tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-123977582024-03-21T01:43:12.515+08:00*e@g|3 Evolution*Come into my inner world through this blog! Ivan's gona revealed his darkest side in this little comfort zone!Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.comBlogger1750125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-10533057291078145532022-08-22T01:01:00.001+08:002022-08-22T01:01:07.972+08:00With every threat, lies an opportunity. 每一個危機,都蘊藏著商機。<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqMYBBcsf95M5Qi2VG1wdeky-FJxommrFlZke4Zp6S_YzgwaHmxuFNuu0lxige_O560EE0LU4vPqCo7PfCZbwE_HxD9xGS2kgss1NYfYbgWAI-WwKPtTxAKVDfCEDhRYlObxdmcRh1dwdz1YdK_xcYIl3NMBTlBj8A3rFy1soQlyERzvJ60Q/s2048/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-08-21%20at%2011.52.06%20PM.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqMYBBcsf95M5Qi2VG1wdeky-FJxommrFlZke4Zp6S_YzgwaHmxuFNuu0lxige_O560EE0LU4vPqCo7PfCZbwE_HxD9xGS2kgss1NYfYbgWAI-WwKPtTxAKVDfCEDhRYlObxdmcRh1dwdz1YdK_xcYIl3NMBTlBj8A3rFy1soQlyERzvJ60Q/s320/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-08-21%20at%2011.52.06%20PM.jpeg" width="320" /></a><br />Stock arrived!<br />貨到了!</div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhx6OQe9hKO8FTHxkVSwoXHvT8wZhk7Tsf2M7qTLVc_T2xcTpvD1TIet_LkNKVc3eKwwNB3dRzcHpDYIPx01xO_d7aiV5-BYkdeMfQWCpoYsrrVusxSghp277K7TWZTuXc1PXRgC1EmeZfwXViUZmBEp-IWNR8DlcEK-n9EAQJVBPz2x_YvFg/s1080/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-08-21%20at%2011.52.05%20PM.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="746" data-original-width="1080" height="221" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhx6OQe9hKO8FTHxkVSwoXHvT8wZhk7Tsf2M7qTLVc_T2xcTpvD1TIet_LkNKVc3eKwwNB3dRzcHpDYIPx01xO_d7aiV5-BYkdeMfQWCpoYsrrVusxSghp277K7TWZTuXc1PXRgC1EmeZfwXViUZmBEp-IWNR8DlcEK-n9EAQJVBPz2x_YvFg/s320/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-08-21%20at%2011.52.05%20PM.jpeg" width="320" /></a><br />Testimonial from my customer!<br />顧客的見證!</div><div><p class="MsoNormal">With every threat, lies an opportunity.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I am thankful for all the shoten zenjin (heavenly gods and
benevolent deities in Buddhism terms) who appears in my life.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">When COVID first strikes, a bro approached me and asked if I
am interested to promote a product that could help with sterilization of 99.9% of bacteria
and viruses which help to prevent COVID.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Well, why not?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">There are people who trusted and bought 10-20 at one go,
there are people who do not believe or feel that it is perfectly fine to just
contact COVID since everyone is sure to get it sooner or later and there are
those who half-believed yet find it expensive.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Just as I build a solid base of trusting customers for the
products, the distributor in Singapore decided to stop importing this product.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">An easy way out for me was to just discontinue the sales of
this product.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">However, my customers kept checking with me about when would this
product be available again.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As a businessman, to be honest, revenue is important.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Yet, I would want to be able to help my customers with the
products and services I provide.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I know this product helps. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So, what’s next? <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">With a compassionate heart in wanting to help my customers get
their peace of mind.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">With wisdom, I contacted the original manufacturer in Korea to
import the product on my own.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">With courage, I decided to commit to the minimum order
requested.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Till now, I am still part of the 40% COVID Virgin in
Singapore.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I want to stay that way.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you are interested to find out more, PM Lobang King –
your personal shop consultant now.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal">每一個危機,都蘊藏著商機。</p><p class="MsoNormal">我感謝所有出現在我生命中的<span style="font-family: DengXian;">諸天善神</span>(「諸天善神」是指守護實踐正法之人的種種作用。在佛典裡,這種種作用被擬人化為守護受持正法之人的國土的諸神。)。</p><p class="MsoNormal">當 COVID 第一次來襲時,一位兄弟問我是否有興趣推廣一種可以幫助 99.9% 的細菌和病毒滅菌的產品,從而有助於預防 COVID。</p><p class="MsoNormal">為什麼不呢?</p><p class="MsoNormal">有些人相信並一口氣購買了 10-20 個,有些人不相信或認為感染 COVID 也無所謂,因為每個人遲早都會被感染,有些人半信半疑卻覺得很貴。</p><p class="MsoNormal">正當我為這些產品建立了一群堅實基礎的顧客時,新加坡的經銷商決定停止進口該產品。</p><p class="MsoNormal">對我來說,最簡單的方式就是停止銷售該產品。</p><p class="MsoNormal">但是,我的顧客一直向我查詢何時何以再購買該產品。</p><p class="MsoNormal">作為商人,老實說,收入很重要。</p><p class="MsoNormal">然而,我希望能夠通過我提供的產品和服務幫助我的顧客。</p><p class="MsoNormal">我知道這個產品做得到這一點。</p><p class="MsoNormal">下一步該怎麼走?</p><p class="MsoNormal">懷著一顆慈悲心,想幫助我的顧客能夠更安心。</p><p class="MsoNormal">憑著智慧,我聯繫了韓國的製造商,自行進口產品。</p><p class="MsoNormal">鼓起勇氣,我決定訂購對方要求的最低數量。</p><p class="MsoNormal">直到現在,我仍然是新加坡 40% 未曾感染 COVID 的其中之一。</p><p class="MsoNormal">我要保持現狀。</p><p class="MsoNormal">如果你有興趣了解更多,請私訊好康王 — 你的私人購物顧問。</p></div>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-3820958896877947362022-06-09T01:12:00.000+08:002022-06-09T01:12:06.584+08:00Forest School Leader - Ivan Lim 森林學校領導人<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhqEWnw7VDQEsjDXsTrjof6i27n4fANhDr91eQ5VbFxl2GPhkgqhi5piq4DtwTtCoIOlLDaJ9_zs-vzf-Ge1m0Cng_FAbEtQX5uFAUOpWv2p4B4-LFWvFukAr_G1cBbUFoj9U5Hc9F9GSLN5J0I9IHy-UqT9-rSXuJfVkL8y5zwfBxklinpjQ" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="510" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhqEWnw7VDQEsjDXsTrjof6i27n4fANhDr91eQ5VbFxl2GPhkgqhi5piq4DtwTtCoIOlLDaJ9_zs-vzf-Ge1m0Cng_FAbEtQX5uFAUOpWv2p4B4-LFWvFukAr_G1cBbUFoj9U5Hc9F9GSLN5J0I9IHy-UqT9-rSXuJfVkL8y5zwfBxklinpjQ" width="170" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Why Forest School?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What is your own philosophy?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Every child is unique and is talented in their own way.<br />They deserved the time and space to find out for themselves.<br />Not through endless hours of lessons, piles of homework or never-ending enrichment classes.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Let them learn through play and experience things for themselves.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">為甚麼選擇森林學校?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">你自我的哲學是甚麼?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">每個孩子都是獨一無二的,都有自己的天賦。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">他們應該有時間和空間自己去自我發掘。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">不是上無休止的課、做堆積成山的作業或永無止境的輔助課程。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">讓他們在玩樂中學習,親身體驗事物。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I dedicate the achievement of this certificate to the following people in no chronological order :</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Stacy Tung - When you were alive, you inspired me to touch lives with our own lives.<br />With your demise, it inspired me to chase my dreams right now and not wait till the time is right.<br />(My song for you - https://bit.ly/3xAMeKf)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Mummy & Qiqi - I could not let you see why I choose to do the things I do. You could not change my mind or stop me from doing what I want to do. Yet, you gave me the support I needed.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Shannon & Aleks - Thanks for understanding how much and why I really needed to do the training and for offering your financial aid.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Behind the scenes ATAStory business partners - Even though the company's direction took a 180degree turn, both of you supported my wildest dream.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Fellow Forest School comrades - I am grateful that I am not the only one who believes in the Forest School concept and that you folks want to create a positive impact. It takes a village to raise a kid and I am thankful we are in the same village.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Last but not least, my Forest School kids - Thanks for opening my eyes to a new horizon. Every session, I learn so many new things from every one of you. I truly hope every one of you would grow up to write A Truly Aspiring Story of your own.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This certificate is just the beginning. There is still a lot of learning for me.<br />I shall end the post here with what Ikeda Sensei wrote, "Actual ability is what counts. Academic qualifications have nothing to do with it!"</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我將此證書的成就不分任和順序地獻給以下的人:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">董宥均 - 你在世的時候,你啟發了我如何以生命感動生命。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">你的離世啟發了我此時此刻就應該追逐夢想而不是等到所謂的時機成熟。<br />(我為你寫的歌 - https://bit.ly/3xAMeKf)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">媽咪與琪琪 - 我無法讓你們明白我為什麼選擇做我所做的事情。你們無法改變我的想法或阻止我做我想做的事。然而,你們給了我我需要的支持。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Shannon & Aleks - 感謝你們了解我是真的多麼需要接受這個培訓並提供我經濟上的援助。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">ATAStory 幕後生意夥伴 - 即便公司的方向有了 180 度的轉變,你們依然支持我狂野的夢想。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">森林學校的同志們 - 我很感激我不是唯一一個相信森林學校理念的人,你們也想產生正面的影響。扶養一個孩子需要一整個村莊的力量,我很慶幸我們處在同一個村莊。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">最後但同樣重要的是,我的森林學校的孩子們 - 感謝你們讓我看到了新的視野。每一堂課,我都從你們每個人身上學到了很多新事物。我真的希望你們每個人都能在長大的路上,寫出屬於自己的真正有抱負的故事。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">這個證書只是一個開始。對我來說還有很多東西要學。<br />我以池田先生的指導來結束這部落文,“做人是靠實力,學歷不算甚麼。”</div></div>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-64932590538587234082022-04-19T22:36:00.002+08:002022-04-19T22:36:08.865+08:00Too much on your plate? 太多東西在你的餐盤上?<p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZOpi7vmKzINCNh2GfnRcVfJZfhk99VK1BgWdAVPoNGuQRVnBX2BQfauMnDGtx8QKsnHbVIoquoDWNHDZw6feDwmXhqtd5lnA3DrFpsIAlnmP04EG9ysJMzecOQ8UwiSOB2_nX1prstFt9tt7ihvhORq0EYhkONVHhbTwEv_vZ3_Yw4fLYoQ/s1500/68-Too%20much%20on%20your%20plate.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1500" data-original-width="1500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZOpi7vmKzINCNh2GfnRcVfJZfhk99VK1BgWdAVPoNGuQRVnBX2BQfauMnDGtx8QKsnHbVIoquoDWNHDZw6feDwmXhqtd5lnA3DrFpsIAlnmP04EG9ysJMzecOQ8UwiSOB2_nX1prstFt9tt7ihvhORq0EYhkONVHhbTwEv_vZ3_Yw4fLYoQ/s320/68-Too%20much%20on%20your%20plate.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div>19/04/22 :-<br />Too much on your plate? <br />太多東西在你的餐盤上?<p></p><div>Do you sometimes feel you have too much on your plate?<br />Everyone seems to want a part of you.</div><div><br /></div><div>A lot of things require your time and attention.<br />You feel like you need to split yourself up or become an octopus.</div><div><br /></div><div>Most of us do.<br />At different points in time.</div><div><br /></div><div>It is not easy.<br />But learn to focus and really do one thing at a time.</div><div><br /></div><div>The most important thing is...</div><div>Learn to relax and take a break once in awhile.<br />Even if it is just 5mins.<br /><br /></div><div><div>你有時會覺得你的餐盤裡有太多東西嗎?</div><div>每個人似乎都想要你的一部分。</div><div><br /></div><div>很多事情需要你的時間和關注。</div><div>你覺得你需要把自己分裂出來或成為八爪魚。</div><div><br /></div><div>我們大多數人都有過著感受。</div><div>就在不同的時間點。</div><div><br /></div><div>這並不容易。</div><div>但是要學會專注,一次只做一件事。</div><div><br /></div><div>最重要的是。。。