, Shannon & XY at YX's place! Ordered Canadian Pizza & packed some Malay food from WoodGrove Al-meen! Simple celebration with the combination of GREAT food & WONDERFUL companions! BKA Papa with his lovely daughters, 真, 超 & 太 KAs! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Getting ready to attack home made cakes by Qi! Doing the presents presentation! Qi with her Charles & Keith tote bag. Blur yx cut away price tag but left receipt in bag! *_* Aunt Shannon & her Secret Wish perfume! XY with her ALL-TIME FAVE idol, Jay Chou's DVD! YX with her cap from Esprit! Eagle Ivan wana change his hp's thumbnails. So he got his daughters to take individual photos with him! The doggies wana be in it too! Now I have new thumbnails to your contacts! Coz they complained they look ___ (fill in ur own blanks) in their previous thumbnails.

Have you ever been walk out on? Or have you ever walk out on someone else? Had dinner with my wives & anor colleague last night; learnt valuable lessons from the gossip session. So, here I am sharing with you a summary of what I've learnt. My dear bros, listen up! From the mouths of the experienced female lovers who shared with me, "Guys should never be the one to walk out on girls." When a couple broke up in an argument, a REAL MAN should never walk out on his gal. IF the guy walk away & leave the gal chasing after him, it ONLY means that guy would not take good care of her when they get married. To female readers, if a guy does that to you even when u're just in courtship, IMAGINE wat wld happen when you get married? 1 of my "lecturers" last nite said, "This kind of guy might even turn VIOLENT against you when you're married." BUT a gal has ALL the rights to walk out on the guy when they have an argument. Then the guy has to go after ...

25th Nov - For 9 yrs, I've never been able to forget this date. It brought happiness & sadness as well as laughter & tears to me. 10 years ago, on 25th Nov 1999 - I was 16. I was made the HAPPIEST man on Earth, though it didn't last long. The joy I've felt when that special someone fulfilled the promise made 6 mths earlier was beyond any words could describe. A promise I'd thought she make it w/o serious thought was fulfilled on 25th Nov 1999. From then on, I told myself, "A promise made is a promise meant to be kept." However, all these years, I've broken some of my promises to some ppl & hurt them. I'm not going to find any excuses or give any reasons for why I broke them. I'm simply sorry for doing so. 25th Nov 2009 - 10 years after I first felt love, I'm going to teach myself an important lesson. . . "Time & tide waits for no man. There's no point in holding onto sth which you know would never have a future to it. Y...

As the title suggests, my BEST BUDDY got married on 21st Nov 2009! Oh man! Every bride looks stunningly beautiful on their wedding day. Of coz my buddy was pretty to begin with. =P Stayed over @ her hse the nite b4; we were buddies for 15yrs & it's the 1st time I spend my nite @ her hse. She did invite me to stay over afew times when I met up with her in JB, but I shy mah. wahaha *lol* No objections allowed from the ground (Read : Readers of this blog)! It was a LONG day but I had lots of fun & laughter. From the way, buddy's sisters team "tortured" the groom's brothers team, took photos of the whole event & I made a new friend, Katie Lee! =) Who's Katie Lee? Read on! Pretty bride in the making! The groom, the bride & her sisters! The dinner place! See the centre photo? That's my new friend I'm carrying! wahaha *lol* Some of you must be thinking, 烂(滥)情韦小宝 has got a new target? *shakes head* Yah, my image has been "tarnished" a...

First & foremost, let me wish my 2 irreplaceable sisters, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY TWINNEYS!" Whatever happens, we'll stay together. Ohana means "No1 gets left out or forgotten." I LUB YOU!! My little sister, Aunt Shannon is forever so proud that she shares the same b'day as Mickey. So I'm using Mickey & Minnie wallpaper for my "The Ugly Truth" session. 18th Nov 1928 - Mickey cartoons were first shown on TV. Today's session is more of an open discussion for my dear readers. Recently, I heard sth from a lady friend & other ladies who were at the same table sort of agree to what the lady friend said. Now, I want to hear from you. =) She mentioned, "A guy can sense which girl likes/loves him & needs his attention. Then it's up to him to make the decision whether to reciprocate the feelings. A girl likes/loves everyone around her just as much as she wants everyone around her to like/love her as well. A girl ENJOYS being liked/lo...

Ivan loves Jap food, especially BUFFETS! Dinner places I would suggest for b'days celebrations would usually be Jap Restaurants! Heard from my fave radio station, Y.E.S FM93.3 on Senki Jap Restaurant along Kiliney Road. Their recommendations were like "Wow!". So I tot it's a MUST try! With that, I brought my 5G1U + CL to try. Well, the food is not bad. As for the "Wow!", maybe the DJs & other listeners of 93.3 has NOT so high standards of Jap food. But still, like Eagle Ivan always say, "It's the COMPANION that matters!" My dear ladies who were present. Yes, Mummy Lyn, u were GREATLY MISSED! Juz as much as I missed Baby Ping! =P Don't ask me where was I looking. . . I think the camera person DON'T like me. *hmph* For the belated aug babies' b'day dinner, I suggested Shokudo, but they choose Kushinbo instead. So, off we went to JP. Meet the Aug Babies of zhus (Piggies)! Darling zhuyin, Buddy Shane & I! The Perfectionists ...

