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21/02/13 :- The sunshine in my heart keeps me smiling! 心中的阳光就是让我一直微笑的理由！ There is double meaning to the sunshine I kept in my heart. I love the sun and I associate happy thoughts, things and people to sunshine. Though it's not easy, I try my best to only contain happy stuff in my heart. That is what keeps me smiling. Another reason is I love sunshine type of girl and for now, someone in particular. Even though we may not get to see each other as much as I like to, there is always so much to talk about whenever we meet up. I still get the butterflies fluttering in my stomach kind of feeling before our every meet up and my heart still races whenever I am with her. She has rejected my love, not once nor twice but thrice. I know not if I should or would I ever confess a fourth time. So, for now, the best place to keep my feelings for her is my heart. And by doing so, it keeps me smiling! \(^_^)/

17/02/13 :- One should never be afraid to make the 1st step. . . 我们不该害怕踏出那第一步。。。 There's the saying of the 1st step is the hardest. But there is also another saying, "A thousand miles journey starts with the 1st step." If we are always afraid to make that 1st step, we would never ever reach the destination we desired. Yes, it may not be easy. However, as time goes by, things would just settle on its own. The stuff you were afraid of in the 1st place may never happen or they would just be resolved on its own.

14/02/13 :- Blood is thicker than water! 血浓于水！ I'm not sure about others, but my extended (both paternal & maternal) family plays an important part in my life. Without them, I would not be the Ivan I am now. Some of the decisions I made in life, they might not agree but they would never fail to stand by me when things go wrong. Family always come 1st. That's why I despise people who put lovers/friends/work/hobbies, etc before their family. I also tend to look out for ladies who has great relationship with their family. If family was never your top priority, don't expect them to help you when you are dumped by your lovers, betrayed by your friends or when you got sacked from your job! What goes around comes around, start treating your family well if you've not been doing so. Don't come to regret only when it's too late!

07/02/13 :- Sometimes, some feelings are better kept in the heart unsaid... 有时候，某些情感还是藏在心里不说比较好。。。 Have you ever met someone, slowly fallen for her but never said the words you should? There are a lot of reasons why you didn't say those words. But a few years down the road, you would come to realize, maybe it wasn't that bad to keep them in your heart. =) It may actually be the best choice you have ever made for the both of you.

06/02/13 :- Like Father Like Son - There would always be similar traits no matter how you try to deny. 有其父必有其子 - 总有你无论如何都无法否认的共同点。 He contributed in bringing you to this world. You would always have his genes in you. Be it looks, character, personalities, somehow you would have something in common somehow. It could be good or bad and you absolutely have no control over it. Like Dad, I'm as stubborn as can be and has a foul temper towards my nuclear family. I love to speed and has just gotten my 1st summon. Dad had countless. (I don't want to break his record for that.) We are definitely MCP. (Male chauvinist person) However, we only love one woman deeply at one time and we tried our best to give her all we can. Do not be bother by what others say in front of you or behind your backs, we know ourselves best. As long as our conscience is clear, we have no fears. However, given our stubbornness, we don't give up that easily even when it is clearly a lost case. ...

04/02/13 :- Never believe everything others tell you, try it out yourself! 别人说的话，别照单全收，自己试试看！ In life, people tell you a lot of things. Most often than not, they added, "It's true!", "Trust me!", "I'm not lying to you!". I do not deny the stubbornness in me. When someone tells me a certain movie suxs, I'll still go ahead and watch it on my own. When people said a particular makan place sells horrible food, I would try out the food and have my own verdict. These are the not so serious stuff. Have you ever stop pursuing your dreams just because others tell you that you won't be able to make it? And what do you do? You give up trying all together or keep going to achieve what you were make for to prove them wrong? I hope you choose the latter. What the others said are what/how they think/feel, it does not and should not represent yours. We are all unique individuals, we should be able to have a mind of our own to think and feel...

03/02/13 :- When others say things that sound unpleasant to your ears; THERE'S NO NEED TO BE ANGRY, just treat them as lunatic. 当别人说了些不动听的话时，无需生气，只要把他们当作疯子即可。 Words are cheap and most people just speak what they want anytime they like. We have no rights to stop them. However, we can always take the power away from them to make us angry. Whether or not they say those things on purpose, there is absolutely no need for you to be angry. Just keep your cool & think of them as lunatics and you would know it's not worth harming your health by being angry. (^^,)