</div><div>學會放鬆,偶爾休息一下。</div><div>哪怕只是5分鐘。</div></div>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-8514924616827481022021-10-17T01:03:00.003+08:002021-10-17T01:07:03.609+08:00Number Game 數字遊戲<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYlazvzUlVN2fNdIQQouTjzHSjN6M0M5GEPo9wnf4uJB0_ueOsveXKaGmCcpuJpXoKcyjDJM_ACM76u7qwha2jF_A1Yf8Ei_kpv59ooCp1jnzUgT50uW9LsFAB2tUE-729nFDJ/s1599/67-Number+Game.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1599" data-original-width="1599" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYlazvzUlVN2fNdIQQouTjzHSjN6M0M5GEPo9wnf4uJB0_ueOsveXKaGmCcpuJpXoKcyjDJM_ACM76u7qwha2jF_A1Yf8Ei_kpv59ooCp1jnzUgT50uW9LsFAB2tUE-729nFDJ/s320/67-Number+Game.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">17/10/21 :-</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">If it is a number game, would you hang on till the end?<br />若只是個數字遊戲,你會堅持到最後嗎?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">What if I tell you some of the things in life that you wanted are nothing but number games?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">If you can see the whole picture, would you be able to emerge as the winner in life?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I often get a lot of light bulb moments when I chant.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This was another night.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This is not a secret or magic.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We merely lack the ability to see the whole picture.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Thus we do not have the determination and gave up before we reach the end.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I think back of my own past.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">How many times or things did I give up because I did not hang in till the end?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I gave up simply too easily.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Or maybe, those were not the things I really wanted (that badly)?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We set targets on the things we want.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Halfway through the process, we felt tired, rejected, hopeless.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We could not find the will to carry on.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">We tell ourselves, this is not working out.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Let us just give up and go after something else.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">If I know, after 99 times:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- of approaching a customer for a sale, they would say YES on the 100th time...<br />- of playing a song on an instrument, I would perfect it on the 100th time...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- of trying for a challenge, I would achieve it on the 100th time...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">- of sharing Nichiren Buddhism with my family, 1 of them would start chanting on the 100th time...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">WOULD I HAVE HANG IN THERE AND DO IT FOR 100 TIMES?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">YES, I WILL!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">You would probably have your own list in life too.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I have to say though, this "theory" does not apply to everything in life; we need to have the wisdom to determine for ourselves whether it is the right time to give up or the right thing to hang on for.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />Take my own example, 2 different girls, at different periods of my life, I waited foolishly for 7 years each, it was a complete waste of 14 years of my youth.<br />Be wise, make your own judgment.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">如果我告訴生活中你想要的一些東西不過是數字遊戲呢?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">如果你能看到全貌,你能成為人生的贏家嗎?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我常在唱題的時候得到很多啟發的片刻。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">今晚又是這麼一個晚上。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">這並非秘密或魔法。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">只不過我們缺乏看到全貌的能力。<br />因此我們少了堅持的決心而在抵達終點前就放棄了。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我回想自己的過去.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我放棄過錯少次或事物就因為我沒有堅持到最後?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我太容易就放棄了。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">又或許,那些都不是我真的 (迫切) 很想要的?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我們為我們想要的東西設下了目標。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">過程進行到一半時,我們感到疲倦、被拒絕、絕望。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我們找不到繼續下去的毅力。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我們告訴自己,這樣行不通。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">不如就放棄,去爭取別的吧。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">如果我知道,在嘗試 99 次:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- 向顧客推銷後,第 100 次會拿到訂單。。。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- 練習玩樂器後,第 100 次能完美無誤地彈奏。。。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- 的挑戰後,第 100 次能挑戰成功。。。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">- 與家人分享日連佛法後,有 1 個人願意開始唱題。。。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我是否就會堅持把事情都做100 次?<br />是,我一定會!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">你人生中也許也有你自己的清單。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">不過我必須聲明,這個理論不是適合於人生的所有事物;我們必須有智慧自我判斷是否是時候放棄還是這是件應該堅持的事物。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">就拿我本身的例子,2 個不同的女生,我在人生的不同階段傻傻地等了她們各 7 年的時間,完全浪費了我14年的青春。<br />理智一點,做出自己的判斷。</div></div></div></div><p></p>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-6043236977592810592021-08-19T00:20:00.011+08:002021-08-19T00:27:22.273+08:00The real or imaginative you?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJKawK0irceXyINfOlPcUUrsG9OBqmiZYEsTNMUgyF5ErkZNz1VUlPoCSXPuZHjPQX4eUytIsCL3-Ftuo8HeTAUEhVwHIaW43kkvHC6Z_w7eL6CO7cn1AZbAv4x6geOhxd9YKE/s1599/66-The+real+you.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1599" data-original-width="1599" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJKawK0irceXyINfOlPcUUrsG9OBqmiZYEsTNMUgyF5ErkZNz1VUlPoCSXPuZHjPQX4eUytIsCL3-Ftuo8HeTAUEhVwHIaW43kkvHC6Z_w7eL6CO7cn1AZbAv4x6geOhxd9YKE/s320/66-The+real+you.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><p>19/08/21 :-<br />Did you fall in love with the real them or the imaginative them?<br />你愛上的是真實的他/她們還是你幻想中的他/她們?<br /><br />The imaginative them does not mean they do not exist, not like that imaginary friend you have.<br />It means the kind of person (usually good) you imagined they are. <br />In real life, they are (actually not as good) just not what you have imagined.</p><p>幻想中的他/她們並不是指他/她們不存在,不是你那個只活在你幻想中的朋友。<br />是指你幻想著他/她們是某一種人 (通常都是好的)。<br />但現實生活中,他/她們並不是如你想像中一樣 (往往都是沒那麼好)。</p><p>Someone asked this question recently.<br />I think this is something worth pondering over.</p><p>最近有人問了這個問題。<br />我覺得還蠻值得深思的。</p><p>This happened to alot of people around me.<br />My family and close friends.</p><p>這其實在我身邊發生過 - 我的家人與朋友都曾經歷。</p><p>I believe there are times you may have said this to someone too.<br />"He/she is not as good as you think they are."<br />As an outsider, there are things we can truly see clearer than the person involved.<br />Yes, on one hand, we can say they are blinded by love.<br /><br />想必你或許曾經對其他人說過。<br />“他/她並不是你想像中那麼好。”<br />身為局外人,我們或許看得比當局者清楚。<br />是的,或許一方面,我們可以說他/她們被愛迷惑。</p><p>Yet, when we are the person in the picture, we think differently.<br />Probably, you have said this to others who tried to warn you.<br />"There are things you do not know about him/her."</p><p>但反過來,當我們變成了當局者,我們的思維就不一樣了。<br />也許,你也曾經對想要警惕你的人這樣說過。<br />“有些關於他/她們的事你不了解。”</p><p>Well, this is an endless topic and there certainly isn't a right or wrong answer.<br />However, no matter how many what ifs you may have, some past can only be in the past.<br />You may be thinking, if I have done this instead of that, the result will not be the same.<br /> Perhaps, it won't or perhaps, the same result will still happen just a little later.</p><p>話說到底,這是個永遠沒有對與錯的話題。<br />但是,無論你心中有多少 “或許”,有些曾經就只可以留在過去。<br />你可能想著,或許我不那樣做而這樣做的話,結果就不一樣了。<br />也許,會不一樣,又也許同樣的結果還是會發生,只不過是延遲發生。</p>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-27167452130520616892021-07-03T23:40:00.002+08:002021-07-03T23:40:22.427+08:00Soulmate 靈魂伴侶 <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEil8OplF0ZLzkasqN-XcKK-L7Idswtq2oCxkETUfgOvh0fbpSKsf6ZKqEMp_yDmrBDmud2SR7OnRXSn3cPbBS3TxafEI6fhLK4eWaJh50uwznhXx3u8WxkggFdfVb2BXJzLtDGx/s798/65-Soulmate.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="454" data-original-width="798" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEil8OplF0ZLzkasqN-XcKK-L7Idswtq2oCxkETUfgOvh0fbpSKsf6ZKqEMp_yDmrBDmud2SR7OnRXSn3cPbBS3TxafEI6fhLK4eWaJh50uwznhXx3u8WxkggFdfVb2BXJzLtDGx/s320/65-Soulmate.png" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">03/07/2021 :-</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Age is not a determining factor in meeting the one - Soulmate</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">年齡不是遇見那個人的決定性因素 - 靈魂伴侶<br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">She said, "Though we met each other at this age, we have the feeling that we met our soulmates. Age is not a determining factor in meeting the one. Ivan, good luck and do not give up!"</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I believe everything happens for a reason.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Whoever appears before you is tasked to give you something.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">She is 60 and he is 67 years old when they met.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">They have been dating for 5 years for now.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Both of them feel they are each other's soulmates.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Thanks for the words of wisdom!<br />They truly come at the right time.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">她說,“雖然我們這個年紀才遇到彼此,但我們有那種遇到靈魂伴侶的感覺。年齡不是遇見那個人的決定性因素。 家樂,祝你好運也不要放棄!”</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">我相信每一件事的發生都有它的原因。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">出現在你面前的那個人背負給你甚麼的任務。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">他們相遇的時候,她 60 歲而他 67 歲。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">至今為止,他們已相戀了 5 年。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">他們都認定是彼此的靈魂伴侶。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">感謝充滿智慧之言!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">他們來得正是時候。</div>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-78739028098098375932021-06-07T16:07:00.001+08:002021-06-07T16:07:14.101+08:00With GREAT power comes GREAT responsibility! 能力越大意味著責任越重!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGrrZzAJj5GRh-s5KIMm469wcE4CGaDIhicqs8-yGWvLgxgtMb95EyaxBSNDeYNsjbt3Hzk3Rk1asK8GPH0HsIGA40qtAy7D-04o-Y2oZSYYvMP_x3RZ_18TfI3T7ePZUOCtM5/s1599/64+-+GREAT+Power.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1599" data-original-width="1599" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGrrZzAJj5GRh-s5KIMm469wcE4CGaDIhicqs8-yGWvLgxgtMb95EyaxBSNDeYNsjbt3Hzk3Rk1asK8GPH0HsIGA40qtAy7D-04o-Y2oZSYYvMP_x3RZ_18TfI3T7ePZUOCtM5/s320/64+-+GREAT+Power.jpeg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">07/06/2021 :-</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">With GREAT power comes GREAT responsibility! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">能力越大意味著責任越重!</div><p>Every one of us has different roles to play in life.<br />We are our parents' child, our siblings' siblings, our children's parents, a leader or member in our religion, a student or an ex-student from a certain school, etc.