It was a movies weekend for me. Perhaps making up for all the movies I've wanted to watch but missed? And coincidentally, the shows I've watched over the weekend are all tots provoking. They make me think of alot of stuff, especially on life & the ones I loved - my family & friends. I've always love Saw's series of movies. I remembered I catch all the series when they were released, but somehow I tot there wasn't Saw V. So, I went to search online & there really is Saw V, but have I watched it b4? I'm still trying 2 recall. Gd thing I kept all my movies stubs, shall go check them out one day. Watched this show @ Cine with Diane, Miao Chin, Shirleen & Murs. The show still make me quiver in my seat as usual. However, in comparison with the past few series, this perhaps lose out alittle. The ways the victims were tortured were sort of repeated from previous few series. 21/12/2012 - Is that really the end of the World? Mum wld seldom says she wana wa...

Your friendly blog owner has not vanished from the surface of this world. I'm merely abit busier than usual. Here I am back to promote World Kindness Day to everyone! This is the official logo for "World Kindness Movement". We are more familiar with our own Courtesy Lion! =) Try out some fun stuff here ! Remember to spread KINDNESS anywhere, everywhere to anyone & everyone around you! Not just for today though. However, if u've nt been v.kind all along, try 2b nice AT LEAST for a day, yah? KINDNESS wld chase all negative energy away for this Friday the 13th!

ATTENTION all my bros & male readers out there. Today, we're gona discuss abt a FACT which prob every1 (male & female alike) ALREADY know. In general, MOST girls LOVE attention & MOST guys ENJOY giving it. Don't we always say it takes 2 hands 2 clap? =P Instead of telling u abt the attention girls need & want, I'm merely sending out some friendly reminders to the guys out there. Coz we tend to get carried away by the attention we're giving & how the seeking of attention from gals blurred our minds & mislead us. Pls note these pointers/reminders:- 1) Even if the gal seeks/wants/needs ur attention, it DOESN'T necessary means she likes u. 2) Whether or not u like the gal, just as long as u're out with A GAL, give her ur fullest ATTENTION. Even if she's 1 of ur buddy kind of girl friend who goes girls-watching with u, u dun turn ur head in the direction of a pretty woman in the midst of ur conversation UNLESS she does & asks u to look...

Due to a small misunderstanding b/w the organizers & Pan Mei's team, Pan Mei was detained for 4 LONG hours! I was really like, "OMFG!" when I heard the news. Juz y can't these authorities find out the REAL truth b4 they do sth like that. 4 hrs, do u noe hw much tings she can be doing? My dearest idol, Pan Mei is into lots of sports & leisure activities. She can cook, have a game of golf, do her yoga, meditate or simply have a good rest after putting up the performance. But that detention for her is a total waste of time & worse, it upsets her! ARGH! Read abt it here if u're interested. =P

Well, a someone asked, "U've didn't blog over the wkend?" I kind of suspect she has gotten addicted to my "The Ugly Truth" session like afew other readers. Den I received an email from anor reader whom I can't disclose to protect her identity against her EX-bf. She wants me to do a session on "BREAKUPS" - What GUYS need to know abt the stuff GIRLS HATE after a breakup. From wat I know, there can be afew situations after a couple breaks up. Let's us analyse them all:- Best Case Scenario They come to mutual terms with it & decided that they can still be the best of friends or maybe just friends. Of coz, this is the perfect situation and I'm glad I'm having this kind of friendship with Grade A friend. ^_~ Neutral Scenario Anor one, it's the kind of situation where they don't keep in contact @ all. Both are fine with tis arrangement, nth much to touch on this either. Worst Case(s) Scenario This is the case of my dear reader ...

“You look bothered.” You asked with concern. “Nothing.” Came the reply. Should you probe further? Well, it largely DEPENDS on the GENDER of the person who replied you that. Let’s talk abt the simpler one first. If the person who replied you is a guy, den when he said nth, just leave him. If a guy don’t wana talk abt his problems, he would NEVER say a thing no matter hw u force him or how many times u asked. Do note:- NEVER THREATEN. You would only PISSED him off BIG time if u keep on asking. He wld just find u naggy & u're just making a nuisance out of urself. Even IF u're someone he likes, he WOULD not tell u a thing. Coz, it MIGHT be highly possible that he's troubled over u. However, if the other party is a gal, den this is tricky. Let's talk abt the MAJORITY lot of gals in GENERAL. You saw her bothered face & out of concern, you asked, "You look bothered." She replied, "Nothing." (Hidden meaning:- Ask me again.) You knew sth is wrong ...

My dear readers, whether you are going for a Halloween Party or not, give yourself a GOOD treat! (^^,) If u're plain lazy/restless to step out of the house, at least give yourself a GOOD break over the weekends. Have a FULL 8 hours slp to replenish your energy level!! ZzZzZzZz Research has shown that we tend to eat more to keep ourselves awake & usually, we eat junk food. So, in order nt to start stuffing urself with JUNKIES, pls rest enough!! I've gota feeling that it's going to be a GREAT & FULFILLING weekend!! v(^_^)o Wohoo!

