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Dangerous contented!

Wednesday, 17/08/2005 - Never be too contented, it's dangerous! When u start to get contented in life, u wld no longer tink of ways to improve urself. And it would lead to you losing ur stds. Slowly it may even caused self destruction. We as humans are nt even allowed to be self content, coz there wld alwiz be better ppl out dere. Or there wld alwiz be rm for improvement in watever we do. So juz kip on doing, even if u're at ur tip top condition, u still nid to make sure e'time u do the same thing, u get the same 100% std!

Rusty rust..

Tuesday, 16/08/2005 - Things tend to get rusty when you don't use them! Have you ever experienced getting weak in a particular area when it'd haf been a long time since u last did tt thing? Skills can get rusty. Things tt can be seen, felt can aso gt rusty over time. Accessories you dun wear for a long time will start to turn rusty too. Morale of the story - Use your skills as often as you could, revise the things you know. Use your stuff more frequent too. >.

No hardships = no fruits of labour

Monday, 15/08/2005 - You know hardships are nothing when you get to taste the fruits of your efforts! When we're wking hard like a bull, we wish we didn't hafta wk so hard. Bt when u start 2c the results of ur efforts, u're glad u didn't give up. Coz if u had, u wld nv taste the swt fruits of our labour! I duno abt u ppl, bt to me, it's simply worth the efforts. This mentality kips me going whenever I feel like giving up on sth. I tink of the end result of both holding on & giving up. I rather regret doing sth I shldn't than nt doing sth I shld.

Honour your own, respect others!

Sunday, 14/08/2005 - Be proud of yourself but not discriminate others! Alot of time, for alot of things, we tend to tink ours is better. Yes, no doubt it may be the best for us. Bt u hafta respect the other way ppl choose too. Coz it's the best for them too. Wat am I toking abt? Ppl may ask. I wish to state things clearer. Bt if I do, mb I wld offend afew ppl. So I choose nt to. Bt most impt thing, honour ur own decisions bt you must respect others' decisions!

Mastermind!

Saturday, 13/08/2005 - Your mind is the master of your body and YOU are the master of your mind! Your mind can tell ur body alot of things. And you need to noe tt it's YOU urself to tell ur mind wat to do. The mind can ctrl everything including the heart! Yes, affairs of the heart. All u nid is to recognize the presence of ur mind's thinking. The mind is alwiz tinking, bt u 1st nid to haf a clear mind. When ur mind is clear, it can tell u alot of things tt's rite & wat u really shld do. Alot of times, we're troubled coz we refuse to do wat our mind tell us to. I noe it's hard, bt r we gona give up juz bcoz it's hard? Do u tink it's ez to be in pregnancy for 9 mths & give birth? I dun tink it is loh, bt our mums still give birth to us. She went thru so much to bring u to tis world juz to haf a YOU who gives up when things are too tough? Tink again!

Facing up the fact?

Friday, 12/08/2005 - 有些答案早已在面前! Some ans to our queries or problems had long appeared b4 us. We actually even noe they exist. It's juz a matter of whether we wana face the truth. The truth tt hurts, the truth which is nt the ans tt we want, the truth tt we can't bring ourselves to accept it. Mb humans juz love self-deceiving. haha >.

坚持到底

Thursday, 11/08/2005 - Be like a postage stamp, stick till you get there! Alot of times, alot of us give up 1/2-way when things get too hard. We nv believe we can achieve by holding on. If only we can stick to wat we plan to do in the 1st place, work towards our goal.

自己跌倒自己爬

Wednesday - 10/08/2005 - It's okay if you fall! We'll nv learn hw to walk until we fell dw alot of times when we were toddlers. We picked ourselves up & try again, we even tried to start running b4 we even mastered the art of walking. We had been so much braver. As we grow older, we're so afraid to fall. And when we fall, we take a long time to pick ourselves up. Sometimes, some of us simply sit there, refused to get up. Y? Whr has the brave u gone to? Nv be afraid to fall, coz it's part of life. Juz rem to pick urself up when u fall. U can sit there & be sad or cry for all u want, bt at the end of everything, u muz pick urself up once more & try again!

自寻烦恼

Tuesday, 09/08/2005 - 人生的一些烦恼是自找的! In life, we haf alot of problems, troubles & never ending headaches. Bt some of them are created by ourselves. For some things where we need to let nature takes its course, we tend to worry abt them. And sometimes, we tink too much & too deep into it which causes us endless worries. So let loose of things which aren't meant 2b. Kip on tinking wld only make u worse. P/S: It's Singapore National Day! Happy 40th Birthday Singapore!! May our country prosper!!!