</p><p>Since I was young, I am drilled with the idea that people would blame my parents for it whenever I misbehave.<br />It would make others think that my parents didn't teach me well.</p><p>As we grow older, we may gain power, authority or position in the areas we are involved.<br />How we behave may be due to our own characters, personal feelings or decision based on our own judgement.<br />Yet, it is inevitable that others who know you as a certain "role", will tend to associate your behavior as that of all those who belong to the same group as you.<br /><br />"Oh, so this is how XX's child is like?"<br />"Oh, so this is the kind of student XX school produced?"<br />"Oh, so this is the way a staff of this XX will do?"<br />The list is endless.</p><p>Yes, as much as I believed we should not be too bothered with how others see us as long as our conscience is cleared.<br />There are still things we ought to observe because of the roles we hold.</p><p>Being the big brother among my siblings and cousins, an incident, when I was young, left a great impact on me.<br />I brought my younger siblings and cousins out to play and we were crossing the road back to my aunt's home.<br />Before the green man came on, I lead the whole group in dashing across the road.<br />Though there was no car, it was a bad move.<br />Upon reaching home, my youngest cousin told his Mum what happened.<br />My Mum overheard, because I was the oldest and the one who lead them in doing that, I got reprimanded.<br />Do I blame my cousin or got angry at him for "sabo-ing" me back then?<br />To be honest, I was not and instead it dawns on me, how great my influence was on them (my younger siblings and cousins).</p><p>I am still not perfect but as much as I can within my ability, I act in a way I should be, to uphold the image I should be having.<br />To some, they may think, "Then you are not being yourself!"<br />True and not true, most often than not, the way I should be behaving, is a way I do not reject being, it may just be I am not there yet.<br />Fake it till you make it! Our brain turns daily actions and behavior into habits. <br />The more you do it, it would slowly but surely become who you really are.<br />Of cos, the bottom line is, do it only if that is really the kind of person you want to be.</p><p>Be the leader that u want ur followers to be!<br />People follow what you do and not what you say.</p><p>我們每個人在生活中都扮演不同的角色。<br />我們是父母的孩子,兄弟姐妹的手足,孩子的父母,宗教的領袖或成員,某個學校的學生或前學生等。</p><p>從小,我就被灌輸了這種想法,只要我行為不良,人們就會責怪我的父母。<br />這會讓別人認為我的父母沒有把我管教好。</p><p>隨著年齡的增長,我們可能在涉及的領域裡中獲得權力、權威或地位。<br />我們的行為可能是由於我們自己的性格、個人感受或基於我們自己的判斷而做出的決定。<br />然而,無可避免的是,因為其他人視你為某個 “角色” 的人時,會傾向於將你的行為與你屬於同一群體的所有人的行為聯繫起來。</p><p>“哦,原來 XX 的孩子就是這個樣子?”<br />“哦,原來 XX 學校培育出的是這樣的學生?”<br />“哦,原來這個 XX 的員工是這樣的?”<br />還有一堆無止境的範例等。</p><p>是的,儘管我相信只要我們問心無愧,我們就不應該太在意別人如何看待我們。<br />當我們所擔任某些角色的時候,我們仍然需要注意一些事情。</p><p>作為兄弟姐妹中的大哥,小時候的一件事對我影響很大。<br />我帶著我的表弟妹出去玩,我們正過馬路返回阿姨家。<br />交通燈的綠人還沒亮起,我就帶著他們一行人衝過馬路。<br />雖然當下沒有車,但這是一個錯誤的舉動。<br />到家後,我最小的表弟告訴他母親事發經過。<br />我媽媽無意間聽到了,因為我是最年長的,而且是我帶領他們這樣做,所以我受到了譴責。</p><p>那時我是否因為我表弟的打小報告而責怪或是生他的氣呢?<br />老實說,我沒有,相反的,我突然意識到我對他們(我的表弟妹)的影響有多大。</p><p>我仍然不完美,但在我的能力範圍內,我會盡可能地以我應該的方式行事,以維護我應該擁有的形象。<br />對一些人來說,他們可能會想,“那你就不是你自己了!”<br />其實是也不是,很多情況下,我應該採取的行為方式,是我不拒絕的一種,可能只是我還沒有到那個境界。<br />假裝直到成真!我們的大腦會將日常舉動和行為轉化為習慣。<br />你做的越多,它就肯定會慢慢地成為你真正的樣子。<br />當然,底線是,唯有那是你真的想成為的人才去做。</p><p>成為你希望你的追隨者成為的領導者!<br />人們遵循你所做的,而不是你所說的。</p>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-61672584294183303622021-02-28T13:50:00.000+08:002021-02-28T13:50:35.382+08:00Spread your wings and soar high! 展翅高飛!<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjE6qhD1mA2djPVOHnj_rLmp0WgEqQ-c4Wd5oEQT6I0O6ICHCr_W_OT_FzieOVm6_ix5eKG2qQcFRqjfG8KPqntgSUWUo_-ePi7WrDdPMK-E4-JomnDcjKp_e666m32LLTRHyAD/s1496/63+-+Break+it+Down.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1496" data-original-width="1496" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjE6qhD1mA2djPVOHnj_rLmp0WgEqQ-c4Wd5oEQT6I0O6ICHCr_W_OT_FzieOVm6_ix5eKG2qQcFRqjfG8KPqntgSUWUo_-ePi7WrDdPMK-E4-JomnDcjKp_e666m32LLTRHyAD/s320/63+-+Break+it+Down.jpeg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">28/02/2021 - </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Lim Seng Kiew - In order to build a better thing (you), you need to be willing to tear (break) it down and rebuild it (you) again!<br />林盛僑 - 為了建造更好的東西(你),你需要願意將其拆解並再次重建(你)!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div> My dad was "very annoying"!<br />There were many things he did which annoyed me/us when he was alive.<p></p><p>However, some of the things he did has left strong learning points for me.<br /><br />One of the things he loved to do was tearing down my toys.<br /><br />Like most kids, I love Lego and other model building toys.<br />Of them, my most valued structure was a roller coaster car track I build and had it in my bedroom for the longest time which I played every night before I sleep.</p><p>Initially, I build that according to the instructions.<br />However, because my loving Mum bought me more than 1 set of tracks, I build a gigantic track with my own imagination.<br />It was long, so that my cars need to take a longer time to reach the end.<br />(As a kid, I merely want to play longer.)</p><p>However, my annoying dad tore down my tracks one day.<br />You can imagine my trauma when he does that.<br />That one sentence reasoning he gave did not help in stopping my tears back then but now, I learnt and benefit from it.<br />He said, "In order to build a better thing (you), you need to be willing to tear (break) it down and rebuild it (you) again!"</p><p>Of course, as a kid who took hours to build his initial tracks could not absorb that at all back then.<br />Did I build a bigger better roller coaster structure thereafter?<br />I did, but was doing it with anger and sadness, not forgetting the drive to want to be able to play again.</p><p>Why am I bringing up this story now?</p><p>In 2019, I attended a self-awareness course.<br />From Basic to Advanced to Leadership programme, I learned to break myself down and rebuild a stronger and better Ivan in the process.</p><p>Throughout the whole programme, I have approached many family members and friends, sharing with them what I have learnt and benefit from it.<br />Looking back, I was pretty aggressive about it.<br />In the process, I have offended and caused unhappiness to some of them.<br />If you are the person, have not unfriend me and is still reading till now, I hope you accept my apology.<br />Causing unhappiness and hurt to anyone was never my intention.</p><p>When I approached you, I see the bigger and stronger you at the end of the process.<br />However, I got anxious and agitated when I watched how you rejected the idea and that I failed to lead you into seeing the end product.<br />Thus, I pushed you to the limit, trying all means to make you sign up for the programme.</p><p>I have a list of family and friends whom I really hope to see them go through the programme.<br />That is my wish list when I am alive and it would be my dead note should I passed away.<br />I truly hope I can be able to witness you going through it and be present at your graduation ceremony instead of you going to my grave and telling me you have completed the course.</p><p>If you are ready to break yourself down and rebuild a stronger and better you, the next course intake is 3rd Mar to 7th Mar 2021.<br />Are you willing to take that leap of faith with me?</p><p>我父親 “非常煩人”!<br />當他還活著的時候,他常會做許多使我/我們感到煩人的事情。</p><p>但是,他所做的某些事情也為我留下了深刻的學習要點。</p><p>他喜歡做的其中一件事是拆掉我的玩具。</p><p>像大多數孩子一樣,我喜歡樂高積木和其他模型玩具。<br />在眾多玩具之中,我最看重的是我建造的過山車軌道,它被放置在我的臥室有好長一段時間,這是我每晚睡覺前會玩的玩具。<br /><br />最初,我根據說明書來建構它。<br />但是,由於非常寵愛我的媽媽給我買了超過一套軌道,所以我用自己的想像力建構一個超大型的過山車軌道。<br />由於軌道很長,所以我的車需要更長的時間才能到達終點。<br />(小時候,我只想玩更長的時間。)<br /><br />但是,有一天,我煩人的父親拆毀了我的軌道。<br />當他那樣做時,你可以想像我當時的創傷。<br />丟下一句推理完全無法阻止我的淚水,但是現在,我學會了並從中受益。<br />他說:“為了建造更好的東西(你),你需要願意將其拆解並再次重建(你)!”<br /><br />當然,作為一個花了數小時才建構其過山車軌道的孩子,那時根本無法吸收這道理。<br />之後,我是否建構了更大更好的過山車軌道呢?<br />我做到了,但是卻充滿了憤怒和悲傷,同時不忘那想要再玩的動力。<br /><br />我為什麼現在會提及這個故事?<br /><br />在2019年,我參加了一個自我意識課程。<br />從基礎到晉級再到領導人課程,我學會了拆解自我,並在此過程中重建了一個更加強大的家樂。<br /><br />在經歷整個課程的途中,我與許多家庭成員和朋友會面,與他們分享了我如何從學到的東西中受益。<br />回顧過去,我的方式太過侵略性。<br />在過程中,我得罪了部分的人並讓他們感到不滿。<br />如果你是其中一位,還沒有與我絕交的朋友,並且至今仍在閱讀此部落格,我希望你接受我的道歉。<br />造成不愉快和傷害任何人絕不是我的意圖。<br /><br />當我聯繫你時,我已經預見你通過此課程所能得到的成長。<br />但是,當我被你拒絕以及我無能為力讓你看到自己的完成品時,我感到焦慮不安。<br />因此,我將你推到了極限,嘗試以各種方式讓你報名課程。<br /><br />我有一個很長的列表,裡頭都是我真心希望能夠報名此課程的家人與朋友。<br />那是我在世時的願望清單,但如果我去世的話,那將變成我的遺忘。<br />我真的希望我能夠見證你完成此課程並出席你的畢業典禮,而不是你到我的靈位前告訴我你已經完成了這個課程。<br /><br />如果你準備好拆解並重建更強大的自己,那麼下一個課程的時間是2021年3月3日至3月7日。<br />你願意與我一起跨出信心這一步嗎?</p>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-66169060260272190322020-08-28T00:48:00.000+08:002020-08-28T00:48:05.329+08:00The Man's 37th Birthday! 那個男人的37歲生日!<p style="text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuUQaAG6rItjrPyZrtT44SUnomaW842iBB3Z_oKuE52HS5u7s0ioUZyP1NAGbU2BztWTJroMF9rMi0LIIu-rIqgUcXimiJNShpo5RlnW_BT3HtBcBoKIkxwCWbCru7pdt0ymHr/s1600/Ivan+Beary.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuUQaAG6rItjrPyZrtT44SUnomaW842iBB3Z_oKuE52HS5u7s0ioUZyP1NAGbU2BztWTJroMF9rMi0LIIu-rIqgUcXimiJNShpo5RlnW_BT3HtBcBoKIkxwCWbCru7pdt0ymHr/s640/Ivan+Beary.jpeg" /></a></p>As the man turns 37, waves of emotions filled his heart.<br />From the last birthday till now, so much things have happened.<br /><br />Though my sister always say I am full of self-praises, they were just jokes.<br />Today, I shall take this opportunity to acknowledge this man for who he is and the difference he has made to those around him.<div><br /></div><div>Helpfulness is my middle name and at times, I over do it at my own expenses.<br />To some, they felt I was giving too much of my time, energy and effort.</div><div>The returns may never outweigh what I have given.</div><div>However, one thing for sure, my heart is filled.</div><div><br /></div><div>I cannot save all the starfish that are being washed to shore.<br />However, each one I helped to throw back to the sea, my action matters.</div><div><br /></div><div>I have strong beliefs in the things I do. <br />I thought I was doing good by offering people :<br />- A chance to understand the religion which would lead them to their happiness.<br />- The business opportunity which could bring them the lives they want.<br />- The course which could open up their eyes, hearts and mind to who they really are inside and make a stand for themselves.</div><div>I have learnt, people are good enough, they do not want to feel that they lack in any areas.</div><div><br />Not a single soul has taken up any of the above mentioned which I have been trying to offer all these while.<br />It is alright, because I have planted seeds in them.<br />A bamboo tree do not break out of the soil until the 5th year.<br />(See story -> https://bit.ly/3gA5ih0)<br />Patient and persistence will pay off.<br />Last but not least, have faith in what I do.</div><div><br /></div><div>One day, I will :<br />- Have more of my fellow family members and friends taking up the religion which brings about their own happiness.<br />- Grow with my team and achieve our dream lives together.</div><div>- Be surrounded with a village of people who have their eyes, hearts and minds open to a whole new world they have inside them.</div><div><br /></div><div>HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE STRONG, RESPONSIBLE, LOVING MAN!</div><div><br /></div><div>在這個男人步入37歲的當兒,一波又一波的情緒湧上心頭。</div><div>從上一次生日至今,發生了很多很多事情。</div><div><br /></div><div>雖然,我妹妹常說我滿是自誇,但那些都是開玩笑的。</div><div>今天,我要藉此機會認可這位影響不少他身邊的人的男人。</div><div><br /></div><div>熱於助人是我的別名,但有時,熱心過於麻煩到自己。</div><div>對一些人來說,我花費太多時間,精力與心力了。</div><div>得到的回報也永遠不會超餘我所付出的。</div><div>但能夠確定的一點是,我的心是滿滿的。</div><div><br /></div><div>我無法拯救所有被衝上岸邊的海星。</div><div>但每丟一隻回到海裡,我的舉動對它來說是有意義的。</div><div><br /></div><div>我對我所做的事有著很深的信念。</div><div>我認為給予他人這些是為他們好 :<br />- 一個機會了解能夠通往他們幸福的宗教。<br />- 一個也許能夠實現他們夢想的生意機會。</div><div>- 一個可以讓他們打開眼,心與思維認清內在真實的自己並奠定自己的立場。</div><div>但我學會了,每一個人都很健全,沒有一個人希望感覺自己在任何方面上有不足之處。</div><div><br /></div><div>這一路下來,沒有一個人接受了我想給予的。</div><div>但無所謂,我已在他們心中播下了種子。</div><div>竹樹也是在第五年的時候才從土壤裡冒出來茁壯地成長。<br />(故事在此 -> https://bit.ly/3gA5ih0)</div><div>耐心與堅持必定會有收穫的。</div><div>最後我也要繼續保持信念。</div><div><br /></div><div>有一天,我會 :</div><div>- 看到更多親朋戚友開始接受這個能夠為他們自身帶來幸福的宗教。</div><div>- 與我的團隊一同成長並達成我們的理想生活。</div><div>- 被一村眼,心與思維開闊的人包圍,他們也發現了內心的新世界。</div><div><br /></div><div>祝這位強硬,有責任感與愛心的男人生日快樂!</div>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-56629623930617957562020-06-12T00:22:00.000+08:002020-06-12T00:25:27.338+08:00成功的人找方法,失敗的人找藉口! Winners find ways for their success, losers find excuses for their failures! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Do you give up just because others are ahead of you?<br />