My new desktop wallpaper!! =) Do sth to make urself HAPPY! I've changed the desktop wallpaper of my workplace PC. =D And I've uploaded new songs to share in my blog's song list. Check them out! Home PC is having problems again. If technician Xiong can't help to save it, den it'll be pronounced dead! Oh my! Y muz this happen to me?! But nvm, I have gota feeling that I'm gona strike lottery BIG BIG & I can get a new PC! This Sat & Sun 4D, I can sense it coming my way! Wohoo! v(^_^)p This is wat I call POSITIVE thinking! Heez =P You need to be age 18 & above to have this kind of thinking.

My "daughter", Toh Xue Yun is a student in Lee Wei Song's School of Music. With your previous support, she has make it to the next round. 90degree bow to those who make it happened with a click of your mouse. (^^,) I'm not taking any chance here. In case, I have blur readers. This is the one I need you to help me vote for, ok? Do support my "daughter" in pursuing her dreams. Pls help to vote for her here ! Scroll till the end to vote for Lyricist. =) Check out the song she wrote in below clip. 《舞出自己》 - 卓雪云 倾听 音符这精灵 挑逗着思绪 不经意 随它摆动着身体 回音 舞步在飘移 谁留下脚印 环绕空中的身影 难道就是你 感动的太清晰 是你给的回忆 无止境 你的甜言蜜语 我怀疑 夜在烧 心在闹 我们 贴近跳 一步一步依偎靠 旋转跳妖 那么不小心 陷入爱情的步调 就算我 一个人 也能 很即兴 你的一切让它盘旋后离去 我决定 要舞出我自己

Keychains from Qiqi & Queen Mama! Last week, I was having a real stressful week & Qi gave me a stress relief star keychain! Then coincidentally, Mum gave me a rubik cube keychain too! haha =P I'm easily contented. It doesn't take much to make me happy, really. (^^,) Appreciate the little things ppl do, take a look @ the beautiful surrounding & embrace in the joy of enjoying what you already have. Be kind! v(^_^)o

How do I write an article on sth I don't even know? I was having hesitations as I started typing today's entry. But well, I guess I shld just share on wat I've heard recently from our counterparts (ladies, gals, female species, watever we call them it doesn't really matter). I'm sure we know gals sometimes or rather most of the times don't say what they mean. Now, this is complicated, rite? At least, to me it is. I was told by gals, "What we want is very simple." Den from the same bunch of gals came the ultimate sentence, "It's not easy to understand gals." So, I threw back the qns, "How can things be simple when it's not easy to understand?" And their unison replies was, "That's because you guys complicate the SIMPLE things we said & make its so hard for you to understand!" "Oh! So that makes abit of sense now." As usual, let's do some simple case studies here. Rem, it's not only abt boy ...

Have you ever heard alot of us guys saying this, "兄弟如手足，女人如衣服。"? Direct translation = Brothers are like our limbs while women are like clothes. Losing your limbs & clothes, which one is worse? Because of this saying that has been passed down for centuries, some/most guys developed a kind of thinking. "If my brother likes the same gal who I like & if he tells me b4 I do, I shall give up & not go after the gal." We've seen alot of dramas like these. Boy A & B likes gal. Boy A told B he likes gal. B gave up because of his brotherhood with A. But gal likes B. And sometimes, in the shows, B & gal meet up after sometime. Gal may alrd be married to A or someone else. B said, "Actually, I'd like you back then." Gal (in extreme cases, break down in tears), "Why didn't you tell me earlier?" "Because I didn't want to break my friendship with A & I didn't think that you would like me either." B replied. I...

Hey, my dear loyal readers. It'd been a long time since I've new song up on this blog. So, here's my latest piece of work. Hope u folks like it! I'm still trying to work on my 押韵，give me time. However, I've put in alot of effort in composing this song. It's composed using the tune of S.H.E - 记得要忘记. As usual, my dear readers, give me your most honest views. I take all criticism objectively. 《不及格的爱》–鹰艾文 其实我早知道这段情的结局 心不由自主地一直要往下坠 别人不懂 你有的魅力 像千万灯火照亮我整个世界 有太多的情绪只能够藏心底 因为我不愿意让你流泪心碎 望着你烦恼全忘掉 为你做什么都可以 我无法克制一片爱你的决心 #还是很爱你 爱你 要如何接受 这种相遇 不是月老手中的线 我不明白 为何等不到你的回应# *每个夜晚闭上眼前想你 早晨醒来又第一个想到你 所有美梦 全都是一场空 就犹如流星一眨眼就过去* 还是很爱你 爱你 我如何忘记 这段暧昧曾带来的幸福快乐 灰色的地带 模糊了视线 赶走所有彩虹 *# 还是很爱你 爱你 我如何忘记 这段暧昧曾带来的幸福快乐 灰色的地带 模糊了视线 赶走所有彩虹 我们有的缘分 是不及格的爱 变成了满分友情