Past VS Present!

Monday, 08/08/2005 - The past don't reflect the present! Wat u're in the past will never ever reflect wat kind of person u're in the future! Coz ppl changes, from gd to bad & vice versa. It's ok if u're a bad rotten egg in the past, as long as u're willing to change for the gd, ur close ones will alwiz be willing to accept u. Ur family, partner & frenz. If they dun, they're nt even worth 2b call ur close ones. Unless u really did some realy bad stuff to them..den u haf no1 else to blame except urself.

Smile! =)

Sunday, 07/08/2005 - Happiness is a choice! Everyone has a choice to be happy. Dun find excuses for the state you are in, dun put the blame on any1 for it either. Yes, sometimes, somethings or some ppl will makes you upset, angry, sad or watsoever. Bt the ultimate decision lies in u on wat kind of emotions u wana haf. Since u haf a choice, y nt choose 2b happy? Tink, really go tink abt it. Y do we haf to let others decide hw we shld feel? Control, haf self control, be the master of ur own decisions & nt let other factors affect u!

Find someone to talk to.

Saturday, 06/08/2005 - Tell someone your problems! The other party may nt be able to help u in any way. Bt u get to voice out. Some1 is willing to lend u a listening ear. U might juz feel better after saying wat u kept in ur heart.

HeLp?!

Friday, 05/08/2005 - Help yourself if you want others to help you! U alwiz hafta help urself 1st b4 any1 else even god can help u. If u give up on urself, who else wld wana pull u up again? It takes 2 hands to clap. No matter hw sincere any1 wana help u, unless u let them to & help urself 1st, nth can be done.

Choice VS Chance

Thursday, 04/08/2005 - By choice, not chance! Though there're things in life we dun haf any or full ctrl over. There's are still things out dere for us to make decision & changes somethings. It's the choices tt we make tt determine the differences. It's not by chance tt sth happens. Even if it's a chance, chances can be self created. It will all goes back to hw you manage it.

Don't let ppl get on ur head..

Wednesday, 03/08/2005 - Be firm! If you haf viewpoints on a certain matter & strongly believe it's correct, den stand up for it, be firm! Don't give in, bt nt sturbborn either. Support ur views, yet open to suggestion & adapt or change. It do both parties gd!

做自己!

Tuesday, 02/08/2005 - Be yourself & feel good about it! It's really gd being urself. No1 u imitate after, no need to be aware of ur actions or words. Coz u're urself, ur words & actions come naturally frm u urself & no1 else. For those who alwiz put on a fake front when wif others, u will nv understand the joy of being urself! Coz u had simply lost ur true self..

Don't wait!

Monday, 01/08/2005 - Make things happen! Don't be the 1 to wait for things to happen, it may be too slow for u to react. Make them happen! Control the situation. You noe what to do better if u're the 1 who start it. And most often than not, u'll be glad u make the 1st step into making it happens!

For show? Save it then!

Sunday, 31/07/2005 - Never do things just for show! Do things out of sincerity! Dun do things juz for ppl 2c..Yah, they'll c..coz soon, they'll noe & be able 2c thru ur fake mask.

Nv dig bad stuff!

Saturday, 30/07/2005 - Never raise unhappy stuff! I bet almost every1 of us had quarrels with some1 b4. Our family, frenz, partners, etc. Many a times, we like to drag up old scores(the unhappy ones). It's nt wise to do that. It would only worsen the situation you are in & hurt the other party. Dun let ur emotions get over ur head. Control urself. If u can't, leave for a moment. Come back & talk things out when u cool dw & has a clearer mind.

Show a little kindness!

Friday, 29/07/2005 - Give a little kindness, be helpful! You don't need to do a great deed, juz do abit of kindness every nw & then. You can be a great person too! After the NKF incident, I understand alot of ppl starts to doubt Singapore's charity organization. But all I want to say is, our motive is to help the poor & needy. We trust the organization to make proper full use of the donations. What they did may be wrong, bt we can't deny the fact tt part of our donations did went to those who need them. I would urge every1 of you who read my blog to continue support charity programs, flag days & so on. Mb some of u has nv experience the pain of losing ur kin who contacted a terminal illness that needs lots of funds. Some of u even nv experience the kind of life wif little or no $$ for ur next meal. If dollars mean too much for u, cents will aso make wonder for those who need them. Even a 50 cents for flag day donations can goes a long way. Do at least juz tt, k?