Or do you take it as a motivation to surpass them and do better?<br />
It is not about making comparison with others on who has bigger houses, faster cars or more money?<br />
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It is doing a check and balance on ourselves.<br />
How far away are we from our own goals and dreams?<br />
What do you do to get closer to them?<br />
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There are people who eventually stop making goals or having dreams, because they already tell themselves, "I would never get there, I do not have that kind of destiny."<br />
We create our own destinies.<br />
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Not everyone is born with a golden spoon in our mouths.<br />
However, it doesn't mean we would never be able to make big goals and dreams and achieve them.<br />
It merely mean we may have to put in more time and effort than those who has a head start before us.<br />
Yet, I do know of friends who were born into not just rich, but super duper rich families and yet they own their current success to themselves.<br />
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They did it with their own hard work, earn their first dollar by being a normal employee like most of us.<br />
Some work even harder than we do because they do not want others to think or say, "Because your parents are rich!"<br />
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No matter what kind of family you were born into, if you simply sit there and wait or complain to each and every person you met, "I do not have a good life. I am not born into a rich family. I do not have a high education (because my family could not afford). I cannot get a girlfriend or boyfriend. I do not have the network." And the whole self-victimized list goes on like 𝜋 (3.141592653589793238...), yah you get what I meant.<br />
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Make BIG goals and dreams and work your ass off to achieve them.<br />
You cannot be bigger than your dreams and it does not cost you a cent to dream, why won't you just do it?<br />
Write down the big dreams and work out the small steps and plans to achieve them.<br />
“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.”<br />
In case you do not know what that means, the internet says it can be interpret as : If you're aiming for something, even if you don't achieve it, you'll still be somewhere better than where you started.<br />
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Go on and find the ways to your success and stop making excuses for why you failed to achieve what you want.<br />
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你是否因為他人領先而放棄?<br />
有或者當此為激勵自己去超越他們做得更好?<br />
這裡並不是要你與他人做比較 - 誰住的房子比較大,開的車比較快還是誰的錢比較多?<br />
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純粹是檢視自己。<br />
我們究竟離我們的目標與夢想多遠?<br />
要怎麼做才能接近一點?<br />
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有些人甚至放棄設定目標與夢想,因為他們告訴自己,“我永遠無法到達,我沒有那種命。”<br />
命運是自己創造的。<br />
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並非每一個人都是含著金湯匙出世的。<br />
但這不意味我們就不能設下大目標與夢想並且達成他們。<br />
只不過我們需要比那些先天條件比較領先的人付出更多的時間與努力。<br />
話雖如此,我依然有認識朋友不僅是有錢而是非常有錢人家的孩子以他們自己的實力獲得現在的成功。<br />
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他們憑著自己的辛勞,像一般人一樣出外打工賺取自己的第一份收入。<br />
他們有些甚至比我們任何一個人更勤奮就因為他們不想他人認為或說風涼話,“還不是因為你父母有錢!”<br />
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無論你出生在甚麼樣的家庭,如果你整天就只是坐以待斃或見人就訴苦,“我命不好。我沒有出生在富裕人家。我沒能受到高等教育 (因為家計不能負擔)。我無能交到女或南朋友。我人際網絡不夠廣。” 自我憐憫的清單就有如圆周率 (3.141592653589793238...),是的,你知道我的意思。<br />
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設下遠大的目標與夢想然後竭盡所能地去達成。<br />
你永遠無法大過你的夢想而設夢想也不花你一毛錢,為何不做呢?<br />
把遠大的夢想寫下來再規劃小步與計畫去實現。<br />
“朝月球射去。就算你失算,你會降落在星星當中。”<br />
以防你不清楚此意,它可被解讀為 : 若你朝著某件事前進,就算最終你無法到達,你肯定比你原先的處境更好。<br />
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快去尋找成功的方法而別再為自己的失敗找藉口了!Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-58196540911066621272020-05-31T17:25:00.001+08:002020-05-31T19:59:00.104+08:00What these 7 & 8 words taught me? 這7與8個詞句教了我甚麼? <div style="text-align: center;">
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<b><u>Compassion, Wisdom, Pure Heart, Sincerity, Trust, Character, Courage</u></b></div>
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When I first got to know of the campaign to contribute Vitamin D to our healthcare professionals, I merely wanted to just contribute 1 bottle on my own.</div>
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However, it later turns out to be a total of 72 bottles my friends and I managed to contribute to the NCID staff.</div>
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I reflected on the whole process and asked myself, "What works for me such that I can garner the support of so many people?"</div>
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That's when I realized it was because of the 7 words above.</div>
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With the <b>COMPASSION</b> thought of merely wanted to do something for our front line healthcare professionals, it triggers me to seek my friends' contribution.</div>
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<b>WISDOM</b> of being able to draft a message that speaks to my friends and touch their compassion department as well to want to contribute.</div>
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I did it with a <b>PURE HEART </b>with the sole intention of wanting to do my little part in paying back to society.</div>
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Throughout the messaging process, I believe it was my <b>SINCERITY</b> which my friends can feel and decided to contribute as well.</div>
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It definitely has got to do with their <b>TRUST</b> level in me, when they decided to part with their money.</div>
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To build a <b>CHARACTER</b>, is not done overnight, I credit to my upbringing to my grandparents and parents whom taught me the importance of doing good deeds.<br />
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Last but not least, with all the above equipped, nothing would have happened with <b>COURAGE</b> to even send out the message.</div>
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Where did I get this courage from?<br />
That brings me to 2 other 7 and 8 words which have been guiding my everyday life.</div>
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Some of you may have known, I went for a Leadership training course in 2019.<br />
That would definitely be one of the biggest turning point in my life.</div>
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When I decided that I want to message my friends to ask for their contribution, was I scared?<br />
Yes, I definitely am. The one thing I am most afraid of in my life other than death, is REJECTION.</div>
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So, I fully utilized what I have learnt from the training course last year, especially the magical phase -> _._._._.G.F.I.A => _____._____._____._____GO.FOR.IT.ANYWAY.</div>
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Reason why I am only revealing the last 4 words was because you need to experience the whole process yourself to be able to make full use of this phrase.<br />
It is just like what people always say, do you want to pay money to go to a concert and hear the singers sing or do you want your friends who paid to go for the concert to come back and sing for you?<br />
The effect is different, you would not feel the impact and the full phrase would not mean anything to you either.</div>
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Next 7 words phrase which is guiding my everyday life is non other than Nam-myoho-renge-kyo.</div>
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Being a believer in Nichiren Buddhism, I am chanting daily for the happiness of all living beings.<br />
At the same time, I am the lionhearted disciple who possess the courage to do what my heart knows as the right thing.</div>
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It is no coincidence that I have included the core concepts of Nichiren Buddhism - Compassion, Courage and Wisdom in the beginning part of this post.</div>
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Buddhism accords with reason and our faith is reflected in our daily life.<br />
I always believe how we do anything is how we do everything.</div>
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With a determined heart filled with compassion to do good, I would definitely bring forth the wisdom in me to find a way and carry it out with courage.</div>
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<b><u>慈悲、智慧、真心、誠意、信任、人格、勇氣</u></b></div>
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當我一開始獲知有這項為我們的醫護人員貢獻維生素D的運動時,我本來想著自己貢獻一瓶就好了。</div>
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但到最後,我成功地與我的朋友共同貢獻了72瓶給新加坡國家傳染病中心的醫護人員。</div>
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我回想這整個事件並自問,“我是如何取得那麼多人的支持,是甚麼有效的方式?”</div>
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我領悟到是因為以上7個詞句。</div>
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出自於一份想要為醫護人員做點甚麼的<b>慈悲</b>,引發了我尋求朋友協助貢獻的舉動。</div>
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以<b>智慧</b>編寫出能夠開啟朋友的慈悲部門的簡訊讓他們願意一同貢獻。</div>
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一顆想要回饋社會的<b>真心</b>。</div>
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在發簡訊的過程,我相信是我的<b>誠意</b>打動了我的朋友讓他們也願意一同貢獻。</div>
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當然也少不了朋友對我的那一份<b>信任</b>,才能讓他們願意慷慨解囊。</div>
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要建立一個人的<b>人格</b>並非一朝一夕的事,我歸功於我的祖父母與父母從小就教導我們行善的重要性。</div>
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當然就算具備了以上所有的條件,少了發出簡訊的<b>勇氣</b>,甚麼事也不可能發生。</div>
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那麼我又是哪來的勇氣?</div>
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說到這,就要回歸一直伴隨著我的2句 7 與 8 個指導我每一天生活的詞句。</div>
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有一些人也許知道我在2019 報名參加了一個領導人訓練課程。</div>
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那絕對是我人生其中一大轉折點。</div>
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當我決定發簡訊給我朋友要求貢獻時,我害怕嗎?</div>
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當然,我確實很害怕。除了死亡之外,我最怕的就是被拒絕。</div>
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所以,我徹底運用了從課程學到的知識,尤其是那重要的一句 -></div>
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<span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">_._._._.G.F.I.A => _____._____._____._____GO.FOR.IT.ANYWAY => </span>不管他的做就對了。</div>
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(這並非官方的正確中文翻譯,是我自己聯想的。)</div>
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為何我選擇不把英文的所有8個詞彙都透露出來是因為你必須親自去體會整個過程才有能力充分發揮這8個字的精髓。</div>
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就好比人們常說的,你希望自己買票去聽專業歌手唱歌,還是讓你付費的朋友去聽了演唱會回來唱給你聽?</div>
