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24/03/13 :- Things might see clearer when you get out of the picture... 从局外看事情或许会比较清楚。。。 I do not deny I'm easily frustrated by certain things or people. My temper is not good but I try my best to hold it. As I grow slightly more mature watching the years go by, whenever I feel the anger/heat is coming, I would tell myself to step out of this whole situation to look at things. If I can successfully do just that, many times, I can cool down by myself. I would be able to make a better judgement and avoid disputes/arguments in that case. I hate to give explanations, so if in the 1st place, I avoid disputes/arguments, I do not need to be forced to explain anything. Though most of the times, I still choose not to explain. As much as I hate to give explanations, I hate to be misunderstood...

07/03/13 :- Good guys finish last, but stay with you till your last day! 好的男生或许是女生最后的选择，但他们会陪你到生命的最后一天！ More than once, different people at different stages of my life tells me this, "Ivan, girls don't like good guys. You need to learn to be bad!" 在生命里的不同阶段里，不仅一次都会有人这样对我说，“Ivan, 女生不喜欢乖乖男。男人不坏，女人不爱。你要学怎么做坏男孩。” I have never buy that crap and never will. Even if most girls really like bad guys, that is none of my business. Reason being, they won't be the type of girls I like either. 我从不相信这歪理，永远都不会。 就算大多数的女生都喜欢坏男孩，这也不管我的事。 因为，她们就不会是我喜欢的那些女生。 The way I was brought up is to treat little girls, young ladies, mature women NICE! Real men behave this way. That is the belief I live by and will for the rest of my life. 我们家的教育方式就是要对小女孩，年轻女生与成熟的女人好！ 真正的男子汉都该如此。 这就是我相信的真理，这辈子都是。 Even if I would never meet the right girl who knows how to appreciate and treasure me, I would not change the way I am. 就算一辈子都遇不到那个懂得欣赏与珍惜我的女生，我也不会因此而改变。 My dad only studied till...

05/03/13 :- Do not lie the obvious! I may not have IQ of the smartest person on earth, I am definitely smarter than you in many ways! 别睁着眼说瞎话！ 我的智商虽然没有相等于世上最聪明的人，但我在很多方面绝对比你聪明得多！ Usually when a person lies, they leave behind traces for others. If you listen, read between the words and analyse what they said more carefully, you would spot these loopholes. It's definitely true when they said, "You need another 1,000 lies to cover the 1st lie." That's when liars keep lying just to cover up their previous lies. Why would you want to lead such a miserable life? By having to keep lying and even keep up with it and in time to come, you wouldn't be able to distinguish between the truth and lie you said. It is not others who you have lied to, you have merely wasted your whole life by living in your world of lies.

  04/03/13 :-   If you won't accept a one sided note, why would you allow yourself to take in a one sided story? 如果你不会接受单面钞，哪你又怎么容许自己接受单方面说的故事？   I love watching Justice Bao's shows. Why? Simply because he's a man of justice. It didn't matter to him if the criminal is the Emperor himself, someone of Royal Blood or a kin of his. He treats them equally, giving them the punishment they deserved and returning justice to the innocent.   Not everyone of us can be Justice Bao in today society. However, we can at least do our best in giving both parties a chance to speak up for themselves when things go wrong and you are asked to be the mediator. Or when you heard stories from one party on a particular matter, DO NOT spread what you heard before you are 100% sure that the information you have gathered is absolutely true.   Words don't cost a cent. However, they weigh a ton on the person who might be affected by those words. Words can pi...

03/03/2013 :- I usually do not care how others think of me and that's where I got my confidence from! 通常我都不太在乎别人对我的想法，这就是我自信的来源！ When I was very young, I try to impress others. Anyone and everyone around me, I try very hard. I try to behave how others feel I should, but I was never happy. I change according to the way people think/feel/say is correct. I've forgotten when I start telling myself, I live only for myself. I am in charge of my own happiness and so why must I lead the life others feel I should? Slowly, I brain-washed myself into doing things I like. There are good and bad in doing so. The good side was I slowly gain more confidence throughout the years. My stubbornness grew as well and that is the negative effect. However, I have never regret talking myself into making that change. Now, most of the times, I know exactly what I want and even when others think it's a bad idea, I hold onto my own beliefs. Intentionally or accidentally, they mention...