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那個效果是不一樣的,你無法感受到那震撼力而這8個字對你也毫無意義。</div>
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接下來提到的另外7個每一天指導著我人生方向的字就是南無妙法蓮華經。</div>
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身為日連佛法的信徒,我們每一天都為著所有眾生的幸福唱題。</div>
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同時,身為持有獅子王之心的弟子,我擁有勇氣去執行內心覺得對的事。</div>
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我把日蓮佛法的核心概念 - 慈悲,勇氣與智慧放入這個部落文的前段並非巧合。</div>
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佛教符合理性,我們的信仰反映在我們的日常生活中。</div>
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我也深信,我們如何處理一件事的方式就是我們如何處理生活中的每一件大小事的方式。</div>
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帶著一顆想要行善的心,我一定能湧現出智慧找到方法並鼓起勇氣去執行。</div>
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15/05/2020 -</div>
Date like how you want your daughter to be dated. <br />
以你想要你女兒被追求的方式來交往。<br />
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Today would be my Dad's 65th Birthday if he is alive.<br />
I have been wanting to write this post, so I decide today is a good day to do so.<br />
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Everyone has their own ways in courtship.<br />
As for mine, the basis is imagining the girl you are dating now to be your own daughter in future.<br />
How do you like her to be dated?<br />
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Do you want her to return late at home?<br />
Do you like her to be on the phone most of the times?<br />
Do you want her personal time with her family and friends to be affected?<br />
Do you like that her priorities are mixed up or disrupted?<br />
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If this is not what you want to see of your daughter, do not let this happens to the girl you are dating now.<br />
<b><u><span style="font-size: large;">Simple because, she is also somebody's daughter now.</span></u></b><br />
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After being a private hire driver for 10 months, I have heard countless interesting as well as disgusting conversations among my passengers.</div>
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I shall share some of the disgusting conversations among my male passengers which got me thinking of those female friends who hate guys.<br />
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At the same time, I start to worry for my future daughter if I am lucky to have one.<br />
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<b><u>Case 1 :</u></b><br />
A : I would not add them (the girls) on LINE, I ask for their IG instead.<br />
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Passenger boarded my car with a case of 24 cans of beer.<br />
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Destination : xxx Hotel<br />
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Convo with the brothers on the other line on speaker phone :<br />
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Passenger : Hey! I brought the beer le. The girls confirm will come one not? Will they fly aeroplane not?<br />
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Brothers : Do not worry lah, XX arranged and confirm with them de. But hor, here only got 2 connecting room leh. 3rd person use toilet ah?<br />
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More nonsensical and disgusting conversation went on...<br />
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But I got hot in my mind and heart when the passenger said, "I only brought 1 mask, not enough to share lah. You never wear never mind lah, you are not married. I still have kids to raise de leh."<br />
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Fetched 2 guys from a Thai Pub.<br />
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A : Show me the photo of the girl (XX) C was mentioning leh. I trust his taste, he said good means definitely good.<br />
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As B proceeds to show photo of XX, A asked, "Introduce YY to me leh. I want to expand my social circle."<br />
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B : Me first, you wait lah, I want to expand her "circle" first. (Think deeper)<br />
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A : But I thought you already have ZZ.<br />
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B : So what?<br />
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A : When are you going to marry ZZ?<br />
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B : Only got together for a year, what marry lah?<br />
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A : If it's me, together for 6 months, I would have planned for marriage le!<br />
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Up to this point, I already cannot...<br />
So this B guy has a girlfriend, ZZ and he wants to bed YY?!<br />
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Guys, who are reading this post, I hope you are not like these jerks I have fetched.<br />
Ladies, be smart, be alert and learn to protect yourself.<br />
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May we all invest true feelings and meet people who are worth our love.<br />
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如果爸爸還在,今天是他的 65 歲生日。<br />
一直都想寫這文章,決定今天正是時候。<br />
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每個人都有自己的追求方式。<br />
至於我,最基本就是想像現在正追求的女生是你以後的女兒。<br />
你希望她如何被男生追求?<br />
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你想她晚回家嗎?<br />
你是否喜歡她大部分時間都在聊電話?<br />
你是否希望她與家人和朋友的個人時間受到影響?<br />
你是否喜歡她的優先事項被打亂或打擾了?<br />
更多的例子待續。。。<br />
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如果你不願意看到這些事情發生在自己的女兒身上,就別讓這些事情發生在你正在追求的女生身上。<br />
<b><u><span style="font-size: large;">就因為一個很簡單的理由,她現在也是別人家的女兒。</span></u></b><br />
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當了10個月的私昭車司機,從乘客的對話中聽過無數有趣的也有噁心的內容。<br />
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在這裡與你們分享一些我載的男乘客之間噁心的對話,讓我不經回想到很多討厭男人的女性朋友。<br />
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<b><u>例子1 :</u></b><br />
A : 我從不加她們的 LINE, 我會詢問她們的 IG 帳號。<br />
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A : LINE 你需要對方的帳戶名稱才能加好友, IG 我可以(對我老婆) 說,我不小心跟隨她的。<br />
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乘客帶了1箱24罐的啤酒上了車。<br />
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地點: XX 酒店。<br />
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之後,開著擴音開始與哥們的對話 :<br />
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乘客 :嘿!酒我帶了。那些女的確定會來的嗎?會不會放飛機?<br />
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哥們 :放心啦,XX 已經跟她們安排與確認了。只不過,這裡是兩間連通式的房間嘞。第三個人用浴室啊?<br />
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接著他們繼續更多無聊與噁心的對話。。。<br />
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不過,當我聽到這乘客說這段時,我已經惱羞成怒,“我只帶了一個口罩,不夠分啦。你沒有戴無所謂啦,你又還沒有結婚,我還有小孩要養的。”<br />
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從泰國酒吧接了兩名乘客。<br />
A : 給我看剛剛 C 提到的那個女孩 (XX) 的照片嘞。我相信他的品味,他說好的絕對是好的。<br />
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當 B 在秀 XX 的照片時,A 繼續問,“介紹那位 YY 給我認識嘞。我想擴大我的社交圈子。"<br />
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B : 我先來,你等著,我還想先擴大她的 “圈子”。 (想深入一點)<br />
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A : 你不是有 ZZ 了嗎?<br />
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B : 那又如何?<br />
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A : 你何時要娶 ZZ?<br />
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B : 才在一起一年多,娶甚麼啦?<br />
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A : 換成我,在一起6個月,我就計畫結婚了!<br />
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聽到這裡,我已經不頂。<br />
原來這個 B 男已經有女朋友而還想上 YY?!<br />
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那些正在閱讀這篇文章的男生,希望您不像我載到的這些混蛋一樣。<br />
女士們,聰明點,保持警惕,請學會保護自己。<br />
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但願我們交出真心的同時能夠遇到值得擁有我們愛的人。Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-20222934481127098122019-12-06T03:29:00.001+08:002019-12-06T03:34:12.176+08:00Stay Firm, Trust Your Intentions, Be Committed, Never Give Up! 保持堅定,相信自己的意圖, 做出承諾,永不放棄!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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06/12/19 - </div>
Stay Firm, Trust Your Intentions, Be Committed, Never Give Up!<br />
保持堅定,相信自己的意圖, 做出承諾,永不放棄!<br />
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It has been a long time, I am tired.<br />
Physically, mentally and mostly emotionally.<br />
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I an not a rational person, I act upon emotions.<br />
Ended up with injuries and bruises all over.<br />
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Though I know I have to brush up on my communication, it takes time for improvement to take place.<br />
Feedback I've received and as the results showed, "Ivan, you are always/easily misunderstood."<br />
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Yes, it gets frustrating and eventually hurting when others not only do not get what you meant and went to the other extreme.<br />
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I shared my business, my products and the course I've attended.<br />
I shared my business to prep others for their Plan B and the very bad job market that's coming up.<br />
I shared my products hoping to improve and maintain people's health.<br />
I shared the course hoping that people see what is possible for them and they can start taking action to elevate their lives.<br />
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People do not see the value I see in them and the doubts they hold hurts me badly.<br />
I understand they are not rejecting me and it was never their intentions to bring hurt to me.<br />
Sometimes, we just cannot control our own emotions and how we should or should not feel...<br />
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But I'm thankful for friends who told me, "Stay Firm, Trust Your Intentions, Be Committed, Never Give Up!"<br />
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已經好久了,我累了。<br />
體力上,精神上,主要是情感上。 <br />
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我並非一個理智的人,我依情感行動。<br />
最後結果便是偏題鱗傷。 <br />
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我知道我需要加強我的溝通能力,但進步需要時間。<br />
我得到的回饋與結果都顯示,“家樂,你經常/容易被人誤解。” <br />
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是的,很煩人甚至當他人無法了解你的意思或到另一個極端,會很受傷。 <br />
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我分享我的事業,產品與去上的課程。<br />
我分享我的事業好讓他人有個備胎 B 計劃以便麵對即將到來的很差的就業市場。<br />
我分享我的產品希望能夠讓他人的健康得到改善與保持健康。<br />
我分享課程希望讓他人看見他們擁有的無數可能並採取行動讓生命提升。 <br />
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他人無法看見我在他們身上看到的價值而他們的懷疑讓我很受傷。<br />
我明白他們並非拒絕我更沒想過給我帶來傷害。<br />
但偶爾,我們就是無法控制自己的情緒與我們應該或不應該有的感覺。 。 。<br />
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不过,我感恩有好友告诉我,“保持堅定,相信自己的意圖, 做出承諾,永不放棄!”Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-28056865493868900432019-11-11T01:24:00.000+08:002019-11-13T09:58:59.217+08:00My support, my lifeline, my family! 我的支助,我的生命線,我的家人!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We had FUN!</div>
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Do you get unconditional support from people around you who always have your back?</div>
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Have you found a family outside your blood related one?</div>
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你找到了分享你最內心秘密的安全基地嗎?</div>
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你是否有一群毫無條件給予你支持的人總是挺著你?</div>
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有沒有人或許比你更在乎你的勝利?</div>
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你可找到在血緣關係以外的家人?</div>
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3 months ago, I do not know what to get out of this.</div>
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I have always thought I know it all.</div>
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I was wrong. </div>
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Asking for support used to look like a failure to me.</div>
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I have learnt that it is perfectly fine to do so.</div>
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Many things in life, we cannot complete them all by ourselves.</div>
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Why are we depriving others the chance to help us?</div>
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It was definitely not the easiest journey.</div>
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However, this has got to be one of the best decisions I have made for myself.</div>
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Changes takes just a moment.</div>
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It is really a matter of how much you want it.</div>
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This is not magic, just a shift in thoughts.</div>
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The journey of self-discovery was amazing and definitely rewarding.</div>
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Knowing who I was, am and always will be taught me not to beat myself up.</div>
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Feeling the stretch, going the mile to realize I can do more than I thought I could empowered me.</div>
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Just when I thought 100% was all I have got, a deeper relization of giving it all I have when I am focused on what I really want brings out the dauntlessness me.</div>
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Learning to handle what comes my way and not wait till the "perfect" moment allowed me to feel my own presence.</div>
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Even if I have to make this decision again, despite receiving misunderstandings from family and friends, I would still take the leap of faith and make this decision once more!</div>
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三個月前,我毫無頭緒這將會是怎麼樣的結果。</div>
一直認為自己甚麼都懂。<br />
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我錯了。</div>
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要求支助對之前的我來說看起來像失敗了。</div>
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如今,我了解到並沒有甚麼大不了的。</div>
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人生有很多事情是無法靠我們自己去完成的。</div>
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我們又為何要奪取別人幫助我們的機會呢?</div>
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一路走來,這絕對不是條容易的道路。</div>
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改變只需一瞬間。</div>
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純粹在於你有多想要。</div>
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不是甚麼魔術,只不過改變思維。</div>
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這一段自我發掘的道路絕對是精彩與收穫滿滿的。</div>
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從了解過往,現在與未來都將會是如此的自己讓我了解無需對自己太苛刻。</div>
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就當我以為自己已付出 100%,專注地付出所有把無畏的自己帶了出來。</div>
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兵來將擋,水來土掩而並非等待最完美的時候出擊讓我獲得了存在感。</div>
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Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-29066376160899102562019-09-22T04:19:00.003+08:002019-09-22T04:19:53.792+08:00BE AUTHENTIC! 做真實的自己!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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22/09/19 :-<br />
BE AUTHENTIC! 做真實的自己!<br />
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Do you actually have AUTHENTIC and RISKTAKING friends who are willing to be TRUTHFUL and OPEN with you, put TRUST in you that you know whatever they do or say is a way of CARING for you?<br />
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I am proud to say I have a lot of best friends whom I can pour my hearts to.<br />
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These friends are those I truly care and hold closely to my heart.<br />
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However, being a perfectionist in the past and trying very hard to be the Mr Nice Guy, I never had the courage to tell them how I have felt even if I know it is going to help them.<br />
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My image was at stake and I was not willing to risk it.<br />
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I am glad after attending a course which I would say is a turning point in my life, I now find the courage to speak truly and openly on what is on my mind such that I can help those around me grow.<br />
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Tonight (21Sep19), there was a fire burning in me and I have this strong desire to meet a close friend at 2350 and share how I felt about the situation my friend is in.<br />
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From the bottom of my heart, I truly want to do this one thing which would help my friend.<br />
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Now that the ball is in my friend's court, it is entirely up to my friend to make things happen.<br />
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Wish you make the choice which would serve you for the rest of your life!<br />
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你是否有真實與富有冒險精神的朋友願意對你誠實坦白,並相信你知道他們所做伙說的一切都是出自關心你?<br />
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我很自豪地宣告我有許多能傾訴心聲的好朋友。<br />
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這些朋友也是我真正關心與放在心上的人。<br />
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不過,以前的完美主義與想方設法成為好好先生,總是找不到勇氣告訴他們自己的想法,即便我知道會幫到他們。<br />
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賭上自我的形象而我不願意冒險。<br />
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我很慶幸自己上了一個可說是我人生轉捩點的課後,我找到了勇氣把自己的想法誠實坦然地說出來,好讓我身邊的人能夠成長。<br />
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今晚 (9月21日),心中有一把火燃燒著強烈的慾望讓我在 2350 時分約見一名好友並與TA分享自己對於TA的處境所產生的想法。<br />
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打從心裡真心地想為這位朋友做這一件事,希望能夠幫到TA.<br />
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球已開到朋友的場上,唯有TA能決定事情的走向。<br />
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希望你做出一個有利於你接下來人生的選擇!Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-45950520575847369622019-05-21T00:38:00.000+08:002019-05-21T00:38:08.066+08:00In a world where you can be anything, BE KIND! 在一個你甚麼都可以成為的世界裡,選擇善良!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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21/05/19 :-<br />
In a world where you can be anything, BE KIND!<br />
在一個你甚麼都可以成為的世界裡,選擇善良!<br />
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Guys may have strong ego, but we have feelings too.<br />
Not all guys are wolves, who are only after your bodies.<br />
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When we give you our hearts, please treat them with care.<br />
You may not want to be the owners, but do not go around breaking them.<br />
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Many have came to show their care and concern, I'm truly grateful and appreciate your kind words.<br />
I am sorry, I couldn't share much on the details.<br />
I can only say, I am not ok, but don't worry, I would be fine as time goes by.<br />
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Whatever that has happened, was just a case of a silly guy misinterpreting all the wrong signals sent.<br />
Falling in too fast and too deep.<br />
The girl was playing with fire and when she realized the fire was near, the most logical thing to do was to let go and not get her fingers burnt.<br />
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that, except the guy is left to pick up the broken pieces of his fragile heart which he has given out too soon.<br />
Only to finally realized at the end of the day, he was nothing but an emotions dumping ground for the girl.<br />
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男人的自尊心很強,但我們也有感情的。<br />
並非所有男生都是想要佔領你身體的狼。<br />
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當我們把心交給你,請你小心對待。<br />
就算你沒有想要成為心的主人,也請別將它們打碎。<br />
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好多人來表示關心,我對此非常感激也感謝你們的善言善語。<br />
很抱歉,我無法透露太多的詳情。<br />
唯一能說的,就是我雖然還不 ok,但請放心,我會隨著時間好起來的。<br />
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對於所發生的事,就只不過是一個傻男生錯誤地接收所有被發出的訊號。<br />
陷得太快太深。<br />
女生在玩火而當發現火勢逼近,最邏輯性的舉動就是放手不讓自己的手指被燒到。<br />
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這絕對沒有錯,只不過那顆太早給出脆弱的心現在就留下男生一一地將碎片撿起。<br />
到了最後,才恍然大悟,一直以來自己其實只是女生的情感拋擲站。Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-31643516108284177052019-04-16T21:41:00.000+08:002019-04-16T21:58:42.723+08:00Never judge by appearance - 永遠不要以外貌下判斷<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Tattoos - A sign of rebelliousness, gangsters, evil, etc.<br />
However, is that the truth?<br />
Every tattoo tells a story and I know this is not where it would stop.<br />
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I can only say, if you judge me by my past or from what you think you see, you may not be able to truly appreciate my present nor enjoy the fruits which my future may bring.<br />
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Are you ready to leave my past behind, walk with me till we reach the end of this journey?<br />
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刺青 - 象徵著叛逆,流氓與邪惡,等等。<br />
不過,真是如此嗎?<br />
每一個刺青都述說一個故事,而我也知道故事不會停在這裡。<br />
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我只能說,你若以我的過去或你認為你眼前所看到的來對我下判斷,你就無法真正欣賞我的現在更不用說享用我的未來有可能帶來的果實。<br />
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你是否準備好拋開我的過去,與我同行直到旅程的終點?Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-77350222665483358552019-03-29T00:17:00.001+08:002019-03-29T00:17:56.111+08:00Keep making improvements! 持續進步!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">28/03/19 :-</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Take the leap, make the change!<br />Do something different!</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">跨出去,做改變!</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">做些不一樣的事!</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">My command of Chinese has always been better than that of English.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">I have wrote a couple short stories and more songs than I did for poems.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Never have I read poems books and got hooked on them.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Now that I have been introduced and got addicted, miracles happened.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">In a little more than 2 days, I've composed 2 English poems which took me less than 2 hours each to get them pen down.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">In the past, I used to write better after downing at last a glass of red wine.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">I reached a plateau when I decided to quit on alcohol.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">It took me around 6 months to get used to finding inspiration without the aid of alcohol.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">I used to think and always put myself in an extreme state of sadness to find great inspiration to pen down my thoughts into my stories or songs.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Never have I expect the power of absolute happiness gave me more inspiration than I got when I was at the lowest point of sadness.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Sometimes, you are really unsure of where something or someone would lead you to.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Just go with the flow and follow your heart.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">Magic would happen...</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">我對華文的掌握向來都比英文好。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.2px;">寫過幾篇</span><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">短篇小說與歌曲,詩歌卻是寥寥可数。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">也從未閱讀過詩歌選集的書並迷上的。</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">但現在經過介紹後上癮,奇蹟發生了。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">在少過兩天的時間,我每回花不到兩個小時的時間就已譜寫了兩首詩歌。</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">過去,我總是需要在灌下至少一杯紅酒後比較能夠寫作。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">但是決定徹底戒酒後的我遇到了停滯時期。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">好不容易花了將近六個月的時間,才習慣不利用酒精來尋找靈感。</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 13.2px;">曾經我也一直認為並故意讓自己陷入徹底悲傷的狀態以便尋找好靈感來把自己的思緒寫入故事或歌詞裡。</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">萬萬沒有料到絕對幸福的力量竟能夠比最低潮的悲傷給予我更多的靈感。</span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">有時,一件事或一個人能夠引導你到甚麼地方,你真的不確定。</span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">但順其自然並跟著你的心。</span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">魔力會發生。。。</span>Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-47551980427861845512018-10-15T23:18:00.002+08:002018-10-15T23:18:55.029+08:00Cancer can be prevented. 癌症是可以避免的。 <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Do you know between 30-50% of all cancer cases are preventable?<br />
I'm not some cancer research specialist, but merely sharing what I've heard and learnt from others.<br />
Valuable knowledge needs to be shared to be useful.<br />
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Check out WHO website on cancer prevention <a href="https://www.who.int/cancer/prevention/en/" target="_blank">here</a>!<br />
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Recently heard that a high cancer marker friend has started taking these 3 products and her cancer market dropped significantly when she went back for her doc review.<br />
Initially, she was supposed to go for womb removal surgery and now she can be spared of it.<br />
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I got interested to know more about these 3 products because my dad passed away because of cancer and we all know cancer is one of the top killers in Singapore.<br />
I have a lot of dreams and many people to take care of and definitely is not willing to be hit by cancer, thus prevention is always better than cure.<br />
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Ever since I've heard what my friend mentioned and through my own research on what individual product can do to help, I've been taking them diligently.<br />
However, supplements being supplements, they are not here to prevent or cure your illness.<br />
Keeping a healthy lifestyle and body still works best!<br />
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For more info on the products, check out below links.<br />
From left to right :-<br />
<a href="https://sg.shop.com/EAGLEIVAN/Prime+trade+Astaxanthin+Cardio+and+Visual+Vitality+Formula+-1064446886-p+.xhtml?credituser=C4595776" target="_blank">Prime™ Astaxanthin </a>- Supports cardiovascular health and promotes healthy vision.<br />
<a href="https://sg.shop.com/EAGLEIVAN/Timeless+Prescription+trade+Oxygen+Extreme+-1116734288-p+.xhtml?credituser=C4595776" target="_blank">Timeless Prescription™ Oxygen Extreme</a> - Provides strong antioxidant protection, supports a healthy liver and helps promote skin health.<br />
<a href="https://sg.shop.com/EAGLEIVAN/Curcumin+Extreme+trade+-1116734287-p+.xhtml?credituser=C4595776" target="_blank">Curcumin Extreme™</a> - Helps promote normal cell cycle activity and supports normal liver detoxification activity.<br />
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你是否知道 30-50% 的癌症病例是可以避免的?<br />
我並非甚麼癌症研究專家,純粹想要把自己聽到與學到的與大家分享。<br />
寶貴的知識要分享出去才有用。<br />
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通過世界衛生組織的<a href="http://www.who.int/cancer/prevention/zh/" target="_blank">網站</a>了解如何預防癌症!<br />
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最近聽說一位高癌症指數的朋友開始服用這3種產品後,回去接受醫學評估時,她的癌症指數顯著下降。<br />
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她原本應該去逕行切除子宮手術,現在她可以免去。<br />
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因為我父親是因癌症去世,而我們都知道癌症是新加坡其中排名最高的殺手之一,這便引起我有興趣去了解更多關於這三種產品的信息。<br />
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我有很多夢想和許多人還要照顧,絕對不願意被癌症相中,因此預防勝於治療。<br />
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自從我聽到了我的朋友的分享以及通過我自己對各個產品本身的議處加以研究,我就每天很勤勞地在服用。<br />
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然而,保養品終究只是保養品,它們不是為了預防或治愈您的疾病的。<br />
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保持健康的生活方式和身體仍然是最好的!<br />
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若想對產品有更深的了解可以點擊以下網址。<br />
左到右 :-<br />
<a href="https://sgzh.shop.com/Prime+trade+%E8%99%BE%E7%BA%A2%E7%B4%A0+%E5%81%A5%E5%BF%83%E6%98%8E%E7%9B%AE%E9%85%8D%E6%96%B9+-1514345978-p+.xhtml?credituser=R3334445" target="_blank">Prime™虾红素</a> - 支援心血管健康與促進視力健康。<br />
<a href="https://sgzh.shop.com/Timeless+Prescription+trade+Oxygen+Extreme%E5%B8%B8%E9%9D%92%E9%85%8D%E6%96%B9+-1514345996-p+.xhtml?credituser=R3334445" target="_blank">常青配方</a> - 提供強效的抗氧化保護,有助維護肝臟健康與有助維護皮膚健康。<br />
<a href="https://sgzh.shop.com/Curcumin+Extreme+trade+%E5%A7%9C%E9%BB%84%E7%B4%A0+-1514345861-p+.xhtml?credituser=R3334445" target="_blank">薑黃素</a> - 有助促進正常的細胞週期活動與支持正常的肝臟解毒活性。Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-87379459304480138192018-08-29T23:54:00.000+08:002018-08-30T23:31:05.534+08:00SSA Youth Summit 2018! SSA 青年峰會 2018!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Youth Summit as been over for a few days and I finally managed to settle down to blog about my feelings and thoughts.</div>
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Over the past 3-4 months of training, I have learnt and definitely gained a lot.</div>
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Through the discussion meetings, I have learnt more about this religion - Soka and it helps to build my faith in practicing, at the same time shares about this religion.</div>
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With the absolute victory of this Youth Summit, there are a lot of people I have to thank.</div>
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Firstly, it is my family who gave me both the emotional and physical support.</div>
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They accommodated my training hours by planning meal times around them and also came down on 22nd Aug 18 for the full dress rehearsal.</div>
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Half way through the show, it started raining heavily and they were drenched.</div>
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However, instead of complaining, they told me our performance was great!</div>
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Of course, not forgetting these friends who came to support me on 26th Aug 18.</div>
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Ariel, Tricia, Jade, Xinhui, Jaylce, Cindy and Yvaine.</div>
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There are friends who wished they could attend but had programs on, your sincere thoughts, I truly feel them all.</div>
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A big thank you to Joey who brought me into this religion, Jiayang and Shisong who took time off to have a dialogue with me.</div>
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All the trainers, especially Mac who encouraged me to practice the dance steps at home and Giorgios who offered extra training for those who have difficulties catching up.</div>
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Not forgetting Bernice, who saw the helpless me having difficulties turning my flag and demonstrated patiently while guiding me through the movements.</div>
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The coincidental discovery of my colleague, Xiaojing who happened to be a Soka member and the dialogue we had also helped to raise my faith in this religion.</div>
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Then there's Raymond who's there to provide words of encouragement at all training, the MD and WD who came down to provide us with refreshments, chanted and encouraged us for the Youth Summit.</div>
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Last but not least, all the back stage helpers, the youths who participated and the wonderful audience who make this Youth Summit an absolute success!!!</div>
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青年峰會結束了幾天,而我終於能夠靜下心來把自己的感受與想法放上部落格。</div>
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經過過去的三到四個月的訓練,我學習到很多並有著滿滿的收穫。<br />
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通過討論會議,我學習到很多關於創價這個宗教的知識,這也大大提升我對修行與分享這個宗教的信心。<br />
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青年峰會獲得絕對勝利這一事,我有好多想要感謝的人。<br />
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首先就是給予我心靈與實際支持的家人們。<br />
他們圍繞著我的訓練時間來安排一家人的吃飯時間並在八月二十二日總彩排當天親自到場支持我。<br />
節目進行到一半的時候,竟然下起滂沱大雨把他們都淋溼了。<br />
他們不但沒有向我發牢騷,還說我們的表演很棒!<br />
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當然也不能忘了在八月二十六日到場來支持我的朋友們。<br />
她們是 Ariel, Tricia, Jade, Xinhui, Jaylce, Cindy and Yvaine.<br />
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還有一群因為已經安排好節目而無法到場參與的朋友們,你們的真心祝福我已感受到了。<br />
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特別感謝 Joey 帶我入會,以及 Jiayang 與 Shisong 特地抽空與我進行對話。<br />
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當然還有勞苦功高的教練們,尤其是鼓勵我回家不斷練習舞步的 Mac 還有為那些跟不上的學員安排多餘訓練的 Giorgios.<br />
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也不忘當初看到無助的我在無奈地揮著旗子時,主動耐性地示範並帶著我揮動旗子的 Bernice.<br />
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那一場意外發現同事,曉靖也是創價學會的會員並與她的對話讓我對這個宗教的信念更大的提升。<br />
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還有就是每一次訓練都給予我們信心鼓勵的 Raymond 以及幫忙安排食物,為我們唱提與鼓勵我們的壯年與婦人部。<br />
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最後,也要感激幕後的所有工作人員,參與這次青年峰會的成員與前來觀賞的觀眾們,沒有你們青年峰會不可能圓滿地舉行!!!Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-80531543891074180872018-08-25T00:52:00.000+08:002018-08-25T00:52:53.365+08:00Prayers for others! 為他人唱題!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">當你為了他人</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">唱題</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">,你沒有藉口不施行!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">She mentioned that she was grateful that throughout her growing up years, other than having to chant for good results and passing all her exams </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">smoothly, </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">she has not encountered personal issues which required her to chant to resolve them.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">那一天起,我開始為別人</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">唱題而奇妙的事發生了。</span></div>
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Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-70409619285709254812018-06-28T23:57:00.004+08:002018-06-28T23:57:58.363+08:00Prove yourself, Strawberry Generation! 證明自己吧,草莓族!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;">Strawberry generation, have a strong mind and take positive actions!</span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">草莓族,思維要強並採取正面行動!</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;">A little incident happened this afternoon and I cannot help wondering.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;">Decided to blog a little thought so as to remind myself how to raise a strong kid in future.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">Entrepreneurship is never easy, everyone knows that.</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">I respect all start-up business as well, which is why I will attend any business presentations people ask me to evaluate.</span></span><br />
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"We do not know what we do not know." is something I strongly believe in.<br />
Not till you give somebody a chance to show you what you may not know or something you thought you know it all, do not assumed.<br />
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There is always something to learn from people around us.<br />
Even if what they showed you is not something you are interested in, I believe you will have some takeaway from the whole event.<br />
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Have an open mind and most importantly, play fair.<br />
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, it is not friendly to use your power or authority to create an unfair playing ground.<br />
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今天發生了一個小插曲讓我不自禁思考起來。<br />
決定把想法記錄下來以便提醒自己將來應該如何培育自己堅強的孩子。<br />
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創業不簡單,人人知曉。<br />
我尊重每一個新創的企業,這也是為何有人邀請我評估任何生意我都會參與分享會。<br />
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“我們不知道我們所不知道的。” 這是我秉持的原則。<br />
在你還未給他人一個機會展示一件你可能不知曉或覺得自己已經很了解的事物前,不要自我假設。<br />
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周遭的每個人都有值得我們學習的地方。<br />
即使他們展示的事物是你不感興趣的,從中一定也會學到些有用的知識。<br />
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保持一個開放的心態,更重要的是要公平競賽。<br />
每一個人都有發言的自由,濫用自己的權利或權威來營造一個不公平的環境非君子之行為。<br />
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Want to know if you fall into the generalization of Strawberry Generation based on the viewpoint of the author who wrote below article, check out the link below.<br />
想知道自己是否陷入以下文章的作者認為的一般草莓族,可以點擊網址。<br />
https://bit.ly/2yT2zP2Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-43335317790899477662018-04-09T00:02:00.000+08:002018-04-09T00:12:15.497+08:00有捨才有得。Give before you take.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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08/04/18 :-<br />
有捨才有得。<br />
Give before you take.<br />
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這句話是如此的簡單但如此地難以做到。<br />
最近在身邊發生了不少事情,也遇到了不少人,讓我有所感觸。<br />
有一部分的人在某種場合,考量某個決定,對待某些人時,腦海第一件事就是問,“這對我有甚麼好處?”<br />
為甚麼會是捨得而不是得捨就是因為在我們能夠割捨後才有可能得到。<br />
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本身帶有點 “多管閒事” 的自己總是學不會對別人的求助說不。<br />
在一年多前接觸了這個從台灣來的遊戲卡後,開始找身邊的朋友來個一對一的交流。<br />
續之前完成的<a href="https://bit.ly/2g0ZUIp" target="_blank">#project1983eagleivan</a> 之後,今年 2018 也給了自己一個新的挑戰就是要再次與83個人玩這副遊戲卡。<br />
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因為之前3個月忙著工作與其它瑣碎的事,進展的幅度不大,所以至今只玩了4 場。<br />
當我開始想要邀約朋友一起玩這遊戲卡時,遇到的問題就是,“你為甚麼要找我玩?有甚麼目的/理由?”<br />
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我相信施比受更有福,之前友人第一次跟我玩了之後,我獲益良多,所以想讓更多人從中受益。<br />
每一個人從這遊戲得到的收穫都不一樣,我也沒有辦法很詳細地讓你知道又或者保證你一定會得到些什麼。<br />
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而遇到那些堅信我一定是想從他們身上獲益的朋友,我唯一的理由或許也只是希望從你們的故事裡取得靈感。<br />
當我有時間能夠報名上小寒老師的專業歌詞班的課時,我能夠從回憶資料庫裡拿出你們的故事當作題材,希望寫出一些感人的歌。。。<br />
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你願意與我玩一場遊戲牌嗎? =)<br />
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This is such a simple statement yet so hard to achieve.<br />
I had several encounters and also met some people recently which gave me this thought.<br />
There are people where in certain occasions, making certain decisions or when dealing with certain people, the first thing which comes to mind is, "How is this going to benefit me?"<br />
I believe, there's a reason why we say "Give and Take" instead of "Take and Give"; only by giving will you be able to receive and take something.<br />
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With a "busybody" character, I find it pretty difficult to say no to other people's request for help.<br />
More than a year ago, after my first encounter with this set of cards from Taiwan, I started inviting friends to have a one-to-one exchange session with me.<br />
Following the <a href="https://bit.ly/2g0ZUIp" target="_blank">#project1983eagleivan</a>, I have set a new challenge for myself in year 2018, that is to play this set of cards with 83 people.<br />
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As I was caught up with work and other miscellaneous stuff in the first 3 months, progress was pretty slow and I only managed to play with 4 people.<br />
When I started to invite friends to play this card with me, a common question I was being asked, "Why do you want to play with me? What is your motive/reason?"<br />
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I believe that it's better to give than to receive, after my friend played with me for the first time, I felt that I benefited a lot from the game and is hoping to "pay it forward".<br />
Different people benefited differently from this game, thus I am unable to specifically let you know or guarantee what can you bring back from this.<br />
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Having met with some persistent friends who insisted that I must be wanting to gain something from them, the only reason I can give you is that I hope to gain inspiration from your stories.<br />
When I have the time to enroll in Teacher Xiao Han's professional lyrics writing course, I would then be able to retrieve from my memory jar and use your stories as inspiration, hoping to write some touching songs...<br />
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Are you willing to play a game of cards with me? =)Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-32611261517669476052018-02-14T01:22:00.003+08:002018-02-14T01:22:55.695+08:00Single ought to have a choice too. 單身也該有選擇。<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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14/02/18 :-</div>
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It's the day of the year once more...<br />
Ivan's target of getting married has been shifted from 30 to 35.<br />
In a blink of an eye...<br />
I am turning 35 this year.<br />
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Friends around me started asking and even "push" me to take whoever happens to come into my life.<br />
Same goes for other single friends of me receiving the same treatment from their friends as well.<br />
As much as we appreciate your sweet and kind thoughts, please note that we are happy you found the one and has someone to spend today with.<br />
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HOWEVER, JUST BECAUSE WE ARE STILL SINGLE, IT DEFINITELY DOESN'T MEAN WE OUGHT TO SIMPLY TAKE WHOEVER COMES ALONG, WE OUGHT TO HAVE A CHOICE TO CHOOSE RIGHT?<br />
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We would rather wait (in your eyes, wasting time) for the right one than having to mend our broken hearts over the wrong ones.<br />
So, while you are busy searching for ideas on the most romantic and worthwhile dinner dates, allow us to enjoy peaceful single moments.<br />
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My friend was just disturbing me that I know not how to say NO to people.<br />So, don't try to confess to me on this day.<br />
You may be the first to teach me how to say NO.<br />
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又是一年的這麼一天。。。<br />
家樂原定30歲要結婚的目標已移到35歲。<br />
就在一轉眼間。。。<br />
今年的我就35歲了。<br />
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周遭的朋友就開始追問並推我接受那些剛好進入我人生的人們。<br />
同樣的,我身邊其他單身的朋友也被他們的朋友如此對待。<br />
我們絕對感激你們的好意,我們也為你找到那一位能陪你度過今天的人而開心。<br />
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但是,我們雖然單身,不代表任何進入我們生命的人我們都應該接受,我們至少有選擇的權利吧?<br />
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我們寧願等待(在你眼裡的浪費時間) 對的人出現,也不願為了錯的人修復破碎的心。<br />
所以,在你忙著尋找浪漫與實惠的晚餐約會的當兒,請讓我們享受單身的平靜。<br />
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前幾天,友人作弄我說我學不會對他人說不。<br />
所以,請別在今天向我告白。<br />
你也許會是第一個教會我說不的人。Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12397758.post-7539201105555625072018-01-02T01:59:00.000+08:002018-01-02T01:59:13.021+08:00Life is unpredictable, treasure the moment! 生命無常,珍惜當下! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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02/01/18 :-<br />
Life is unpredictable, treasure the moment! <br />生命無常,珍惜當下!<br />
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I have seen a similar photo being forwarded in social media sometime ago.<br />
Since then, it has made me think a lot about life and I have wanted to blog about it.<br />
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However, time never seem enough for me to sit down and pen my thoughts down.<br />
So much has happened within a short span of time to people around me, I think it is high time I sit down to blog my feelings and thoughts.<br />
At the same time, hopefully it serves as a gentle reminder to the readers of this blog.<br />
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I bet most of us have always hold this thought in our minds, "I still have tons of time left, I can do this later (tomorrow, next week, month, year, etc)."<br />
It may be true today, tomorrow or next week.<br />
But, how long more can this sentence of "I still have time" stay true?<br />
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Even if we say the average lifespan of a person is 75 years old.<br />
What makes us think we really can do so?<br />
Have we truly give a thought on this?<br />
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When our mobile phones go out of battery, we can always charge it.<br />
Most of us never stop to think how much life battery do we have left.<br />
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Theoretically, children should outlive their parents.<br />
We ought to know in reality, things might not go as smoothly.<br />
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Take some quiet moments on your own and think about this.<br />
If I were to leave tomorrow,<br />
- Is there any family member or friend I wished I have met up with?<br />- Is there anyone I wish I have expressed my feelings for?<br />
- Do I have any apology I have yet to make or accept?<br />
- Are there any dreams I have not fulfilled?<br />
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We may not leave this world today, tomorrow or next week, but someday, we will.<br />
Do not leave this world with regrets.<br /><br />
I shall end with one of my fave songs of 2017 - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxhgY8GVwJ8" target="_blank">閻奕格 Janice Yan - 《閻羅王 Grim Reaper》</a><br />
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之前在社交媒體上就看過類似的照片被分享。<br />
當時的我思考了人生的好多事情,也一直想說把它寫到部落格裡。<br />
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可是,好像總是沒有足夠的時間讓我好好地坐下來把思緒給寫下來。<br />
不過在短短的時間內,在我周遭突然發生了太多的事情,我覺得是時候把我自己的感想與想法寫出來。<br />
同時,希望也能藉此提醒我部落格的讀者們。<br />
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想必我們很多人都常常這麼想,“我的時間還很多,這件事可以遲一點 (明天,下個星期,月,年等等) 再做。”<br />
今天,明天甚至下個星期,這也許是對的。<br />
但是一句,“我還有時間” 能夠說多久?<br />
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倘若我們假設一個人平均能夠活到75歲。<br />
你又憑甚麼認為我們真的可以做到?<br />
我們是否認真思考過這議題?<br />
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手機沒電時,我們可以為它充電。<br />
但是大多數的人們從未思考過自己的生命電力剩下多少。<br />
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理論上,孩子都應該比父母長命。<br />
但我們也應該知道,現實未必如此。<br />
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不妨一個人花點時間獨自安靜地去思考片刻。<br />
如果明天我即將離去,<br />
- 我是否有想見的家人或朋友卻遲遲沒有約出來?<br />
- 是不是有還未表白的對象?<br />
- 有沒有還沒說出或接受的道歉?<br />
- 有甚麼夢想還來不及實現嗎?<br />
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或許,今天,明天或下個星期,我們還不會離開人世,但總有一天我們會的。<br />
別帶著遺憾離開人世。<br />
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讓我以我在2017年其中一首我很喜歡的歌當作結尾 - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxhgY8GVwJ8" target="_blank">閻奕格 Janice Yan - 《閻羅王 Grim Reaper》</a>。Eagle Ivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03064237156507359224noreply@blogger.com0